Thank you to everyone that has offered their suggestions and consolation to me over the last few months. If you've read some of my older posts about my situation with my ex-girlfriend, you know what I'm talking about. I won't go very deep into detail, but in short, I'm over her. There will be no more A in a relationship sense in SubZen's life. I realised that what everyone has been telling me for the last 3 months, that she was a whore, that she wasn't right for me, all that stuff. I feel almost as if a great weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Last night I was at a concert that was trying to raise money for a new city skate park. I spent a lot of the last band's set sitting outside mingling (sp?) with people I knew and that I thought I should get to know. I ended up meeting 4 girls last night, all of which seemed to flock around me telling me that I was hot. Definately an ego boost. I'm not sure what pulled all those girls to me, whether it was my hair (dreadlocks down to my shoulders), how I look, or just that confident air I've developed since I broke up with my last girlfriend. It could also have to do with the fact that I wasn't wearing underwear and told a few friends. Almost every girl that I talked to already knew and thought it was sexy. That was cool.

Well, this has just been an update as to how my life in relation to other people has been going lately. Thanks again to everyone that's offered advice.

Rock on.

You mean to tell me that chicks think it's sexy when you go commando?!?!

What the Hell is that all about?!?!

Congrats by the way.

Thats one down, we still have one to go.

Good luck to you my son

What draws the ladies? It might have something to do with the fact that you're capable of intelligent thought, which means you carry a certain air of confidence, which means you probably have something interesting to say.

Or, it could be the dreads and the skating. Even back in the 80s we thought skaters were hot.

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You mean to tell me that chicks think it's sexy when you go commando?!?!

What the Hell is that all about?!?!

Congrats by the way.

It's probably because I've got a really flat stomach and that V-cut thing. That's what happens when you stop eating meat and work out all the time.

deadlycindy's probably right too. It's the intelligence and air of confidenct that it spawns.

Whoa, stop eating meat and work out all the time... Those are 2 things that do not go well together, unless of course you are eating a helluva lot of protein supplements like whey etc...

Anyways, if your not you should start there is no sense in working out all the time and not eating any protein your just wasting your time, sure you burn fat and look cut but muscles need protein to grow. A lot of people will recomend 1 gram per pound, so if you weigh 150lbs eat 150 grams of protein a day, this is a little bit hard, but if your not against eating fish tuna is almost all protein and water, I think like 25 grams per can and you can get tons of different supplements.

Just a tip, who knows you may be doing this kind of stuff already.

I eat a lot of protein still, but not as much as I used to. I also started eating a better diet than before when I ate meat. I never used to eat fruits and vegetables, just meat and starches. Now I eat a lot of nuts, beans, and soy, along with lots of fruits and vegetables. And I don't actually work out constantly, more like 3 times a week for an hour each, but that's more than most people. When I stopped eating meat I didn't eat well at first and I lost the little bit of fat I had on my stomach, then I started eating right and now I'm in pretty good shape.

Dude...If I had a quid for every chick who called me sexy/handsome/fit/any other adjective you can think of, I'd be fucking rich!

I eat meat...I don't work out...I am still fit as a friggin' fiddle!

That may have something to do with the miles of walking I do and the labouring I do on building sites!

And the tattoos...Chicks dig the tattoos!

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And the tattoos...Chicks dig the tattoos!

Yes they do. And I wish I didn't have to work out to stay in shape, that'd rule.

i wanna see a pic of your dreadlocks~

My camera isn't working, but I might have a pic on my computer. I'll try to find one.