ive been going out with my girlfriend for a month and i have knowen her for 6 months. she has been up to my hoouse and i go see her almost every weekend (she lives far away). she came up to my house about 3 weeks ago and i fingerd her. she seemed to enjoy it but the next time she came up to my house she wouldent let me finger her. every time after that she hasent let me finger her. any reason why?

btw she isent a slut or anything. she is still a virgin and i went out with her before but i dumped her because there was lots happening with my family, life etc.

when she said she enjoyed it she was faking it. period.

(fingering is so passe anyway)

extended period.



Only kidding



christ knows, maybe you were just shockingly bad :|

maybe you should ask her? might help

quote:Originally posted by gloria_iwontbesued:

when she said she enjoyed it she was faking it. period.

(fingering is so passe anyway)

lies, thats a slight generalisation my friend

Insecure?

The first time was probably just spur of the moment, and then she overthought things. Thought about the reprecussions and the potential things that could happen. Chicks have a tendency ta do that.

I'd say talk to HER about it. Being open with each other promotes a healthy relationship. We aren't her, we don't have her answers. Good luck.

well thinks for the advice.

quote:Originally posted by gloria_iwontbesued:

period.



I think this might answer your question. Think about it, theres a pretty good chance that it occured at the same time you saw her.

Talk to her about it. Thats definitely the best path.

maybe she's just worried it might lead somewhere where she doesn't want to go yet?