Help! We've been going out for a little over a month... I really like her, she enjoys my company... and she doesn't know, but I'm getting this strong feeling like she's bisexual based on her belonging to a blogring entitled "lesbians/bisexuals (girls only)" and the little jokes with her best friend (calling each other "lovers") that she thinks I don't notice...

I'm not bi. Does this mean she's going to dump me for a chick?? What do I do/not do? Should I not be worrying so much?

Look at the situation logically, your girlfriend MAYBE bisexual yes? "bi" means both males and females, so chances are you won't get dumped for a gal (but if you do don't blame me), and the only real advantage is that she may be up for the idea of having a threesome. Well thats the only real advantage, and if you're a jealous bastard (like me) then theres no advantages at all. nothing to worry about though.

yea it hit me after I clicked submit that if she is bi/bicurious whatever then she probably wants a threesome... and I didn't know what to think. Would I want that? I think I'm more of a traditional sex kind of guy...

she's going to tell me about it eventually, and then we'll have to start discussing it. until then, I have no way of knowing what to do/how to feel. I mean... I wouldn't want her doing a chick? is that sexual oppresion or expected loyalty on my part? goddamn it.. she's the bi one but I'm the more confused

Lucky you. But she might not even be bi.

Okay, I know what you can do. It's really simple. Go to Texas. Buy a gun (it's really easy there). Load said gun. Shoot yourself in the face for being such a dumbass.

quote:Originally posted by techo:

Does this mean she's going to dump me for a chick??

If you treat her like shit or she gets bored of you, that's a possibility. But why does this matter?

quote:Originally posted by techo:

yea it hit me after I clicked submit that if she is bi/bicurious whatever then she probably wants a threesome...

Bahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Just because she's bicurious doesn't mean she's up for some kinky shit. My ex-girlfriend is bi, but she never wanted to do anything more than make out with other girls.

Before you had to worry bout other guys. Now you have to worry bout everyone. Good luck ya shmuck

Yeah, mah new woman (the one of the thread of a little while ago) is bi. It's pretty cool because we can like make out/do other boyfriend girlfriend things, then we can talk about chicks. She's like a great guy friend and girlfriend at the same time. And she's really hot.

-rage

congratulations, next step is a threesome with her best friend.

goddamn it you guys aren't helping. I don't want at threesome. I want a girlfriend I can be a boyfriend to.

oh and I don't want to shoot myself in the face.

I was half helpful wasn't I?

hi tech . i don't see where your problem is then i sleep with girls often yet would never dream of leaving my b/f nor of suggesting a 3-some.(well i did once suggest a 3'er but the result was one angry b/f etc)

just cos a girl like to play with other girls says nothing about her relationship with her man.

and maybe your g/f just likes the idea of bisexuality but will never try it for real.

so quit worrying,

that actually makes me feel better thanks

I would ask her, I think it would hurt you more if she broke up with you later because she found a love interest with her lesbian friend.

I would break up with her now if she says she's bisexual.

I would personally rather have a girl who is devoted to men, rather then feel like less of a man when she decides to become "lesbian" for a few days.

Fuck, you guys are a bunch of ignorant fucks. Do you honestly think that because she has a larger potential dating pool, she's more likely to dump you? Is that how the world works? Do you stay with her because you don't know that many other girls who would take you? If she's going to dump you, she's going to dump you. It doesn't matter for whom.

And being bisexual does not mean she wants a threesome. If she does, it means she probably doesn't think shit of your relationship. But aparently you don't either, so I guess it's a non-issue

^^^ omg are you feeling ill carbon? did you take some of those fuuny pills again? cos that was a considered,thought out and nay even helpful answer!

wow - i disagree however i could understand a man feeling the way you describe.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

I would ask her, I think it would hurt you more if she broke up with you later because she found a love interest with her lesbian friend.

I would break up with her now if she says she's bisexual.

I would personally rather have a girl who is devoted to men, rather then feel like less of a man when she decides to become "lesbian" for a few days.

Wow, you're a REAL man.

quote:Originally posted by techo:

I don't want at threesome. I want a girlfriend I can be a boyfriend to.



What are you, gay?

yes, citizenuzi, clearly. thank you for clarifying, that solves everything.

asshole

to glitterpunk, how is it that I don't think shit of the relationship?

quote:Originally posted by citizenuzi:

What are you, gay?



yeah, the first thing i woulda done is came home and spanked it for 45 minutes just thinking about her bi sexuality. what? i'm a guy, fuck that!

quote:Originally posted by techo:



to glitterpunk, how is it that I don't think shit of the relationship?

You think she'll just up and leave you in favor of a chick. You must not think much of the relationship. She's no more likely to leave you for a girl than a guy.

Dude that's tight. Think of the possiblities with a bisexual girlfriend.

But then on the other hand you might just be thinking too fucking much.

it's not that I think she will at all, I was just wondering if it's something boyfriends who find out their girlfriends are bi-curious should worry about in general. I don't have many bi anything friends...

SHE asked ME out in the first place btw

your a guy, you have a penis, your girlfriend is bisexual...i dont see a conflicting arguement here. Ive had many bisexual girlfriends in the past, do i care if they go out there and make out, finger, lick other girls? hell no, but if she does i ask her to videotape it or get pictures. Support her bisexualism. You dont want a threesome? no your just scared of a threesome. My advice, get the fuck over it. THe only thing your going to get accomplished by this whining and worrying about your girlfriends bisexuality is the act of her dumping your bitch ass.

hey dumbass, every girl is bi deep down inside

So, no one's sympathetic to my silly not-wanting-my-girl-to-fuck-other-people idea.

..?

Quit Bitchin you lucky Bastard......

quote:Originally posted by techo:

So, no one's sympathetic to my silly not-wanting-my-girl-to-fuck-other-people idea.

..?

give her to me...i'll let her live out her fantasies...

sick world

quote:Originally posted by techo:

So, no one's sympathetic to my silly not-wanting-my-girl-to-fuck-other-people idea.

..?

1) What does her sexuality have to do with her fucking others?

2) Monogomy sucks anway.

um if she's bisexual then she'll never be entirely happy with a single person (assuming almost everyone is either fully male or fully female) right

For all the nerds who are saying they would just want to have threesome's all the time?

That's all fine and well when you are fucking 12, but as you get older you start to realize you would like to enjoy someone's company not just for sexually reasons.

I think Bisexuals have a tendancy to be unfaithful! This is caused from them thinking it is okay to have sex with 2 different sexes.

I am hoping that you realize this and you will immediately bring it up. There are lots of girls out there, hopefully not bisexual and you can hook up with one of them.

quote:Originally posted by techo:

um if she's bisexual then she'll never be entirely happy with a single person (assuming almost everyone is either fully male or fully female) right

Wow, you really are ignorant. I'm bisexual and have never had trouble being monogomous, in fact, I prefer it. I've had partners cheat on me who weren't bisexual, but I've never cheated.

I think "GlitterPunk" should take a suicide pill for having the most generic possible web handle besides "SexGoddess2032" or "BrilliantAngel254". Besides, she's definitely *not* bisexual, since she's only 14.

quote:Originally posted by theBishop:

I think "GlitterPunk" should take a suicide pill for having the most generic possible web handle besides "SexGoddess2032" or "BrilliantAngel254". Besides, she's definitely *not* bisexual, since she's only 14.

Erm... I don't remember if you're a complete dumbass or if you understand that my handle is intentionally generic and stupid. I actually wish people would stop giving me shit for that. I couldn't think of a screenname that didn't involve the words Rusty and Cunt (my nickname is Rusty Cunt for piercing my labium with a nail). So I thought of something stupid and generic, then threw on my standard 112358 to the end of it. I assumed it would be obvious that no person would choose a name like GlitterPunk in full seriousness. That's like SurferChica (which I also considered).

A lot of people go through sexual confusion before they hit 18, sometimes even into college... so she's probably one of them. No offence GlitterPunk, but I believe that you are likely to settle on mostly straight or mostly gay in the next few years (I don't think anybody is 'completely' gay/straight)

damn I've been called ignorant, stupid, asshole (and a few others?) just for caring about my relationship

I would not have posed the question if I was not ignorant on this topic, please forgive me

quote:Originally posted by Rico:

A lot of people go through sexual confusion before they hit 18, sometimes even into college... so she's probably one of them. No offence GlitterPunk, but I believe that you are likely to settle on mostly straight or mostly gay in the next few years (I don't think anybody is 'completely' gay/straight)

That's lovely dear, but neither of us know what's going to happen in a few years. I could be dead in a few years. what I know is how I feel right now. And as of this moment I am bisexual. And I have felt this way for pretty much as long as I've had sexual feelings. Maybe I'll turn gay, maybe I'll turn into a horse. But I'm a bisexual human right now

I used to be bi, and yes, it did make me cheat more, because I thought it was ok. I am now with a bi girl, we both know eachothers historys. We both worry about the other going and fucking the same sex. We don't accuse, but just make jokes, but we are both very uncomfortable with the others gay pasts.

I worry about it sometimes, but I realize that she loves me, I am good to her, I make her cum so hard that she tears my back up, and screams like a fucking banshee, and I do everything in my power to make sure that she is happy.

Her experience was when she was like 14 or 15, and mine was from 16-19, After I met her, I realized I don't like guys, just the anal stimulation. I actually hated to be with a guy. Guys are generally ugly as fuck, including myself.

EDIT:

It's a damn shame that shes not into anal at all. For me or for her.

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Ok, techo, I'll attempt to reiterate what GlitterPunk said, because she has some valid points (unfortunatly it was muddled by her anger):

Ok, now think of this situation: You are in a bar with your girlfriend. You are extremely happy to be with her and she feels the same way. All of the sudden a gorgeous blond girl walks into the bar, shes completely alone and looks like she could use the company. Now just because she walked in, are you more likely to screw over your girlfriend just to have one night of sex? Hopefully, no.

Thats exactly how your girlfriend is, except instead of one girl its a smoking hot guy and girl.

Just because her dating pool is larger doesn't mean shes more sexually active/more likely to cheat. It just means shes more accepting of other things.

While everyone else here is saying that a possible bonus of this is a threesome, they obviously don't know what they're talking about. Just because shes bi that doesn't make her accepting all things. She could be just as jelous as you.

And don't listen to Stupid Noob, as his name suggests hes not the best advice giver. His willingness to cheat didn't stem from the bi-sexuality, but rather the lack of moral character that drove him to cheat.

Yeah, you are right, it was my lack of morales. I guess it just seemed like it was because I was bi, because, well, I didn't have any morals at that time.

I still don't have many morals at all, but I have one, where I won't cheat, I love her too much to hurt her. And, yeah, if you want a serious relationsship, can that corny ass 3some shit. It's something to be tried, but not with one you love. It will ruin shit.

EDIT: you are so smart for refering to my name, and trying to insult me. Wow, that was fucking original.

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quote:Originally posted by techo:

yea it hit me after I clicked submit that if she is bi/bicurious whatever then she probably wants a threesome...

because all bisexual people immediately want to have threesomes...man do i love stereotypes

I didn't actually think that she'd want a threesome, hell I don't want a threesome, but it was an idea I couldn't help thinking if just for a second.

the thing is I haven't talked to her about the bisexual possibility yet... I'm kinda afraid to...?

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You youngsters don't approach sex in a manner even approaching maturity. You *think* your girlfriend *might* be bisexual (she isn't) and the first thing that pops into your head is "now she's going to break up with me" and the second is "she'll probably want to have a threesome now". I have to leave this country. I don't blame you so much as a blame the suits responsible for hypnotizing you that way, but still. One day you're going to be 40. Unless you're dead like GlitterPunk1423423523.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Okay, I know what you can do. It's really simple. Go to Texas. Buy a gun (it's really easy there). Load said gun. Shoot yourself in the face for being such a dumbass.

Thank God someone else said it before I did.

(like I even come here that often, it's questions like that that keep me away)

Um I'm doing my best. Yes, there's a real possibilty of her bisexuality, but so too there is the likelihood of it being a phase, nothing to worry about, nothing to worry about even if it's not a phase, but that's not the point. I'm trying to understand the situation is all.. I didn't expect to be born with such knowledge, and although there's a lot of things we an blame on the country (agree with you there), how is this one of them?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

For all the nerds who are saying they would just want to have threesome's all the time?

That's all fine and well when you are fucking 12, but as you get older you start to realize you would like to enjoy someone's company not just for sexually reasons.

I think Bisexuals have a tendancy to be unfaithful! This is caused from them thinking it is okay to have sex with 2 different sexes.

I am hoping that you realize this and you will immediately bring it up. There are lots of girls out there, hopefully not bisexual and you can hook up with one of them.

i agree completely. the problem with bi teens [adults tend to be more faithful] is taht because they're so constantly horny, they...don't always see that making out with someone of hte same sex is still cheating. i'm not saying this applies to everyone, but if i were you i'd be worried.

i kinda take a stance with the guys i date: cheat once, if you tell me about it, we'll talk about it and if we come out ok then you get a second chance. cheat twice, you're gone for good. if he has a past of cheating w/ other girls, then he gets ONE chance only.

you really need to talk to her, techno. and yeah, i sympathize.

It doesnt really matter much, as long as she is commited to you. The problem starts when she starts to wander and not only becomes physically attached to a girl, but emotionally as well. And that is as good as cheating on me in my books...cause well she is. I dont care if it's a girl or a guy, it still feels the same. But you shouldnt worry about it man.

quote:Originally posted by redemption:

It doesnt really matter much, as long as she is commited to you. The problem starts when she starts to wander and not only becomes physically attached to a girl, but emotionally as well. And that is as good as cheating on me in my books...cause well she is. I dont care if it's a girl or a guy, it still feels the same. But you shouldnt worry about it man.

Being attracted to someone is cheating? Damn, you're a hardass

i would seriously just dump her dood. in my jaunt across this bluegreen ball i call the world, ive found that bi girls are fucked up.

look at it prudently: youre hosing this bitch right? ok, shes learning about men. but shes not learning about women. and she wants to. itll only take one of her friends giving the go ahead, and shell cheat on you right then. this bitch might be someone to know in a serious way in a few years, but not now. shes got alot of leg licking to do, and shell do it no matter the cost. perhaps, in a few years, and maybe not ever, shell be trustworthy. but she isnt now, and by staying with her you are showing you are WEAK. bite the bullet and dump her.

but, lets be real, you should fuck her a few more times then dump her. gotta look out for number 1.

if she sleeps with another woman then that doesn't mean she's cheating on him!

it's just a bit of fun cos no matter how good a boy is he will never lick clit like a girl can!

quote:Originally posted by henteichicken:

if she sleeps with another woman then that doesn't mean she's cheating on him!

it's just a bit of fun cos no matter how good a boy is he will never lick clit like a girl can!

unless said boy listens and is taught by a woman

^^^^ maybe but i doubt it cos he can never know how it feels.

however the fact you said that means maybe you have learnt some good stuff!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

For all the nerds who are saying they would just want to have threesome's all the time?

That's all fine and well when you are fucking 12, but as you get older you start to realize you would like to enjoy someone's company not just for sexual reasons.

I think Bisexuals have a tendancy to be unfaithful! This is caused from them thinking it is okay to have sex with 2 different sexes.

I am hoping that you realize this and you will immediately bring it up. There are lots of girls out there, hopefully not bisexual and you can hook up with one of them.

^ Didn't mean to do that.

Hentai shut up.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:



Hentai shut up.

hmmmm i love it when you're so masterful

*happy girl*

hentei, you are FUCKED UP. its cheating regardless of what sex the other person is.



and i know some guys who can lick clit pretty damn well, so just because your BOYFRIEND has no talent doesnt mean teh rest of the male world doesnt either.

Techo: Just because your gf's bi doesn't mean she'll cheat on you. Cheaters are cheaters, and some will use their sexuality for an excuse. Don't worry, but do TALK TO HER before you make any more assumptions.

GP: Lighten up! *cue PMS joke* The guy starts to question his assumptions on sex and affection IN A FORUM ON SEX AND AFFECTION, and you tell him to go kill himself. Good job. Read hentai's first post in this thread to see why he might have made that assumption.

Rico: I'm 23, and I've known I'm bi for the last ~11 years. You might want to rethink your little assumption. Just because bisexuals don't like just one gender, doesn't mean we're confused. It means the rest of you are.

hentai is the reason why male/female relations are at there absolute worst, and why marriage is becoming a joke institution.

but, being a fan on entropy, i cant help but encourage her blind self interest and complete lack of regaurd for other ppl. it all serves my purpose, which is complete destruction to a time where the most violent survive and everyone else is used and thrown away.

quote:Originally posted by Tesseract:

Rico: I'm 23, and I've known I'm bi for the last ~11 years. You might want to rethink your little assumption. Just because bisexuals don't like just one gender, doesn't mean we're confused. It means the rest of you are.

I apologise for coming off like I was generalising, it's just something I've experienced a lot. I'm not saying ALL bisexuals will go completely polarised, just that quite a few of them will, and that not all bisexuals in their early teens or so are going to be like that for the rest of their life. I don't think you are confused, especially at the age of 23 - most people have settled upon a sexual preference by then.

With regards to being confused...there are a lot of people confused in TOTSE

No worries. I think I was being a little sensitive anyway.

Out of curiosity, have you ever heard of the kinsey scale?

Forget the sex part.

In the end, when yer 110 years old and not having sex anyway(although who knows at the rate of medicine these days..) you areeither going to die all alone and miserable or happily with someone you have shared a wonderful life with.

Stop worrying about if she will leave you for another girl, or another guy, and start being the best damn person to her you can be.

And yes I believe girl-on-girl is cheating. To me personally, receiving pleasure romantically or sexually from another person (male or female) is considered cheating. Except of course special situations like threesomes where it seems to be agreed that receving pleasure from this other person at this time is ok.

It's exactly the same as if she were straight. Except then she'd leave you for a guy. She's with you, right? What else matters?

quote:Originally posted by Tesseract:

No worries. I think I was being a little sensitive anyway.

Out of curiosity, have you ever heard of the kinsey scale?

*Googles* I have now. Agrees with my views certainly, and I've seen it used a lot (e.g. Channel4.com's "How Gay Are You" quiz which returns a percentage). Not sure if I can swallow "60% of all men had some type of homosexual relationship before they were age 16", though.

quote: Not sure if I can swallow "60% of all men had some type of homosexual relationship before they were age 16", though.

no i can't either. although what do they class as a 'homosexual relationship'? does having a 'best friend ' count as a relationship...even if there is no physical side to the friendship?

most of the boys i have known had a best mate who they valued sometimes more than a girlfriend.

haven't read the rest of the posts, but, don't worry, í've been havin a relationship with a bi girl for over 2 years

pro's: maybe threesome's

against bi's: there is twice as much compitition

ohw.......never PUSH them for a threesome, they hate that

quote:Originally posted by Rico:

...Not sure if I can swallow "60% of all men had some type...

Nice!

From what I've heard, a relatively high percentage of bi girls are more likely to cheat/dump you for someone else. However, based on the fact that only I really know this girl and I'm increasingly confident about our relationship with every day, I'd say I don't really have anything to worry about.

Just, at first, knowing little about bisexuality, it was kinda weird for me to put two and two together after seeing how close she is with her best friend (female) and THEN seeing the 'lesbians/bisexuals (girls only)' blogring... I really just wanted to make sure that bisexuality doesn't necessitate a higher percentage of cheating, etc.

I think she's startin to reeally love me, so..

it's all good, thanks guys

Yeah, never push for the threesome, it will piss them off and make them look elsewhere, and you won't be included.

I consider my girl my best friend, she is the only one that I trust, and the only one that I have serious conversation with. She is who I wake up to, and she is who I go to sleep with, every day for the past 2 years, and for the rest of my life.

She was bi, as was I, but we both got it out of our systems before we met, and haven't had any problems thus far.

But yeah, it still feels like double competition either way, whether you are happy and secure or not. Everyone looks at good looking people, and it makes you wonder if she is checking out the same chick you are.

Edit: Oh yeah, hentei, shut up, you are just a little slut. Cheating is cheating.

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using the national conversational tool, AIM:

me: you are so good to me

me: you're like

me: a medicine

me: that I've needed all my life

her: aww

me: :-)

her: well im stayin

her: dont you worry

her: =]

like she knew exactly what I wanted her to say

Well your still, LIKE gay.

Tesseract, heh, I was waiting for someone to catch that.

And I think it is worth repeating: just because she's bi doesn't mean there's twice the competition! If she's sick of you, or you just don't compare to her 'standards', she's leaving you anyways. Remember that the 'extra girls' added to the pool of potential pussy pickers will (supposedly) have to be bi as well! That limits it quite a bit (or maybe by only 40%, if you believe what you read).

quote:She is who I wake up to, and she is who I go to sleep with, every day for the past 2 years, and for the rest of my life.-stupid noob



that's real nice-like it

As someone said earlier "all girls are bi deep down" to re-phrase that. everyone is deep down. Gay is like the word tall... everythings tall. it just depends how much.

-Fry

quote:

that's real nice-like it [/B]



Was that sarcasm?

no it wasn't i meant it honestly and 100% sincerely. hope you've told her how you feel.

ps.you're still a jerk but hell who here isn't?

OK, she told me. Yes, she likes chicks.

Man this is awkward as hell.

She's like.. sex-crazed in the same way a guy is. She's not prude at all, I'm discovering. Uh-ooh

the only akward thing here is your feelings! thats what makes this tough, not the actual situation.

i told you what would happen, and it scoming true. now your getting a whiff of it. and your starting to doubt yourself.

dump her bro. every day that goes by, you are just showing your weakness. are you one of those guys that will eat a ton of shit just to have a GF around?

No, it's not just MY feeling that are awkward here, she's feeling pretty weird too because until now she thought I had no idea. She was telling me how there have been times when she hasn't liked guys at all. . . I think we're going to jointly and well-intentionedly break it off today.

dude take advantage!

saweet! dude you found gold!*nods*yeah man,bi gf's are wicked as!that shit with her friend calling each other lovers,usually turns into foolin around.plus,if shes a real fuckin gem,she will occasionally find another bi chick to bring home!wooo! but one day she will get with a chick in your bushes and that just aint cool man the rule is share man and then ya get pissed off coz the other chick was your best mate so ya dump the bitch.hmmm.i think i have some issues about my x that i need to sort out.*walks away mumbling

WTF THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM?

Ask if she wants a threesome with her bestmate, man that wud be so fucking HOT

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This has probably been mentioned, but I couldn't be arsed with reading this whole thread.

Unless she is ugly/butch, she is faking. All these hot young lesbians just want attention. It's trendy right now to be gay, and also guys like lesbians.

What most young girls fail to realise, is that most people are bi curious in their youth, and even if you experiment (or even like it) it does not make you gay or bisexual.

quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:

This has probably been mentioned, but I couldn't be arsed with reading this whole thread.

Unless she is ugly/butch, she is faking. All these hot young lesbians just want attention. It's trendy right now to be gay, and also guys like lesbians.

What most young girls fail to realise, is that most people are bi curious in their youth, and even if you experiment (or even like it) it does not make you gay or bisexual.

Thanks, bitch. So I can't be taken seriously until I chop off all my hair or just magically turn ugly. Good to know that my desire for women only matters if I screw over my ability to ever attract them.

I'm sorry you know some dumb chicks, but this isn't the place to bitch about it. Not everyone is you or your dumb friends. Believe it or not, some people aren't straight or ugly

I've heard that a lot of girls will do that for attention, but this is not one of those cases. She didn't tell me until a month and a half into the relationship, and it's not like she was too too open about it until then.

I broke up with her today

feeling kind of like a loser. I donno I think it was the part where she told me that she might stop liking guys for a while when I realized that this was going to be tougher than I thought. I'm regretting it now, but in the long run I think I'm winning.

How could I not take it personally if she just wasn't attracted to guys for a while?? I mean, I know it's not really in her control, but does that mean I'm a bad guy for thinking that's unacceptable?

quote:Originally posted by techo:

I've heard that a lot of girls will do that for attention, but this is not one of those cases. She didn't tell me until a month and a half into the relationship, and it's not like she was too too open about it until then.

I broke up with her today

feeling kind of like a loser. I donno I think it was the part where she told me that she might stop liking guys for a while when I realized that this was going to be tougher than I thought. I'm regretting it now, but in the long run I think I'm winning.

How could I not take it personally if she just wasn't attracted to guys for a while?? I mean, I know it's not really in her control, but does that mean I'm a bad guy for thinking that's unacceptable?

If she just stops being into guys for awhile then that would really suck for you. It was right to dump her. Even if it isn't her fault, how could you be expected to stay with someone who might wake up and not be attracted to you? Nah, you did the right thing

i went out with a girl who was always goin " im bisexual", but she recons she could only bring herself to kiss another girl



what an asshat

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Fuck, you guys are a bunch of ignorant fucks. Do you honestly think that because she has a larger potential dating pool, she's more likely to dump you? Is that how the world works? Do you stay with her because you don't know that many other girls who would take you? If she's going to dump you, she's going to dump you. It doesn't matter for whom.

And being bisexual does not mean she wants a threesome. If she does, it means she probably doesn't think shit of your relationship. But aparently you don't either, so I guess it's a non-issue

GlitterPunk...all I have to say to you is please, kindley, SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! we got an honest guy here who needs help, not a fucking moron like you tellin him to shoot himself, god your an ignorant little bastard, ok anywayz techno my advice is just ask her if she is bi, if she is ask tell her that you do/dont want 3somes or shit like that, and if she really cares about you and isnt a complete hoe she will respect your wishes, if not dump the bitch

ok I didnt realize there were like 4 pages of this shit, so ugh all that was said in the last post is irrelivent it seems so I guess that last post was a waste of time so forget its there...you cant see it....its all an illusion...illusion...illusion...*trippy lights*...illusion...illusion....lol

I think you made the right choice.

I mean how would it feel to be dumped by your girlfriend for another girl?

[This message has been edited by BlackNiggaTown (edited 06-16-2004).]