Ok I have been talking to my ex over the internet for the past two weeks and the conversation has always been just friends. Then tonight we started talking about her sneaking out and she asked if I had a gf and then we got onto us. So now we are going to go out again lol. The only reason im going out with her is because I know im definatly going to be getting at least to 3rd and I think shes proboly going out with me again for the same reason. But im just wondering is this wrong? I mean is it wrong to go out with someone just because you know your going to get something? I have to discuss it with my friend because I still dont know if its a good idea lol, any one got advice or comments?

If you think she is just going to use you for sex or string you along until she finds someone "better" don't, unless you feel you can handle the break off and if the sex is really THAT good, go for it, if your planning on a fuck and leave dont do it if you feel either of you might get hurt (thats of course, if you care) then again, it could turn into a fuck buddie thing..but since you sound like it, talk to her, ask her why? What will be different? Just tell her you want to know cause you don't want to go through the same motions for the same break up again. But do it over a bottle of jack and a pack of cigs after you've both defiled each other in any way imaginable, but hey those are just my thoughts, do whatever you deem fit.

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My advice is learn how to structure a sentence and also look into paragraphs!

As for your question...I say it's perfectly fine.

Getting back with an ex can be okay I guess...Never catch me doing it though!

Looks like we are getting back together, my penis got the better of me lol. And our realation ship never was emotional it was always physical so there was no sadness after the break up, this was more of ethics question. After talking to her theres no way I can pass it up we might even be trying 69 and other stuff so im going to be happy for the next week or two while we go out.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

And our realation ship never was emotional it was always physical...

Dude just go for it, do as much as you can for the next couple of weeks before one of you changes your mind. Practise safe sex ...blah blah blah... but make sure you make the most of it while you can!