Alright fame or help either one, both with proboly help influence me though. Anyways theres this girl i like now and she liked me at the beggining of the year, but then she went out with my friend and keeps telling me she likes other people so im not sure if she likes me anymore. She talks to me sometimes, because shes shy and i am with people i dont know as well and she kinda shows intrest but still she tells me she likes these other guys so im not sure. Any suggestions or maybe hints you think i could look for? thanks

Be assertive. Tell her how you feel and stuff; try to make her like you more. Just because she likes other guys doesn't mean she couldn't like you. Work to make yourself a viable option.

BTW, I am being a total hypocrit here. I have no idea whether this stuff would work, because I never really have the nerve to do all that much socially. But theoretically, it should work.

girls are indeed strange... just stick in there with it

I feel like i cant do shit about this its fucked up. Like you could usually talk to her friends but i dont know most of them and the ones i do dont like me so much. But i kinda understand what your saying because if she recently told me she liked me id hop all over it so it should work reverse. Also i tend to like the chicks that like me more than just the really hot ones, so again it should be reverse.

quote:Originally posted by jimmy the gent:

Alright fame or help either one, both with proboly help influence me though. Anyways theres this girl i like now and she liked me at the beggining of the year, but then she went out with my friend and keeps telling me she likes other people so im not sure if she likes me anymore. She talks to me sometimes, because shes shy and i am with people i dont know as well and she kinda shows intrest but still she tells me she likes these other guys so im not sure. Any suggestions or maybe hints you think i could look for? thanks

Ummm..I'm not sure how it works where you live, but over here, when someone goes out with someone else, and repeatedly tells you that she likes someone else, it usually means that they don't like you...

I'd say she's already LJBF'd you (Let's Just Be Friends), at least in her mind. If a girl is telling you about other guys she likes, then chances are she doesn't like you. Completely cut off all contact with her now and you could possibly have a very small chance for a relationship with her, but it's doubtful.

on the contrary, she could be trying to make you jealous. just go for it my man.