*sigh*

Got very drunk last fri, got with this girl, fingerd her, was a bit surreal at the time, considering ive known her for some time and id never felt anything for her, and vice versa as far as i was aware. Anyways morning after, regrett, decide that im going to leave it, hopeing that it would fade away and nothing would come of it. Talk to friends say i dont like her etc.

Sitting at home today, she turns up at my door, asking what i want to do, completely out of the blue. Kinda took me by suprise, so there i am saying that i kinda like her, whilst not knowing my self if i actually do or not. The whole situation made more complicated by the fact that ive already told ppl that i dont like her :|

I just want to curl up and for it to go away, life was simple, now its not, within seconds. I dont know weather i like her or not. meh!!!!!!!!!

fuck

sorry for having to listen to some random guy rant.

i had to vent this some where

is she any good looking? or do you have to try and like her? i mean i know pretty girls and i dont feel much for them, and i know they are good looking. if you have to force yourself to like her, then dont. but give it a try, be her friend. a good friend, maybe even a friend with benefits...?

Tell her you don't know how it happend but you enjoyed it. You've known her to long to become a couple (in fear of harming the friendship) but you wish it could happen again. And maybe just maybe you can pull off friends with benifits.

There is a chance she doesn't like you, but trying to do the unsluttish thing just so she doesn't get a reputation. Girls can be like that, y'know.

*Gasps*

A hetero male with feelings?

No it can't be! All they want is to use women in relationships for copulatary purposes!

fuck her, people usually kiss someone to see if they feel "sparks". at least with fucking if you dont feel the sparks you still have fun.

I hope you learned your lesson. If you like someone or not, it is often best to be vague on the issue to give yourself flexibility in the future.

Dude I say you go for it.

Just don't run into it looking for love and a relationship...Just go into it for a casual thing.

If there is something there like love, you'll soon find out!

Good luck mate.

If you feel for her at all go for it! Don't go out with her out of obligation though.

Thanks for you posts, i feel slighlty better after having slept on it, we shall see what happens eh :P