Alright I was having a great night hanging out with this hot guy and we were drinking and such...well, we ened up kissing, but as were kissing he is like ur a virgin..and he says it over and over..i mean wtf..i know i am..but we were also just kissing. He probably just wanted to has sex that night, but now i regret kissing him and I dont know why. I dont know how any of you people can help..but go for it!

Not much of "help" situation here since it's over and done. But to offer a possible explanation, it's common for guys to get off on a this sort of "particular idea or notion" fetish (anything from you being a virgin to what type of underwear you wear). So he may not necessarily have wanted to have sex, but he got a thrill out of reminding you and himself that you're a virgin.

Ok..hows it a thrill...just cause I havnt had a dick in me..come on now..guys seriously have some problems with the whole being a virgin thing

We men have one track minds, so when we get something stuck going on it, we have a little bit of trouble forgetting it. Either that, or he was a little... Ummm... Special.

Okay, I read that 3 times and I am not getting it either. Are you confused about why you regret kissing him, or why he kept saying you were a virgin, or why people "go for it" (I assume you mean have sex), or what?

the fact you don't feel right says it all. listen to that voice and ditch him.

I regret kissing him and was pissed he kept saying I was a virgin

in that case he was an idiot for ruining the mood and you regretted kissing an idiot. not that complicated. go find someone else.

find someone eles...haaaa..thats a good one!

how can you regret kissing someone? that does sound like a problem.

quote:Originally posted by A True Betrayal:

Ok..hows it a thrill...just cause I havnt had a dick in me..come on now..guys seriously have some problems with the whole being a virgin thing

Come on if this isnt naive thn what is. Look lik lady what u got is like a brnad new car.

That new car smell.

everything is tight and working properlly.

Its all good.

Do u as a women get turned on by a large cock. If the answer is yes then understand why guys are turnd on by virgins.

U dont need a PHD to fiure it out.

Was he saying your a virgin like in a bad unsecure way.Cause if he was then the only thing I can think of is that he didnt want be your first.He might have though of it as too big of a responsiblity.That if he was bad in bed you would remember that for the rest of your life.

quote:Originally posted by A True Betrayal:

Ok..hows it a thrill...just cause I havnt had a dick in me..come on now..guys seriously have some problems with the whole being a virgin thing

Why is that a problem?

Aparently (this is from a girls prespective) if you do have sex, she is giving you something she cannot give anyone else, something special.

I'd say virginity is a bigger issue for girls than it is for guys.