ok, i really love a girl atm and have for a long time!!

but she still isnt over some guy, there are also 2 other guyz after her but i dont wanna give up now!!!

should i just give up or should i fight till the end or will i just get more hurt than if i stopped now???

please give opinions or whatever(flames accepted)

You didnt really say that you talked to her, so talk to her, and try to win her over.

::waiting for Easygoing's or deadlycindy's reply:::

go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!

I'd like to say my man, to get some time alone, so you can talk for a while. In that time try to get your feelings across and get her to tell you face-to-face where you stand. That's my advise Dave... but then again I did fuck up my chance with the gal I like by being a forward prick... Dave man, you have the accent and you guys are good friends. You shouldn't stop yet. Make your poitions clear before you do anything like that.

Spicy, I've decided you should go for it. Ask her out, I mean, we all know how obsessive you get, but remember the password guessing incident? It's time to put action to words. Ask her out, if she blows you off, think of NOFX and Reading, if she doesn't, you're in.

quote:Originally posted by Clement_Wong:

I'd like to say my man, to get some time alone, so you can talk for a while. In that time try to get your feelings across and get her to tell you face-to-face where you stand. That's my advise Dave... but then again I did fuck up my chance with the gal I like by being a forward prick... Dave man, you have the accent and you guys are good friends. You shouldn't stop yet. Make your poitions clear before you do anything like that.

quote:Originally posted by Rav:

Spicy, I've decided you should go for it. Ask her out, I mean, we all know how obsessive you get, but remember the password guessing incident? It's time to put action to words. Ask her out, if she blows you off, think of NOFX and Reading, if she doesn't, you're in.

oh you guyz...sorry i didnt quote every1...im just not wanting to ask her out cause im pretty sure she wont but if i wait she might so yeah!!!

il give her till end of exams and iif no change then il ask her out i think!!!:s

any other suggestinos?

Dave man, Rav has a point. You have been after her for a long while now. She's a nice gal me thinks. You guys'd be good together

If you really love her, this shouldn't be a question. Especially one you'd ask complete strangers.

quote:Originally posted by Mahimaki:

::waiting for Easygoing's or deadlycindy's reply:::

LOL Thanks, I think.

First thing you should do is fall out of love with her. Yeah, I know you can't or think you can't. However, if you do not have a relationship with her, how can you love her? I have been there, and I know it feels real, but trust me; it is not the same as beginning to love someone you have been with for a while.

You attract women when you are not just fixated on one. If you are fixated on one, you are more likely to repel her. Your high stakes game will mess with your confidence. Normally speaking, there are exceptions.

What can you do after you get a foot back in reality and still want to go out? Every situation is different, but for a basic formula, I like the "Tao of Steve" rules. 1. Be Desireless 2. Be Excellent 3. Be Gone. That does not mean you don’t ask her out. But she should wonder if you just want to be friends or if you want to use her or if you may be more interested in someone else. Do something excellent in her presence and then be scarcer than you have to be.

Or you could just ask her and that will work if she is already interested in you or has nothing better to do.

You should check out the seduction archive too.

cheers, yeah i wasnt actually going to take opinionns from complete strangers just to get some ideas and if any appeal to me perhaps folloew them!!!

and rav and clement arent excactly strangers!!!

Like EasyGoing says, LEARN AND PRACTICE the TAO OF STEVE formula. If you do, you will more likely get what you are after, without having to do all the chasing, and without getting "manipulated" (that dreaded "guy-word")!

Once you've planted the seed of desire (or at least "interest") in the girl, your SCARCITY makes you more desireable and challenging to her -- and her quiet mission then often turns to CONQUEST!! (hee hee)! But as long as you hang around -- needy and adoring -- you'll less likely start that spark of "interest", or that fire of desire in her, and instead, you will... sort of like give her a lot of power to manipulate you...(Oooops, there's that dreaded guy-word again!!) (hee hee).

So now you've heard the same advice from EasyGoing, whose advice I think you said you trusted, and from me too!! My only qualifications to give you that advice is that I am a GIRL, and I everyday see what happens to guys who don't know and practice the TAO OF STEVE!!! They get neglected, manipulated, and eaten up much of the time.

Just trying to help, so don't be angry at me for telling you what I see every day, with my very own two eyes. Love, Venus.

dave, you've got to ask her out (unless theres some reason why you can't that you're not telling us). if she says no then you'll soon get over your obsession, and if she says yes then its all good. i actually think that if you time it well and make a few nice gestures (not with your hands, hips, mouth, pelvis or any other part of your body) then she'll say yes.

but dont get too carried away with the whole thing because the chances are she'll end up screwing you over like everyone else shes gone out with. forget about "loving" her and just focus on having a good time, maybe even a little sucky and/or fucky.

cheers matt...i have been soothing her up tonight as a matter of fact!!!

that reason why i cannot ask her out is that i know she will say no but if i wait until she is "over" steve then there is the remote chance that she will go out with me!!!

You should shut the fuck up yer crying bitch. Stop yer fuckin wimpering man for fucks sake im goin to vommit. fucks sake get ya head glued together man. hahahahhahahh

Coming from the bloke with too many connotations to note as a name (two woods, pecker, woodpecker...)

Fucking quim

quote:Originally posted by WoodyWoodpecker:

You should shut the fuck up yer crying bitch. Stop yer fuckin wimpering man for fucks sake im goin to vommit. fucks sake get ya head glued together man. hahahahhahahh

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA what...ok then im a big man and i dont have any feelings cause i like to make some macho image on a website so every1 thinks im some hard manly man, i bet your some really sad fuck that has to make a dream man on here so that he can compensate for his real life...how about u fuck off and die u quim!!!

you just know that this is true too, your only interest in fucking computers(literally probably)...at least i have some kind of love interest, ure either some loner who's never been laid or ure married to some bitch that treats you like shit!!!



[This message has been edited by spicy69 (edited 05-19-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by spicy69:

oh you guyz...sorry i didnt quote every1...im just not wanting to ask her out cause im pretty sure she wont but if i wait she might so yeah!!!

il give her till end of exams and iif no change then il ask her out i think!!!:s

any other suggestinos?

Make sure that she gets to know you and you guys at least become friends, but not like "best" friends. Then when she's over the old guy, she'll have a reason to pick you over the 2 other guys who want her. Plus she'll like you more since she knows you better. And you'll already have gotten a head start on the whole "getting to know each other" part of the relationship.

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

Make sure that she gets to know you and you guys at least become friends, but not like "best" friends. Then when she's over the old guy, she'll have a reason to pick you over the 2 other guys who want her. Plus she'll like you more since she knows you better. And you'll already have gotten a head start on the whole "getting to know each other" part of the relationship.

yeah but we all know her really well already, i have known her for about 2 years and same for others, but thx!!

i think im just gonna have to wait for her to get over him and then when she is looking for someone i will "turn on the heat" so to speak!!!

prolly jus ask her out and if she sez no then try get over her and have some fun in the summer!!!

thx for replies tho!!!except for whoever that fag was !!!woddywoodpecker!!!



[This message has been edited by spicy69 (edited 05-20-2004).]