okay my g/f wants me to go down on her and im happy to oblige but the only place we can do stuff is in her car. (you know we just park somewhere and fool around). we tried this the other day and its really akward. there is no way to do it without her pants compltely off and it makes her really uncomfortable ( plus cause of daylight savings time its usually at least a little daylight) She get really nervous about being mostly naked so any help or other positions we could use to make it more comfortable?

skirt?

she's not much of s "skirt" person. she's just really self conscious about her legs (its not like shes fat or something) so its actually suprising she wants me to go down on her cuz of how she feels about them.

You need to invest in a blanket and find a remote place that isn't likely to be frequented by anybody, most especially cops. Then go for it.

i hate girls like that. i really do. either get naked and let me do my thing, or don't bother. tell her to quit with the self conscious bullshit because it's not becoming.

quote:Originally posted by EyeSore:

i hate girls like that. i really do. either get naked and let me do my thing, or don't bother. tell her to quit with the self conscious bullshit because it's not becoming.

exactly

If a girl was ready to have sex with you and you couldn't bring yourself to get naked, imagine her reaction. Mutual nakedness is a core part of the trust relationship formed during sex, and if she is unwilling to reveal her body to you, she should not expect a healthy sexual relationship. You really need to sort this issue out; you can't have sex with the girl wearing a tracksuit or something for the rest of your life.

quote:Originally posted by comradeSKATER:

she's not much of s "skirt" person.

niether is MY gf, but she'll gladly wear one if she knows it'll get her fingered in the theater, etc.

just tell her: "the only way this is going to happen is if you A) take your pants off, or B) wear a skirt. if you want me to do something for you, you have to help at least a little.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

skirt?

You are a genius.

quote:Originally posted by Lilly:

You need to invest in a blanket and find a remote place that isn't likely to be frequented by anybody, most especially cops. Then go for it.

Also a good idea.

Also helps to make use of the car as much as possible (if it really is your only option)

I remember hating how my parents made me drive the volvo wagon cause it was built like a tank..then suddenly I didn't mind it so much.. lol

As far as being naked... its going to happen eventually so either try to get her to suck it up and just deal until she doesn't mind so much, or help her become more comfortable with it(a skirt is a great idea as sort of a mid-way compromise)

thanks everyone. its not that she is nervous about being naked in front of me (we both are exposed all the time) i think its just being ncomfortable about the location. we'll just find a really secluded place to ensure no onlookers. by the way thanks for that blanket idea also.

quote:Originally posted by comradeSKATER:

(we both are exposed all the time)

hahaha

...sorry

its cause im very comfortable naked anywhere. she's only comfortable naked around me.

i fucked my g/f in school today..and you cant fuck properly in the car?

quote:Originally posted by reptanoolied:

i fucked my g/f in school today..and you cant fuck properly in the car?



If you really did that i have great respect for you. . . Where did you do that?

Try to find a place were you can do it. Try the movies bathroom when it is real late. Just hide in a stall with her.