As said I'd prefere to learn from others than my mistakes.

Ok I have two women who are interested (yes sadly a first) and I'm about 90% sure that I know who I'd rather.

(less detailed one)

So how do I work this out. The only way that I can think of is asking Y out, but I don't really what to do that just yet. The probleme though is cause I'm less interested in X then I'm more comfortable to her and less to Y which makes it look like I'm intersted in X. So should I just try with actions?

(more detail that may not be to important)

X is an ex (no pun intened) but it ended (pretty fast) because she was going through a rough time and didn't want to hurt me. So we didn't really have anything after that. After Y though announced her interest X has taken a come back. I'm almost sure that this is just jeliously/harder to get type thing. So I don't really want to OVER hurt X and cause X and Y to hate each other and start a huge cat fight so just looking for the best way to deal with this.

As "fun" as the cat fight would be the only problem is if I wait, instead of the cat fight they could both get pissed at me and then sorta turn against me for not picking either or for letting it go on too long so that is where I'm stuck

Meh, the logical choice is Y because you don't have the history and shit, but you just have to go with who you are more attracted to. Pay attention to how you feel around each of them, it should be pretty obvious who you like more.

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*head explodes*

Go with Y and get a restraining order on X. Y is interested in you for you. X just wants to spite you and Y.

fuck Y. when you get sick of her, goto X and use her jealousy against her. Fuck her, go back and Fuck Y. Rinse and repeat untill your caught.