Okay so me and this girl have been hanging out and pretty much just making out while her parents are out but id like to do something else and i know shed let me but i want some tips on fingering. Sorry if there was a thread like this earlyier i did a search but couldnt find any others. Ive tryed it with her but pretty much failed miserably at it so id really like to know what to do i dont have any lube or anything like that. Please i need some help here!!

make sure its not her ass.

Providing you are both comfortable with one another, why don't you ask her how she gets off best when fingering herself. Experiments are fun.

Then, you can teach her how to give you a proper handjob in return.

[This message has been edited by Whiteflame (edited 06-03-2004).]

Alright, I'm going to hook a brotha up and give you the down-low...first...you should NEVER need lube to finger the girl...try kissing her neck and letting your hands wander when you are making out with her. Do that for a few minutes before you even attemp to let your hands wander in her pants. Next, you will know the instant you put your hands down there if you are doing it right...she'll be wet...this is why you should never need lube. Concentrate on her clitoris making small circular motions applying more pressure little by little, again...you will know if you are doing this right by the looks and sounds she makes. Explore the entire area with your fingers before trying to finger-bang her...communicate "Am I doing that right?" "How can I make it feel better?" "Harder?" "Faster?" "Softer?" "Slower?" all very necessary when you are looking to get good. You will know when she is ready for you to go inside by whether or not she opens her legs up more or not. When this happens...and you really want her to like it, start with one finger...your index. If she is laying on her back, go palm up (or finger like a "come here" type of motion) and feel for something that feels like cordoroy...that is her g-spot, its bumpy and about the size of a dime or penny...once you thnk you find it, ask her, she'll be bale to tell you how it feels...and don't press hard to start...its a sensitive area. Communication is whats key here, and remember this is all for her, and chances are if you do exactly how I said, you will be getting something out of it too. Hope that helps ya dude, good luck!

One more thing...it may be embarrassing to ask her, but she will REALLY appreciate it and thats how I got so good at it...

Don't listen to him, just jam as many fingers as you can into her at once. She will love it. Go for the entire fist!

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

Don't listen to him, just jam as many fingers as you can into her at once. She will love it. Go for the entire fist!

hahaha, yeah that always works too...but seriously, listen to me...

Wow you guys are quick to respond!! Thanks for the advice i needeed it bad because like i said i tryed it but it had well a bad effect on the mood.

how did you "ruin the mood"? Wrong hole?

Another tip: make sure you cut your fingernails beforehand

Not jsut cut, trim, make sure they are smooth, because a jagged short finger nail is even worse than a partially smooth long one.

quote:Originally posted by Radical_Extreme:

how did you "ruin the mood"? Wrong hole?

Another tip: make sure you cut your fingernails beforehand

no not the wrong hole but she just get all awkard because my finger nails wernt trimmed. And stuff like that.

quote:Originally posted by Twiggy:

make sure its not her ass.

no! make sure it is her ass, i guarantee success.

no -do both. back and front that's the key. and if you can tease her nipple with your tongue at the same time ....WOW

ps. it is really important that your nails are smooth and clean cos toxic shock can kill-no joke

[This message has been edited by henteichicken (edited 06-03-2004).]

mmm, toxic shock... make sure u take your finger out when your done to prevent that also.

If I were you I would just block out all of the previous posts. They all seem to be only half correct.

I'm not going to really go into it, but just move around. Feel around. It's pretty unlikely that you'll find her clit specifically, so just make broad stroaks around the area until you get a reaction from her. Keep a sort of consistancy when you're rubbing around.

Don't try and pretend like you're a veteran, but don't ask her a bunch of stupid shit while she's trying to feel good. Chill out and let it flow.

P.S. Undoing her pants will help imensly.

Thanks y'all, I covered everything BUT fingernails...I don't usually think about fingernails though when doing that, mine are usually well kept...but yeah...trim and file them the best you can...have some girl do it for you...they are the best at that kinda stuff

Yea, very important to keep you nails trimmed neatly. You wouldn't want the feeling of a rusty wood screw rubbing against YOUR sensitive areas now would you?

How do you know if your fingers are trimmed enough, I just trimed mine and my fingers are still rough, so to speak.

Find the one thats the most jagged, and stick it in your ass, if its too rough, file it down, repeat for the rest of the fingers.

It's really the only way of knowing.

Will do....

*ow*

*file*

*ow*

*file*

etc...

etc

You got it! Now, get to work, Heres some lube

*tosses bilzo crusty hairy can of vaseline*

Have fun!

Have any of you actually fingered a girl? Or fucked for that matter?

You don't go asking them shit if it's the first time that you guys have ever done anything like that and especially if it is the first time for the both of you doing anyhitng at all. You should just slide ur hands down there and wait till you get to no hair and is wet and soft or a wet spot that is really soft if she shaves. Then the second time you can ask questions but she will be feeling you (figuraTively)the first time so whatever you do is right.

What are you by the way 12?

^^14, thanks for all the posts you guys are great thanks alot!!!

One more question whats a good way to I duno like do some thing with her breasts. Like while were making out because I want to do something but I dont wana just sit there and rub them if there is something that I can be doing that will make her want to do more. Well you get the idea..I hope.

nipple clamps!!!!

It.. should.. come... natural... aaahhh..

You people are weird sometimes. Listen, you won't learn unless you try yourself, and sure, tips people have generously posted here will help, but it's a hands-on kind of thing, if you know what I mean. So yeah.. just don't tense up because you'll tense up even more if you tense up and feel like a shit monkey for tensing up in the first place. Shit I forgot what my point was.. oh well, it's aaaaalllll goooooooodd.... .....

quote:Originally posted by STORMofDEATH:

nipple clamps!!!!

aw man i saw that shit in agerman porno once............. fucked up shit

if someone asked me 8 million goddamn questions while they were giving me a hand, so to speak, i would get pissed.

You should be able to judge whether or not your doing something right by the girl's reaction. If she bites her lip, moans, closes her eyes, etc. you're doing something right. If she sits there like a log you're doing something wrong.

First of all, as someone said before, foreplay is everything. Kiss her on the mouth, obviously, bite her lower lip gently, kiss her neck, try dragging your teeth across her neck as well. Bite gently on her earlobe and flick your tongue across it. Put your hand up her shirt and caress her breast, roll her nipple between your foreinger in thumb.

If you're lying down pull her shirt up and lick concentric circles around her nipple, close your teeh on it carefully and flick it roughly with your tongue. Place your knee between her legs and apply pressure to her crotch while your feeling her up. Most importantly gauge her reaction, if she enjoys it continue and expand on it, if she doesn't move on.

Once she's good and wet kiss her on the mouth while undoing her pants, takes some practice but it's well worth it. Slide your hand down over her underwear and rub with two fingers, make sure to pay attention to her clit, which, in case you didn't know, is the little bud at the top of her vagina. Press and roll it with a finger or two.

After a bit of over the underwear slide your middle finger, or whichever s most comfortable for you, for me it's the middle, inside her. Move it around in circles as this stimulates a great deal of the tissue inside her. Make a come here motion with your finger against the rough spot about 2 inches inside her on the top of the vagina, that's usually a good one. After she's loosened up a bit slide your ring finger in two and continue. Again the most important part of the act is to watch her reaction, and don't forget the clit.

hope that long winded bit helped

If you reach down for some melted butter, and grab a stick get out or there quick....

Ya your right jojabr it should come nautural but instead of tons of trials and erros id rather have as few as possible in a situation like this. I think the best way to learn is with trial and error but its not always the most enjoyable. The Misfit thanks for your help im going to need it!! You guys have been really helpful thanks a ton!!

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

Don't listen to him, just jam as many fingers as you can into her at once. She will love it. Go for the entire fist!

LOL that made me laugh.

assplay, as your fingering, stick a finger in her ass. all the chicks ive done that too have loved it, and they come back and tell me that other guys are afraid to do it. Get over it, a stinky finger is no match for having a chick that is willing to do anything to please you.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

assplay, as your fingering, stick a finger in her ass. all the chicks ive done that too have loved it, and they come back and tell me that other guys are afraid to do it. Get over it, a stinky finger is no match for having a chick that is willing to do anything to please you.

Sure helps if they wash down their regularly, though. You think an unwashed cunt is bad? This is worse.

quote:Originally posted by Rico:

Sure helps if they wash down their regularly, though. You think an unwashed cunt is bad? This is worse.

i wouldnt hook up with a chick that didnt wash there. Its pretty obvious just by their character if they do or not, and if your not sure a few well thought and leading/directing statements and questions can reveal it. And its also hard to wash the inside of your ass, so your fingers gonna smell anyways. Smell doesnt bother me that bad anymore, hell i loved waking up smelling like women,whiskey,and weed.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

hell i loved waking up smelling like women,whiskey,and weed.

Hehehe 'women' is a nice way to put it, but of course you actually end up smelling like shit Seriously though it's usually not that bad, and I agree with whiteass that it's worth it, especially if they haven't experienced it before.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

...women,whiskey,and weed...



Thatd make a pretty catchy saying. Or maybe a quote to live by like in that one thread in superious.

quote:Originally posted by STORMofDEATH:

nipple clamps!!!!



WAHOOOOOOOOOOO!

quote:Originally posted by HeavymetalRock:



Thatd make a pretty catchy saying. Or maybe a quote to live by like in that one thread in superious.

yea, i love that quote. i came up with it one night thinking of a tattoo design. As far as i know its original. But its now tattooed on my left shoulder blade, heart with a ribbon wrapping around it that says "weed, whiskey, and women"

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

yea, i love that quote. i came up with it one night thinking of a tattoo design. As far as i know its original. But its now tattooed on my left shoulder blade, heart with a ribbon wrapping around it that says "weed, whiskey, and women"

Hahaha that kicks ass!! You should copy right it and put it on a shirt and sell it!!

shocker!

put ur pinkie in her asshole and ur index finger and middle finger in her cunt...

give her the shocker!!!!!!!!!!



||n| get what i meen !

TWO IN THE PINK ONE IN THE STINK!

Haha for some reason i got a laugh out of that. Haha... two in the pink one in the stink..haha funny..