I made a similar post, but you guys seemed determined not to respond. So I rephrased the title and the question.

There is a girl who I attempted relations with earlier in the school year. It was a half-assed and quite shameful attempt, and accordingly, it didn't work. Now, I want to hook up with this girl, and this time give it a decent try. Howeer, what do I say to this girl. We have little in common except for being at the same school, and having the same lunch and gym period. I just am at a loss of what to talk about considering that I already am acquanted with her, and she already "dissed me" (she didn't give me her number, but I admit I didn't put too much energy into it and talked to her for a whole of about 60 seconds).

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 05-19-2004).]

Did you just start the same thread over again? Maybe she does not like you because you are boring.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Did you just start the same thread over again? Maybe she does not like you because you are boring.



Look, unless you have an answer, don't reply. And I gave my reason for re-starting the thread: I wasn't satisfied with the 3 replies to my old thread. I decided to give it another go.

So honestly, STFU unless you can answer my question.

i suggest you say something to make her laugh.do that a couple of times and she'll be more relaxed aroung you.

also find out what interests her cos girls love to talk about themselves as much as we blokes do about ourselves.

good luck

[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 05-19-2004).]

I sometimes can't figure out what to say...it is because you are probably not comfortable with the girl...like when a girl that can really talk and is interested in me I FEEL as if she REALLY likes me thus I can talk to her with ease without thinking of what next to say.

quote:Originally posted by DoMiNiOn:

I sometimes can't figure out what to say...it is because you are probably not comfortable with the girl...like when a girl that can really talk and is interested in me I FEEL as if she REALLY likes me thus I can talk to her with ease without thinking of what next to say.

Right...well, how do I get comfortable with her? Its just awkward because there has been such a long time since I tried hitting on her. I just can't think of shit to say that would actually start a conversation.

quote:Originally posted by TheDragon:



Look, unless you have an answer, don't reply. And I gave my reason for re-starting the thread: I wasn't satisfied with the 3 replies to my old thread. I decided to give it another go.

So honestly, STFU unless you can answer my question.

Look here you little shit. You see all the threads about stupid threads? They are talking about this shit here. Your question is impossible to answer because there are no magic words that are going to hook you up. I could say something to a woman and get her number and then some, and you could say the exact same thing and get what you got now. I did reply to your last post and gave you something to get you thinking. Apparently that was a bad idea because you can't think. Idiots like you get rejected for a reason.

DON'T START THE SAME "HOW CAN I STOP BEING A LOSER" THREAD TWICE IN A ROW

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Look here you little shit. You see all the threads about stupid threads? They are talking about this shit here. Your question is impossible to answer because there are no magic words that are going to hook you up. I could say something to a woman and get her number and then some, and you could say the exact same thing and get what you got now. I did reply to your last post and gave you something to get you thinking. Apparently that was a bad idea because you can't think. Idiots like you get rejected for a reason.

DON'T START THE SAME "HOW CAN I STOP BEING A LOSER" THREAD TWICE IN A ROW



Clearly I didn't want YOUR answer again. I wanted additional responses. And I also did not want some magic answer. I wanted responses based on people's past experiences, possible discussion topics, etc. It is not the same thread either. This is more specific. I quote:

"how do I resume flirting with this girl?"

This thread was more specific in that I was asking for specific topics.

In essense, they are the same, but this was more specific, and the other thread wasn't getting replies. If you have a problem with it, don't fucking come to the thread, jackass. I'm not asking for your advice again (which was pretty crappy, anyways), I'm asking for additional advice.

If shit like this bothers you so much, then you need to get off your computer and stop being such a whore. Faggot ass bitch.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

you are of course correct about the apostrophe. never can remember which way round(like a lot of other people on totse!). if 'to make a post' is a common americanism then i apologise although i have never yet heard an american say that but as a brit wtf do i know about americanisms.

'attempt relations' is the sort of phrase an indian would use - totally correct and yet jarringly wrong. you know the sort of thing -for example 'please be getting your qualifications' .

anyway if you are a native speaker i apologise once again.

Well, whatever, we got way off topic. Sorry...

I'm gonna delete those replies, as they were pretty fucking pointless. Would you follow suit?

Damn it, you have a bunch of threads asking stupid questions like this. Why don't you get out some and figure some of this stuff out through experience.

Obviously you have nothing to talk about you sit on totse all day and ask dumbass questions on subjects like how to get better at being around people. All you could possibly talk about are things going on in your life or things you have done, and I think you are smart enough to realize that talking to a girl about what is going on in totse is going to get you no where.

My suggestion is to get involved in a sport, or some school activity or something. Sports and activities are easy ways to make good friends, you'd have to try not to. Then get together with these friends outside of school and just hang out. That should give you something to talk about with people and make you a better all around person at the same time. This is clearly not the only way however, it is probably one of the easiest.

[This message has been edited by Rattrap51 (edited 05-19-2004).]

if i were you, ide smoke sum greens, then go up to her and start talkin...maybe youll get somewhere i feel way more comfortable wit girls when im high...i dont know...try it atleast

quote:Originally posted by TheDragon:

I'm not asking for your advice again (which was pretty crappy, anyways),

If you were qualified to make that call, you would not be here asking how to talk to a girl. All you do is have a topic, ask open ended questions, pick up on key words, and read her like a book. And try to not be the annoying little prick you are.

When this girl that you love is sucking yer cock, give her everything that yer can swallow, if she dont like it then tell her to fuckoff and never come back. If she a nice fuck in bed then keep it, otherwise take it to the vets to get put to sleep hahahahahahha

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

If you were qualified to make that call, you would not be here asking how to talk to a girl. All you do is have a topic, ask open ended questions, pick up on key words, and read her like a book. And try to not be the annoying little prick you are.

See, now THAT was good advice. Save for the last line...

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And Rattrap, just because you are too simple minded to understand the point of my questions does not make them "dumbass questions". Take your head out of your ass and listen for a second. Having people skills is a valuable talent, and it takes developing. Some have it naturally, some don't. Asking how to improve people skills is in no way dumbass. I'm not expecting you to know what I'm talking about. You'll probably just reply and spew out the same shit that I've just replied to.

This thread being stupid? No, just the faggots who keep replying. If you made a post about computers, and I replied about the weather, that would be ridiculous. Well, the replies I get on these "stupid" threads are just as ridiculous. I don't care about your opinion on what you think my life is like. I don't care about your opinion on whether I should re-post. I want replies relevant to my post.

FYI. 90% of the posts on totse could be called "stupid". Including most of yours rattrap. Do I think this thread is stupid? Maybe in the big scheme of things, but shit, I have my reasons for asking. I don't give a fuck about how stupid you thinkt his thread is. If you aren't a mod here to close it, or if you don't have an answer, then just stay the fuck out. Oh wait, that would be logic...

(It is fucking ridiculous how you pricks come in my thread, insult me because you don't like my question, and then call me annoying for defending myself. Don't even reply, just GET OUT. If you don't like it in here, LEAVE!)

EDIT: It's amazing at how much trash is in this thread. Please, Easy Going, Rattrap, EVERYONE ELSE, if you don't like what is in a thread, and are just there to bitch, don't post in it. I had a valid question (in my opinion, and that is all that really matters given that I'm asking the question), and that was "what would you guys suggest I talk about when there really isn't anything to talk about". Should I clarify? I want experiences more than anything. There is no tell-all answer, but I would learn better from hearing people's experiences.

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 05-19-2004).]

You should say

"Listen, i'm not that interesting, so you should fuck me because it's the only thing i can do that's not totally boring"

Either she'll ignore it, like she already does to every attempt you make, or she'll be intrigued by your frankness/confidence and comply. Either way you can't lose, and you don't even have to lie!

theBishop

Easy yeah, I think you nailed it with the boring statement.

TheDragon you are boring, and you would probably freak any girl out with some of the shit you say.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Easy yeah, I think you nailed it with the boring statement.

TheDragon you are boring, and you would probably freak any girl out with some of the shit you say.

I'll just say OK. I'm tired of exercising my fingers and brain on idiots.

EDIT: But I AM curious, idiot. Why do you consider me boring [especially considering you know jack shit about me]?

[This message has been edited by TheDragon (edited 05-19-2004).]

Dragon you seem like an impatient moron, no wonder she doesn't like you.

quote:Originally posted by BigMattTheHobo:

Dragon you seem like an impatient moron, no wonder she doesn't like you.

Idiot2, impatient in what way? When a thread drops back a page or two with no replies, I consider it dead. Rarely do threads pop back up. And I didn't say she didn't like me [,moron]. I said I wanted some help on how to re-start a dead relationship...one that was never fully started anyways. Again, see the above posts. I don't care about your opinion unless it is answering my question.

quote: I don't care about your opinion unless it is answering my question.

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Why reply to me if you don't care?

You don't get help by being rude.

Go get your girl.

quote:Originally posted by BigMattTheHobo:

Why reply to me if you don't care?

You don't get help by being rude.

Go get your girl.

Irony is a cool word...

Has she seen the way you treat other people?

If you are as short, demanding, patronising, condescending, and an overall dickhead to perfect strangers in an annonomous internet forum, than how am I to believe you act any different in r/l?

Try being cocky and funny to make an impression instead of proving to yourself how much more intellectual you are than the rest of the planet.

Being an arrogant prick dosen't seem to work well with the ladies, and it's extreamly childish.

quote:Originally posted by statistic83:

Has she seen the way you treat other people?

If you are as short, demanding, patronising, condescending, and an overall dickhead to perfect strangers in an annonomous internet forum, than how am I to believe you act any different in r/l?

Try being cocky and funny to make an impression instead of proving to yourself how much more intellectual you are than the rest of the planet.

Being an arrogant prick dosen't seem to work well with the ladies, and it's extreamly childish.

Yes...I'm an arrogant prick, that's right . I make a post, and get idiot after idiot coming in here starting shit with me and getting off topic instead of answering my question. My point, which I believe is just fucking common sense, is that people shouldn't come in here bitching and giving me their opinions on off topic matters.

If that is arrogant prickishness (hehe) then fuck it. I am an arrogant prick.

wow this is interesting and all but ya kno. the real way to get a girl is being yourself. so talk to her like you would talk to your parents. it can go alot of different ways depending on the type of person ur trying to talk to aka, punkish, gothic, religious etc. etc. find some common ground between you two and unlike everyone else's belief its not about sex like 70 percent of the time girls dont base their relationships on sex. as long as u do it right you should have nothing to worry about. so my best advice i can say is be yourself. by the way dragon is being perfectly logical

TheDragon,

Sorry if my post was overly offended, but for Christ's sake look at your post. You're basically saying

"Listen guys, there's this girl in one of my classes, i don't really know her and we don't really have anything in common, but i really want to have sex with her. Can anyone help me?"

Maybe you're not familiar with my ultra conservative, close-mindedness, but i never let people get away with "how can i have meaningless sex" posts.

sincerely,

theBishop

You guys need to seriously re-think your replies; you make me sick. We're not discussing the problems of some ungrateful totse loser here, we're dealing with a fucking dragon. Show some respect.

Just find some middle ground you both can relate to, and go forward from there. Make her laugh. Ask her questions like you're interviewing her. Girls love to talk about themselves, and it's a good way to feel eachother out, so to speak.

quote:Originally posted by theBishop:

TheDragon,

Sorry if my post was overly offended, but for Christ's sake look at your post. You're basically saying

"Listen guys, there's this girl in one of my classes, i don't really know her and we don't really have anything in common, but i really want to have sex with her. Can anyone help me?"

Maybe you're not familiar with my ultra conservative, close-mindedness, but i never let people get away with "how can i have meaningless sex" posts.

sincerely,

theBishop

Eh...your post didn't bother me that much. And I suppose you are right...if you remove all the sugar coating, my interest in this girl is purely physical=>sexual. This post was aimed towards the first step in that: talking. I talk to her, but have trouble starting a conversation with her.

Give her a reason to talk to you. Being escorted out of the gym class you have with her by the police should be sufficient enough