The girl I just met and WAS ALL OVER ME doesn't call me when she says she does so now im going to ignore her for the entire weekend. I will look like a WUSSY if I call her excessively...2 or 3 calls in 1 week is sufficient unless she tells me to call.

Do you think I should either A)ignore her for the weekend b)talk to a cute girl when she is looking at me c)call her

OR suggest something I should do to this cock-teaser!!

[This message has been edited by DoMiNiOn (edited 05-21-2004).]

gah, chicks...i swear to god, fuck going to the moon, just decipher women!

i knew a chick who was the same way, i just stopped talking to her all together, and it's much better this way. if you try to get a reaction out of her, and she acts like she doesn't give a shit, it's just gonna bother you more, trust me.

if you do wanna go that route, just stop calling, but DO NOT expect her to call, if she doesn't, then fuck it, apparently she doesn't give a shit. best bet is to move on and not think about it, if she calls, hey, good for you, but let her make an effort too, ya know?

mabey something came up and that's why she couldn't call.

What's scary is the fact that I offered to eat her out, yet she does not call when expected

you need this mindset:

you dont want to fuck her, she wants to fuck you

you dont need anything from her, if she doesnt want to be with you there will be one who does just around the corner

your a man, you make no excuses for your sexual desires (repeat this to yourself 10x when you wake up, and 10x before you goto sleep)

simply put, a lie will always defeat the truth.

fuck morals, morals only restrict your possibilities in life.

and your gonna have fun in life regardless of who wants to have fun with you.

i could write out a tutorial for you, but im sure you can find one of the net. two sites i know off:

becomeaplayer.com

pickupguide.com



ever heard the phrase dont believe everything you read? will its ironic, because you shouldnt believe that. You follow what you learn from those sites and youll never have to worry about pussy again. How do i know, because thats what i did.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

What's scary is the fact that I offered to eat her out, yet she does not call when expected

...here is your first problem. You gave into the one (and only) power she has over you, sex. You offered to eat her out? no. Never offer her sex, make her want it, make her crave it. Its an art, you will learn. But everytime you get shot down or rejected, sit down and think about EVERYTHING (and i do mean every little detail) that led up to that point. Evaluate and learn.

and for gods sake, always be funny. have fun in life, people will see your having fun and will want to join you.

How the hell is she "using" you? All you said is you are not getting anything but mixed signals.

She is using me in a way where she can control or manipulate me because she is a cock-tease.

I knew I went wrong when I offered her oral...shit.

but hey, at least now you know what you did wrong. are you ever going to make that mistake again? no. because now you know it doesnt work and it will be set into your subconscious (sp?) as something to avoid. hey man, if you ever have any questions or drop me a line at your_moms_boyfriend@msn.com

usually when i check my email i have more time on my hands and theres nothing id rather discuss than picking up chicks. because any mistakes you made that i havent, i learn from and vice versa. And youll probablly end up teaching me a few things too.

Check your email whiteass.

I posted a lot on this type of "using" in the "no boyfriend, no problem" thread, so I am not going to cover it again here. I agree with whiteass that you need a differnt attitude and you need to play hard to get.

I agree. I will play hard to get. If she wants to play her game I'll play mine.

Hi DoMiNiOn:

First of all, this girl isn't "using" you at all!! She's just neglecting you, at most. And it's obviously working for her, because you're allowing it to work!! It's driving you crazy, and here you are on Totse -- half wimping out, and half acting out in anger at her, and publicly planning your strategy to punish her-- by ignoring her --for supposedly cock-teasing you!

EasyGoing can give you some really good advice. In fact he gave it to you already. You should try it. Learn and practice the TAO of STEVE. It's the most promising way to get a hot girl to notice you, and find you desireable and worth pursuing, because you become a challenge. 3 elements (as described by Mr. EasyGoing) are (1) Be desireless (2) Be excellent and (3)Be gone!! These will distinguish you from the herd of needy, whining, and groveling (sp?) guys that the hot chic is used to have pursuing her.....and who are so easy for her to play.

Your plan to ignore her, more or less, is fine.....but don't do it with a NEGATIVE, angry, and bitter attitude. Do it with a positive attitude -- with a mix of confidence, humor, and naturalness!!! IT'S ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE AND NATURALNESS!! Good luck. Love, Venus.

Indifference is the key. Girls (and I am one so I would know)will string you along if they know you want them. Make them work for it. If she thinks that you might be interested, but she's not sure then she will pursue it more if she's interested.

yep yep, never let a girl know how much you like her. A woman told me that. And thanks Miss Pretty.