people are stupid, this guy i'm good friends with has been into me since we met a couple of months ago, well he kept trying to get my friends to make me go out with him but they knew i didn't like him and told him, but he still keeps trying. 10 minutes ago he tried for 5 minutes to get me to go to movies with him.

well one of my friends started talking to him, originally about me, but they became friends too right. well then she started liking him, but he was still after me. i kept trying to get him away from me and towards my friend but he doesn't feel an attraction with her even though they have like cyber sex fantasies together. (it was a scary moment when she told me about that) now she's like my best friend and i love her and i don't want the guy. i just don't want any of this. WHY ARE GUYS STUPID?!

You can't really help who you like and don't like. Figure out which friendship means more to you and proceed from there.

Well, maybe you lead him on? Girls seem to do that to me someimes. Like, I will talk to them and then I will let them know things about me, share ideas etc. And then when it comes time to ask them out to a movie or dinner, after we hang out all the time she turns me down. And if that doesn't piss you off...

the way you describe "leading on" sounds an awful lot like being friends with someone. friends talk about stuff and if thats leading people on well then i'm a leader, even though i keep saying no to him

i have commitment issues and he even knows this but he still tries.

What the hell is your definition of a good friend? I go to the movies with my friends and don't think it's weird that they would ask me to.

And omg u r sooo right about him guyz bein stupid. wtf kind of guy wuld liek a grrl????!!!!11118

i do stuff with him, but he wants it to be like a date and saying yes to that would be leading him on

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You're retarded. Lol, but anyway I know one of my friends that is going through the same thing the guy that likes you is going through. I have told him constantly that the girl he is after doesn't like him and that he should move on because there are alot more fish in the sea. He has liked this girl for 6 months, and she has hurt him numerous times. I guess when you like someone to the point where you can't let go or you have liked them for so long, that it was kinda meant to be. I would say give him a chance, you may end up liking him. What's going to the movies with him gonna hurt?

I say use 'im. Milk that mother fucker like a bitch. Drain every drop of blood from him that you can then ditch him in a humiliating and painful way. He's gotta learn somehow.

you guys should all read the, LadderTheory; http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

press the link to the Foundations of Ladder Theory.

And btw; i were inlove with a girl for a bit more then three years. and i knew that she didn't share my feelings. but when you're deeply inlove, it's hard to just 'letgo'. give him some time.. he will get over you some time. or he'll become a complete psycho and follow you around where ever you go..

Who Knows?

Not Me!

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quote:Originally posted by Kiminator:

you guys should all read the, LadderTheory; http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

press the link to the Foundations of Ladder Theory.

And btw; i were inlove with a girl for a bit more then three years. and i knew that she didn't share my feelings. but when you're deeply inlove, it's hard to just 'letgo'. give him some time.. he will get over you some time. or he'll become a complete psycho and follow you around where ever you go..

Who Knows?

Not Me!

//Do'h!!!//

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nice, i thought id read most of the stuff i could find on sexual theory. Nice to find something i havent read or doesnt just repeat an old topic in new words.

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