have any of you guys turned down a girl trying to have sex or maybe just make out with you and why.

i did but it was just because it was so awkward and then again cause she had slept with more women then i had which that freaked me out.

X-gf's do not count or Gfs

I sow my seed long and far, if she wants it, it is hers.

Yes. She wanted me, I didn't want her, that's about all there is to say.

Yes, and it's called self restraint. I don't like the way men are thought of as sex crazed maniacs, so I don't further that stereotype.

many times. i dont know how most guys do it, but i cant have sex with an ugly chick (one exception, she wouldnt leave me place untill i fucked her and gave her the ole "look at the time" line). It just doesnt work. It seriously disgusts me to think of commiting a sexual act with a girl that i think is ugly. Or the way they act, they cant be the giggly innocent acting chick (innocent is fine, but dont act it if your not). I guess i like the hot ones that kind of give me the cold shoulder when i try to pick them up. I guess the hunt is more of the thrill for me now.

No, but I've only been offered by my at the time girlfriend. I can think of some girls I'd turn down, but if I was attracted to a girl, I can't really think of any time I would.

I turned down a girl for making out...only because my girlfriend was next right next to me..

a couple times

one was really ugly and I was scared it'd get around the neighborhood and school

the second one wasn't really turned down...I just never tried to make arrangements to do it

yeah, happens all the time when you're a man of my stature

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I did it just to drive her crazy. Worked too.

Yes. She was this chick who usually incredibly pisses me off. So i told her to fuck off repeatedly until she got the message. then got drunk.

Yes. I have done it a few times for a couple reasons. Sometimes I am not interested in them at all; and sometimes I can tell that they are taking it to a level I am not ready for, and I want to avoid the drama.

Many times i've turned down girls for sex. I'm just too lazy to drive 30-40 minutes for sex.

A couple of times...just didnt want to have sex with them...it actually means something for me. So I did (turn them down)...they werent ugly I just didnt feel like it or want to. Oh well.

yes, but then she didnt stop so we did it newayz!lol

spicy

Yes on Monday. I conversed with my "counsil" about it the following day at the lunch table. They all knew who I was talking about so then I took her up on it.

No I don't need to have my friends decide for me, its just that other people in the counsil were trying to get with her and its just curtesy to check to see if its a go or no.

quote:Originally posted by Lazzaro:

Yes on Monday. I conversed with my "counsil" about it the following day at the lunch table. They all knew who I was talking about so then I took her up on it.

No I don't need to have my friends decide for me, its just that other people in the counsil were trying to get with her and its just curtesy to check to see if its a go or no.



the counsil eh? go play harry potter fag

Did it a couple of days ago.

To my gf actually. Im a virgin and i thought she was too. And then when she slept over and i we were getting in the mood she just descided to tell me of all the guys she had fucked. And almost non of them were earlier boyfriends (mostly guys she met one time and stuff). Took me so offgard that i got instantly turned off and couldnt do it. Dont know if it was because i got nervous of her beeing more experienced so that i had to impress her on my first time or that it was just because i was disgusted. But i have to say: she has the best timing ever LOL

I remind u: she said this while i was on top of her! I just said that i got stressed out and couldnt do it. I said it was just me freaking out over it beeing my first time (which was a large part of this i also think)

She said it was ok and kissed me. So shes really kind to me.... but the problem is that i really dont want her that much after this.

But OMG i thought that she had done it like one time with an earlier boyfriend but now i feel like shes almost a slut. And i really cave under the pressure of having to compete with an unknown number of older and more experienced guys. I wonder if ill ever make it.....

I feel like i have failed all MANkind. =(

Yeah, I heard she had herpes and I wasn't going to risk it.

Turn down sex any time it means you have to put something out for it; this ends up getting you the sex without having to put anything out for it. Women are just as horny as us; those of us who exercise self control are a rare find and can drive the ladies crazy.

Of course I have.

The reasons are usually either too skanky, too young,(that happens a lot. Damn prostitots) too drunk, too ugly or I have a girlfriend. Or combinations of the above.

I did at a gig with Spicy and Rav. I looked at this gal when she asked for summit, and stood staring with an open mouth, sarcastically put on may i add, so she walked off

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They have remotes!??!

yes, the why, cause i thought they were gross

Yes, the first one was because it was my friend's mother, and I just thought it would have been weird.

When I was in the Army I was turning down hookers all the time Couldn't walk down the street without hearing "Hey baby you wanna date?" They are all over the place in those military towns. I had to turn down a dancer too because I heard she had the clap. That sucked, she was fine and I wanted her oh so bad, but apparently not *that* bad.

And quite a few others since I've been married, and only because of that. It's amazing what being married does to your 'stock value'.

Yeah, I have, but one time sticks out in my mind:



When was 16, I met this girl that liked me, but she was really fat and dumb, so I figured I would use her for money and bud and shit. Well, one day, we went to a party, and got stranded at this dudes house, and I'm talking to her, and she jsut starts kissing me, so I like did it back for a minute, and then she started to grab my dick and try to put my hand on her pussy, and I just backed off, like whatever.

She got so fucking pissed, she never talked to me again after that, and I had to walk home about 30 miles because I pissed her off, and she took off without me when our ride got there.

Stupid fat cunt.

quote:Originally posted by The Marksman:

have any of you guys turned down a girl trying to have sex or maybe just make out with you and why.

i did but it was just because it was so awkward and then again cause she had slept with more women then i had which that freaked me out.

X-gf's do not count or Gfs

Yes, yes I have, about...20 minutes ago... It sucks doesn't it?

Edit: I'm the one who got turned down for a change ... Thats a sad face

c2

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All the fucking time, it's the only way to control the bitches around here. As soon as you pork em they think you owe them something.

i turned down two lesbians on a cruise, because i did not want to hurt another girl who i was involved with

~~<jay>~~

This friday at a concert these two indian sisters tried to hook me up with a 5'4" 200lb girl. I said no.