After the girls perspective on this.....

Say a guy comes up to you at a party and strikes up a conversation, you know the regular flirting/small talk goes on. Do you always feel the guy is trying to pick up?

I'm only 16 and I find it is hard with girls to get into the friends catagory, but easy to go into the bf/gf catagory, even though it may not always be my intentions.....

its easy to be both. a friend is just a bf/gf that you dont fuck. what? you think im wrong? or you in love with your girlfriends? mostly no. are you in love with your friends? no. the only thing that seperates the two is sex. So, just go in with the mindset of picking them up, but dont have sex with them. not too hard.

quote:Originally posted by 911:

After the girls perspective on this.....

Say a guy comes up to you at a party and strikes up a conversation, you know the regular flirting/small talk goes on. Do you always feel the guy is trying to pick up?

I'm only 16 and I find it is hard with girls to get into the friends catagory, but easy to go into the bf/gf catagory, even though it may not always be my intentions.....

Maybe you're so damn sexy the girl just wants to fuck, or maybe they dont like you so dont want to be you're friend.