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 #1 
Old 2004-05-21, 23:13
Aer0^ Aer0^ is offline
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Default How do i get my best-friend to realise she has feelings for me?

I no how i feel for my best friend but she wont admit she feels the same way but i no she does?!?!

what can i do ? :-/
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Old 2004-05-21, 23:16
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quote:Originally posted by Aer0^:

I no how i feel for my best friend but she wont admit she feels the same way but i no she does?!?!

what can i do ? :-/

Learn to type........

no = know

i = I

wont = won't

How do you feel ?

How does she feel ?

Hoe do you know she feels that way ?

Actually, don't answer I'm not bothered.
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Old 2004-05-21, 23:17
Syko Syko is offline
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Realise one of two things.

One, she does have feelings for you, but is openly denying them and is not worth your time of day because she is dishonest.

Two, Realise that she does not indeed have feelings for you.

How did you come to the conclusion that she has feelings for you?
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Old 2004-05-21, 23:19
Aer0^ Aer0^ is offline
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Cheers for the mistakes? :-/

1. We kissed after being alone and just talking.

2. We nearly done it again today.

3. I know her too well for her to hide anything for me.

4. She basically admitted it to one of her other friends but quickly denied it.

5. Gets jealous when i mess around with other girls...

erm..that enough?
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Old 2004-05-21, 23:24
Syko Syko is offline
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I guess it's enough, so now what are your options?

The way I see it if she isn't willing to admit that she has feelings for you then you will have to figure out why or let it go.

If there is a legitamite reason for her not to admit to her feelings, then you shouldn't force it.
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Old 2004-05-22, 03:24
whiteass whiteass is offline
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quit being a puss and bring it up to her.

say "look, if it isnt already obvious to you, i do have feelings for you. Regardless of what you say to me/your friends/or even yourself, it is just as obvious that you have feelings for me. Words lie, your eyes cant, and dont, lie to me. I dont care what you tell anyone else, just dont lie to me, just convince me im not wasting my time."



look directly into her eyes the whole time you are talking, with your hands around her waist.

and for christs sake, do not just take what i said and memorize it. Make it sound like you do care (which i know you do). And do NOT, i repeat do NOT say the word love for any reason whatsoever. If you were in this position, and i was in the bushes feeding you lines, and you said love, i would walk right out, kick you in the nuts, and walk off. Run on sentence, but you get the point.
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Old 2004-05-22, 03:41
Sidewayz Sidewayz is offline
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Default Re: How do i get my best-friend to realise she has feelings for me?

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

...i would walk right out, kick you in the nuts, and walk off...

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Old 2004-05-22, 06:52
deadlycindy deadlycindy is offline
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Go out with someone else. Go out with several someone elses. Then she'll do one of three things: come forward and confess her feelings, do a slow burn and remain silent, or be happy for you because she's relieved she doesn't have to explain you have the wrong idea about her.

Keep doing what you're doing now, which is to put your life on hold while willing her via ESP to come to you, and you'll remain in a constant state of frustration.
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Old 2004-05-22, 07:37
theBishop theBishop is offline
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Chloroform and Rope are essential ingredients in this type of situation. Either of these items can be substituted for getting a life, but i think we're beyond that point.
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Old 2004-05-22, 07:48
Infrared Infrared is offline
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!!

DON'T try to kindle romance between yourself and an opposite-sex friend. It WILL NOT work. I'm serious. DON'T do it, or you'll end up not only losing your girlfriend (she'll be your GF for awhile, yes, but things will go wrong), but also your friend. It's a double-fucking in the worst kind of way.

-Infrared (DON'T!)
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Old 2004-05-22, 09:13
lil_sis83 lil_sis83 is offline
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Default Re: How do i get my best-friend to realise she has feelings for me?

quote:Originally posted by Aer0^:

I no how i feel for my best friend but she wont admit she feels the same way but i no she does?!?!

what can i do ? :-/

Is your name dylan
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Old 2004-05-22, 11:46
Aer0^ Aer0^ is offline
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no its not dylan? :-/
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Old 2004-05-22, 18:00
whiteass whiteass is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!!

DON'T try to kindle romance between yourself and an opposite-sex friend. It WILL NOT work. I'm serious. DON'T do it, or you'll end up not only losing your girlfriend (she'll be your GF for awhile, yes, but things will go wrong), but also your friend. It's a double-fucking in the worst kind of way.

-Infrared (DON'T!)

Infra dont base your ideas on your fucked up relationship with some slut ex-girlfriend. Move on, get some pussy, and forget about the whore. With that said, friends are friends because they like them on a different level than sexual urges. Sex + Friendship = Love. If you love your girl, shes one of your best friends. If you dont, she isnt. So whats the difference between hooking up with a friend or meeting someone and trying to develop friendship while at the same time your shoving your dick up her ass? Ive hooked up with friends before, and it was good, real good.
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Old 2004-05-23, 07:05
SwordChucks SwordChucks is offline
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I have to intervene, infared is correct it has happened to me like, 6 times, i really think u shouldnt do it, you wont even talk to eachother anymore it sucks

If you sleep together then things REALLY get weird...
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Old 2004-05-23, 07:08
SwordChucks SwordChucks is offline
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Originally Posted by SwordChucks
I have to intervene, infared is correct it has happened to me like, 6 times, i really think u shouldnt do it, you wont even talk to eachother anymore it sucks

If you sleep together then things REALLY get weird...
 
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