What would be the main procedures in performing anal sex for the first time?

For guy and girl that is...

Including before AND after the event. (Cleaning,lube, etc.)

Lube as much as possible (you can have too little, but you can't have too much), then ease it in. Increase speed and go deeper as you get comfortable.

The main barrier is pyschological, not physical. To be honest, it's not much more complicated than that.

Oh... as for after, well, I assume the guy is wearing a condom so cleaning up is easy, just wipe off the lube. The girl's bowels will feel funny, sort of open for a long time if it's her first, but this will subside.

<< Cue 'no, it's the woman giving ME anal!' jokes >>

[This message has been edited by Rico (edited 05-25-2004).]

firstly, she must be relaxed!poppers are gd!

then you start off with a really well lubed single finger, work this for about a minute and then slip in a second well lubed finger and make sure you are doing it thouroughly and gently!

continue this until it is pretty much "open"!"!

then make sure her/his(i guess) arse is well lubed and so is your penis and slowly put it in!

thats it!

have fun!

spicy

there's also a concern about "the shit factor". so obviously it would be preferable to be empty right? but what else can be done to increase comfort and cleanliness?

Lots of lube, hes gotta wear a condom, maybe if you clear you're bowels before hand laxatives or an enima whatever, dont just have him stick it up there get him to loosen you up first with a finger, also remember, no pain no gain.

if you see shit then make this.

make 5 gr aseton peroxide or HMTD than compress(not too much dangeraous because) put this to a tube and to the girl's asshole for igniting dont use fuse it will make loud girl can hear this use elctrical igniting 5 gr ap will blow the girls ass probably kill her ))) if you want more help come to backyard ballistics )

(i am joking man but for fun you can make(not killing girl blowing some other things) )

[This message has been edited by bilencekic (edited 05-25-2004).]

make sure she really wants it and isn't just doing it to please you. then as spicy says finger and slow. girlfriends tell me poppers do help but i've never tried them.

do it right and it'll blow her brains, there is nothing better-to be frank i prefer it to vaginal(although thats great too).

quote:Originally posted by spicy69:

firstly, she must be relaxed!poppers are gd!

then you start off with a really well lubed single finger, work this for about a minute and then slip in a second well lubed finger and make sure you are doing it thouroughly and gently!

continue this until it is pretty much "open"!"!

then make sure her/his(i guess) arse is well lubed and so is your penis and slowly put it in!

thats it!

have fun!

spicy

dave you dark horse. where the fuck did you get that from?

quote:Originally posted by mattskinny:

dave you dark horse. where the fuck did you get that from?



hehe, thats for moi to know and for you to find out, yes im goin to bum you!

nah it was on errrrrrrrr...DR.butts i think it was, yes it was a prorno!!!

very educational you know!

quote:Originally posted by spicy69:

hehe, thats for moi to know and for you to find out, yes im goin to bum you!

nah it was on errrrrrrrr...DR.butts i think it was, yes it was a prorno!!!

very educational you know!



In that case, the male must be careful to ensure he pulls out and ejaculates his load over the girl's lower back, buttocks, or face.

quote:Originally posted by Rico:

In that case, the male must be careful to ensure he pulls out and ejaculates his load over the girl's lower back, buttocks, or face.

in what case???

:s

spicy

:S In the case of you getting your sexual knowledge from a porno

quote:Originally posted by Rico:

:S In the case of you getting your sexual knowledge from a porno

ah ofc!!

lol

spicy

Also get your girl to relax and maintain a breathing pattern...when your using your finger make sure her breathing remains the same...stop if she changes it...

Make sure she is lying in a comfortable position too...if her muscles are tight its gunna hurt...talk to her as well...tell her things she likes to hear...it helps to create a mood...

Use a thick, water based lube (ID is a good brand). If she has a bowel movement a couple of hours prior you should be pretty good, but a shower couldn't hurt. Have her lie on her side. Lube everything up. You might want to go down on her a bit beforehand to arous/relax her. When you start inserting your penis remember to go very slowly and do not go deep. Just go in a little bit and let it sit there. She needs to get used to something that large going into her ass. Just take it easy and listen to any feedback that she can give you.

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And for Gods sakes don't just pound away on her, the ass is quite different than the vagina.

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

the ass is quite different than the vagina.

no shit

Just flip her on her belly and jam it up there, no lube, dont go slow just fuck the bitch, after you've done this a couple times she will be used to it, and she will be ready for the porn biz.