I don't know if this is the right section to post this..But well I talk to my boyfriend on the phone but I'm kinda shy so I don't say much which frustrates him a little. I mean what can I talk about?? and also he wants me to turn him on but I don't know what will turn guys on...what turns guys on? like what can I say and stuff..*sigh* I sound like a loser but it'll be great if you guys could help me..thanx.

I have similar problems with my girl, I'm kinda shy too. I don't ask her to turn me on though, that's just frustrating when your horny and your partner isn't there.

Just about anything turns us guy's on though. You'll find that talking about something completely non sexual will turn most guy's on if it comes from there girls. Hell the sound of my girl's voice turns me on sometimes. If you want better tips, try one of those phonesex things, I bet they know what most guy's wanna hear. Don't qoute that, I've never tried.

do a little bit of slutty (right now i'm not wearing any knickers type thing). he knows you're shy this will waste him. dont worry if you stammer while saying it.the thought of you going red will excite him.

otherwise syko is right.you could read out your shopping list and he'd find it cute.

ps. why should he expect that you turn him on, on the 'phone? maybe he should think a little more about it making you feel uncomfortable?

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 05-21-2004).]

Yeah, I used to have the exact same problem too

If you're really uncomfortable with it and he's a nice boyfriend then he will understand

What matters most is when you guys are together

If you want to get better at the phone thing I guess the best thing to do is to practice

It's easier to do when the guy starts it by like asking you a question

"What did you enjoy most about what I did to you last night" stuff like that

Then you just be honest about it

Be as blunt as possible

It'll end up sounding sexy

Well he doesn't force me to do it or anything. He says if i don't feel comfortable talking about it i could just tell him i don't want to. But then I just feel bad cuz i cant..

It sux talking to a girl on the phone and they do the quiet thing. Talk about anyhting at all, i mean ANYTHING! Just keep the conversation going.

personally, i avoid talking on the phone as much as possible. i HATE talking on the phone to guys. its way better to hang out with them, and a LOT easier to turn them on....duh...

quote:Originally posted by Chibi Shinigami:

personally, i avoid talking on the phone as much as possible. i HATE talking on the phone to guys. its way better to hang out with them, and a LOT easier to turn them on....duh...

Yes, I agree!

I have the answer: don't talk on the fucking phone! How boring are you people that you just sit around on the phone with eachother? Jesus. I fucking hate phones

phones are good for one thing and ONE thing only, seeing if the person on the other end wants to go fishing with you.

know another language? i've never done it over the phone, but speaking swedish works pretty well for me

oooh nooo!!!! talking on the phone is laaammmee!!!!

Djeezes... my girlfriend and I are currently in a longdistance relationship...

it's calling or chat, then i prefer calling

--SEmper

yeah, but thats entirely different. when you live 15 min from each other...

People, including myself, seem to have lost the art of phone conversation. I used to enjoy talking on the phone for hours. Now I can't stand it. This could be an age thing, but I've noticed it more and more among the younger generation.

E-mail and even AIM is an easier way to communcate. I can multi-task and not deal with the pressure of maintaining a flow of conversation. Maybe it's just an ADD thing.

rub the phone up against your pussy...try and get it to make a squishy noise...

I'm not much of a phone person either, I use it to make plans, or ask a simple question, but I don't enjoy talking for hours on end. Anyway, If your boyfriend wants you to turn him on over the phone and you don't feel comfortable doing so, don't. He isn't going to get angry with you for not turning him on and avoid subjects that could lead to that as well. It would make more sence if you turned him on in person, anyway.

If he lives close drive over and suck his dick. Then when you call him/he calls you simpley remind him of that.

uhh...when a girl tells me she ll wrap her wet lips around my hard cock...that ll turn me on a bit

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

AIM is an easier way to communcate. I can multi-task and not deal with the pressure of maintaining a flow of conversation...

Damn right. I like being able to listen to music, eat, and do homework whilst having a conversation with someone.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

I have the answer: don't talk on the fucking phone! How boring are you people that you just sit around on the phone with eachother? Jesus. I fucking hate phones

Thank you.

quote:Originally posted by pamplemousse:

know another language? i've never done it over the phone, but speaking swedish works pretty well for me

Mmmm, true dat . How the hell did you manage to get online?

the best thing you can do on the phone is smiling while you´re talking. The person on the other side of the line will hear it.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

Mmmm, true dat . How the hell did you manage to get online?

huh? i posted that a LONG time ago. but now im online, and your SLEEPING! ¤cough¤

all guys care about is confidence. you have none, kill yourself.

Ask him what he's thinking about, then start playing something sexy on it. If he says something like you say something like "with no clothes on?" or something similar. Think of different things that he could be thinking of and sex them up.

Heheh, the phone does indeed suck for such things, but then again, thanks to the phone, I learned to differentiate between the materials of the panties being removed by SOUND...Hahaha, thank you, Kelly.

You're still learning; both of you. Just take it easy together; you'll get it. By the way, if he gets impatient or annoyed with you because you aren't doing what he wants, he's just using you for sex, most likely, and you should dump him like the asshole he is. Just saying.

Make sure you both enjoy it, first of all.

Don't worry about what he thinks, he just wants you a little more sexy I suppose. Just tease him a bit, but follow through on things. It helps if you are already in the mood when you start.

Wow, I thought I was the only one who didn't like talking on the phone. Personally I hate it for long conversations - unless me and the other person have heaps to talk about (for some reason, this works well if you've only just met because we can ask questions about each other). With my boyfriend, we've known each other for about two and a half years, so there's not much to talk about on the phone unless we're planning something.

So generally, unless we're actually with each other, we use MSN - but even THAT has its pros and cons.

Pro: you can 'multitask' as other people have mentioned. I like the fact there's no pressure to make conversation; if there's nothing to talk about you can amuse yourself other ways.

Con: you can't tell the tone of the person's voice. This tends to get my boyfriend and I into arguments because, for instance, I could be saying something in a lighthearted/joking-around way, but he takes it seriously/as if I'm having a go at him (is that an Australian expression - 'having a go'?).

So, I think talking to your boyfriend in person is the best way to go. If he keeps asking you to turn him on when you're on the phone and you don't know what to do, then turn the question around and just say, "Well, why don't you turn me on this time?". If he tries, and it works, then it will probably give you an idea of what to do, and what he wants in return.

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[This message has been edited by soul_assassin_girl (edited 07-04-2004).]

I don't mind talking on the phone, because it gives me time to get to know my girlfriend if I can't see her.

What I try to do to keep the conversation going is tell stories.

Stories about funny things that have happened to you, sick things, weird things etc.

If you do drugs, talk about times you've tripped out, what drugs you want to try etc.

Talk about your day, how you took a huge shit and how your ass was bleeding after.

^^^Joke.

To turn him on. Next time you see him, out of the blue just jump his bones.

Slip him some viagra. You can't go wrong with viagra.

Unless he dies because he has a weak heart.

quote:Originally posted by D3votchka:

I don't know if this is the right section to post this..But well I talk to my boyfriend on the phone but I'm kinda shy so I don't say much which frustrates him a little. I mean what can I talk about?? and also he wants me to turn him on but I don't know what will turn guys on...what turns guys on? like what can I say and stuff..*sigh* I sound like a loser but it'll be great if you guys could help me..thanx.

Simple spend less time on the phone and more time together in person. Phone converstions arent supposed to last long. Thats why your ear hurts like a bitch and turns red when your on for more than an hour. I guarantee if you spend more time with him in person he wont give a rats ass about the phone conversations.

Another thing that makes phone conversations like yours difficult, is that the fact that you probably see him in school or whatever all day long means you have already shared your days experiences with him, which makes a phone call moot. Because you have already discussed everything there is to discuss.

If thats not the case, and he just calls you up to pleasure him over the phone, then my suggestion is to upgrade models, and I don't mean the phone.

By the sounds of this you are on the phone with him alot, and if he wants you to do that for him everytime your on the phone, sounds like the kids desperate to get off. In which case you should see him in person, or if your the pleasing type and want to bend to his wishes over the phone, then retract your post because you dont really need help, because it's your fault for indulging him.

It's probably not that last part for you but you never know.

You also said you were shy right? If your shy around your boyfriend like that, to where you feel uncomfortable exciting him over the phone, then maybe your problem is that your not comfortable with him yet, enough to talk freely like you would with normal friends, or someone your completely comfortable with.

Snow



[This message has been edited by Capt Snow (edited 07-04-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by Bleedthrough:

Heheh, the phone does indeed suck for such things, but then again, thanks to the phone, I learned to differentiate between the materials of the panties being removed by SOUND...Hahaha, thank you, Kelly.

You're still learning; both of you. Just take it easy together; you'll get it. By the way, if he gets impatient or annoyed with you because you aren't doing what he wants, he's just using you for sex, most likely, and you should dump him like the asshole he is. Just saying.

What you were actually hearing was the sounds of her rubbing her hand on some fabric near the phone, to make you believe she had removed her panties.

Just think If you were in her position, would you take them off if you asked you? Yeah I think I worded that right. Don't answer that, you would wouldn't you. Stop thinking about it. Just forget I said anything. That would be an akward situation if someone walked in on her/you like that.

That is of course unless she lived alone or made sure to lock her door, In which case I truly believe, this girl was removing them for you. Good Job. I congratulate you on being a testament to the way a man should be.

Snow