Hey ... I got a Punk girlfriend, that's 16 and i'm 18. She's fuckin hot and we have a semi-serious relationship; like we've made love a couple of times and have a well rounded relationship. But the 'stories from the past' thing has come into play, and subjects like sexual partners, and DRUGS have been brought up. Now what I have done and what I have told her are different things. I have done pot, hash, oil, acid, shrooms, and the odd rail of blow. Now I told her everything except the blow thing. Then I DID do it after again, but only told her yesterday that I have tried it. But I said ONE time, when I like to do it every month usually. Now do you guys think I should tell her if it comes up again, and tell her the TRUTH??? But here's the other thing. She told me last night that she HAS tried Coke, and I didn't care, but since she feels that I would be dissapointed if I knew that she HAS done coke, will she be possibly MAD if I tell her that I am an avid experimenter? btw, she smokes cigs. and pot so is there a common ground between.... is telling her the right thing to be safe in the future? cause I wold quit for her so if I tell her that will she be relieved? Thanks for any input ppl! sincerement,

DKL

So you both do coke but are afraid to tlel one another for the same reasons? Hmm well you should tell her and Im sure she won't over react or anything since she has as well. It seems like you two have a pretty good relationship and I don't see how this will change anything. If you do coke then your girlfriend should probabaly know. It's doesnt change who you are and if she flips about it then fuck her.

From the way you described it it sounds like she wont be to bothered, the issue to her will be that you lied about it the first time.

If the subject comes up again and it is relevant to do so, tell her. It sounds like it wont be a big deal but you seem bothered by the weight of it.

Peace Land and Bread!

[This message has been edited by Marx_lives_in_death (edited 05-21-2004).]

That was funny.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

That was funny.

What was? My spelling?

What a fallacy it is when someone has to attack the spelling and grammer because they cant fault the argument!

^^Heh, if any of us gals posted that we'd be told to "Calm down" and "stop PMSing".

The comment may not have been aimed at you at all, and if it was, why assume it was a matter of grammar and spelling?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

[B why assume it was a matter of grammar and spelling?[/B]

Because it was a holocaust before I edited it.

Do you think you'll be able to hide it from her forever? If so, go ahead and lie

quote:Originally posted by Marx_lives_in_death:

What was? My spelling?

What a fallacy it is when someone has to attack the spelling and grammer because they cant fault the argument!

Actually I was talking about the original post. For some reason, people are funny with their vices. Often they are fine with the level they take it, but they would not approve of someone who goes farther. Sometimes their standards for others change when their standards for themselves change. Also, while they are more than willing to tell some people who have a negative opinion about what they do to take a flying leap, they are concerned about the opinions of some others. In this case two users are concerned about judgments each has of the other. I found that funny. I also found your reaction to me to be funny too.

You both smoke pot?

Make a nice cronic bowl. That should get a coke conversation going, and if your both on coke you shouldnt get mad at the other for doing coke.

You're girlfriend is a druggie as well? Oh my lord you have to be the luckiest man on earth.

I'd love it if my girlfriend was into drugs....that would be...amazing.

Heres an idea do coke with her.