Hey everybody. This is my first post in Sex and Affection but never mind that. Okay today my best friend asked out this hot ass girl that I am in love with. Now she's going over to his house on the weekend to get drunk and maybe get layed. I am feeling very depressed that this happened that the girl of my dreams is now gone. Any suggestions on what should be done to cheer myself up or resolve this problem of mine. Please no flamming and no stupid answers like killing my friend, and mind my spelling if some of it may be wrong, becuae I'm too depressed to check it. Thanks everyone.

Did your best friend know you are in love with her?

Umm stick thru it become friends or better friends with the girl your in love with then maybe shell start to like you better than your friend and once they split up youll be there

Same shit, different pile. That is, part of my issues are due to something similar. I just know I get really jealous/pissed/depressed when I think about it, and I fucking hate it. I'm sorry, if that's what you're going through.

Have a bowl, have a beer, put in a good movie and try to forget...and friends will help you immensely during this period. So will finding another girl, if you can let go. Easier said than done, but you can do it.

Best of luck, man.

Unless your friends a complete asshole, you should be able to tell him that them hooking up would make you feel uncomfortable, and he'd oblige. Especially if all he's interested in is getting laid.

If he knows you're just so "in love" with her and ask her over anyway i would beat the fuck out of him. That's a total betrayal of friendship. If he didn't know, he couldn't really be that good of a friend, could he?

quote:Originally posted by WristSlitter:

If he knows you're just so "in love" with her and ask her over anyway i would beat the fuck out of him. That's a total betrayal of friendship. If he didn't know, he couldn't really be that good of a friend, could he?

to a point I agree with this, except if he never talked about it, how would is friend have known? all the same, if your buddy DID know, he deserves a kick in the ear. if not, you might try talking to him about it, and maybe your friend doesnt like her too much, and just picked her up becuse she was there, and was hot. if hes a really good friend, and didnt like her too much, he might stop going out with her, just for your feelings. at least, this could happen if you talked to him about it. again, if he did know you liked her, then put hot yogurt in his shoes.

I was in the same situation, but right now im in a different dillema. If the party is coming up, just goto the party, and sneak up and talk to the girl you like, who gives a fuck if you friend gets pissed, there is no friends in the relationship game and also your drunk you don't know what your doing. If the party already ended, than just gotta go with the flow, see if they fucked or anything like that. If they did than loose that bitch, she gets around. If they didn't than it's your turn to get back. Stressing and getting depressed gets you no where, you gotta make something to replace that. I don't know what you gotta do, and thats your job...

good luck...

Look at the bright side, you'll find out if she has anything, or rather, your friend will find out for you but Vago was right, get to be friends with her.

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Don't worry bout the bitch man, theres plenty more honey in the bee hive. have a beer, then go out on the town with your mates and hook up with some chicks.

I've been in the exact same position. It's one of those thigns in life. Initially, you can try to forget but get nowhere. It is difficult to handle, but you have to pull through. Keep telling yourself she's one of many, concentrate on other girls, and start thinking about other girls you know. The less you think about her, the less she'll dominate your thoughts and the less bothered you'll be by it all. The more often you get different women on your mind, the quicker they will consume your thoughts and the quicker you'll forget about her.

Jesus fuck Christ!! I'm tired of this "girl of my dreams" bullshit. Have you ever even talked to her? gone out with her? said "hi" to her? Just because she is good looking and you want to stick your dick in her does not mean that you are in love with her. Same with having wanted to stick your dick in her "for a long time." Get over yourself and grow some balls and a personality.

quote:Originally posted by Pavlyk:

Hey everybody. This is my first post in Sex and Affection but never mind that. Okay today my best friend asked out this hot ass girl that I am in love with. Now she's going over to his house on the weekend to get drunk and maybe get layed. I am feeling very depressed that this happened that the girl of my dreams is now gone. Any suggestions on what should be done to cheer myself up or resolve this problem of mine. Please no flamming and no stupid answers like killing my friend, and mind my spelling if some of it may be wrong, becuae I'm too depressed to check it. Thanks everyone.

First time here eh?? Well then.. allow me.. *ahhem* HAHA! YOU'RE DEPRESSED!

All seriousness aside, get over it. You didn't make the move, so it's your own fault. End of story. Now if you'll excuse me, I need to insult more stupid people.

Good Day.

I think all males go through this at one point in life. However, it takes a situation like this to make you get your relationships with females in prespective. Guys who treat girls bad usually get the girls, and getting burned like you have should help bring that out.