My girlfriend blew me off to hang out with her friends tonight. It hurt, she lied to me. I wouldn't of had a problem if she wanted to hang out with her friends but to say she was going to call and never call and never answer her phone and then turn it off. I'm going to try to talk to her tomorrow and ask her what happened to our plans. If she lies to me I don't know what I'll do.

I wish I didn't like her so much because I know if she lies to me I'll probably give her a second chance. But I wonder if she'll lie again and I'm worried that she will and I'll get hurt like I always do. Should I just end it if she lies to me tomorrow? Or can people change? Well sorry about the long ass post but I don't have anybody to talk to and tonight is the first time I've ever really felt speed so I'm in a talkative mood.

So she's cheating on you?

quit whinging, guys do it to girls all the time. just get over it & move on

quote:Originally posted by D-Loc 1605:

My girlfriend blew me off to hang out with her friends tonight. It hurt, she lied to me. I wouldn't of had a problem if she wanted to hang out with her friends but to say she was going to call and never call and never answer her phone and then turn it off. I'm going to try to talk to her tomorrow and ask her what happened to our plans. If she lies to me I don't know what I'll do.

I wish I didn't like her so much because I know if she lies to me I'll probably give her a second chance. But I wonder if she'll lie again and I'm worried that she will and I'll get hurt like I always do. Should I just end it if she lies to me tomorrow? Or can people change? Well sorry about the long ass post but I don't have anybody to talk to and tonight is the first time I've ever really felt speed so I'm in a talkative mood.

Her attitude to you will change if she respects you more. But you're not a challenge to her, you make it obvious that she's all you want - she won't ever respect that. Giving her a second chance isn't a bad option, just so long as you start throwing your weight around in the relationship a little and make sure she knows she can't just pick you up and put you down as she pleases. If you don't think you can do this, the chances are you will get hurt again - so you'd be best off getting out of there and ending it.

How could I start throwing my weight around? And what could I do to make it seem like she isn't all I want? This is my first real relationship in so long and I'm so lost.

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Right now you sound really needy, and I can understand why she blew you off--it sucks to be around people like that.

You need to realise that everyone needs their space. There's nothing wrong with spending a lot of time with your partner, but there is something wrong with spending all of your time with them. It's called codependance, and I think it's a big turn off for most people. You need to try to redevelop your own personality by doing stuff apart from her, but that doesn't mean you need to break up.

God.. Not another cry baby pussy. Stop being so clingy, and go do shit. You don't need her to survive. Do stuff with her, and give her some time to herself. Christ..

Well, if she didn't call you and turned her phone off to avoid your calls, she's obviously not comfortable with honestly telling you that she'd like some time to herself. Is it possible you react in a way that makes her uncomfortable?

Check yourself. Consider the statement: "Give your bf/gf more space than you think s/he needs". It's a basic rule for a healthy relationship, and if you're not following it, problems are inevitable.

Wow, you're up early, Cindy.

Wow Gustwat, and your never early enough to hopefully let deadly stick her rod of your ass.

Then mock you as her bitch and you praise her as your queen.

What shallow waters do we swim in to please the moderator of a BOARD?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Wow Gustwat, and your never early enough to hopefully let deadly stick her rod of your ass.

If you're going to attempt to insult me, at least spell my name right. "Gustave", not "Gustwat". I don't think you're as big of an idiot as you make yourself out to be, no one can be that stupid. So, try and act the part of a think, rational human being.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Then mock you as her bitch and you praise her as your queen.

Goddess, not queen.

You're just sad, however, that no one likes you. Why don't you go and play a little game of "Highway Football", ok kid?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

What shallow waters do we swim in to please the moderator of a BOARD?

You'd be wise to note that I stalked (err, I mean replied. Yeah, replied) to Cindy before she was a moderator.

Hell, being a moderator means only that you are obligated to take care of your bullshit replies. I do that all of the time out of my own free will, as do a lot of people (why, you ask? Because no one likes you).

Now, CarbonB, why don't you go and put your skills as a critic to use and make a few bucks while you're at it, http://www.joecritic.com/joinjoe.php .

I guess you don't realize why I called you Gustwat.

Your name is Gustwat simply becuase your a TWAT and I keep gus because that's what people know part of your name to be.

I know you know this, so there is no reason I should have to explain it to you other then the fact you deny not knowing what I'm talking about.

Gustwat is the name I refer to you as. Got it now Gustwat?

Anyways, unlike you, I don't really care if no one likes me on a fucking totse message board.

Ovbiously your life revovles around this board in the hopes deadly will give you the time of day in real life.

Other then that you have no life and all you can do is sit on here and try to make yourself feel better.

You can make all the smart comments that you want, but when your on here 24 hours a day remember there are a lot of people in the world including me that will be out doing something instead of jacking off over a screen name.

Grats, your the biggest loser I know.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

I guess you don't realize why I called you Gustwat.

Your name is Gustwat simply becuase your a TWAT and I keep gus because that's what people know part of your name to be.

Oh no, I've been insulted over the internet!

Idiot.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

I know you know this, so there is no reason I should have to explain it to you other then the fact you deny not knowing what I'm talking about.

Gustwat is the name I refer to you as. Got it now Gustwat?

I have no idea who you're talking to you idiot. It almost looks like my name, but it can't be because my name is either Guswut or Gustave.

This Gustwat fellow must really like you, doesn't s/he?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Anyways, unlike you, I don't really care if no one likes me on a fucking totse message board.

Good thing too because no one likes you!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Ovbiously your life revovles around this board in the hopes deadly will give you the time of day in real life.

No, I get the time of day from my watch, or computer clock. My life, on the other hand, revolves around the Earth's core, and the Earth itself revolves around the sun, and the sun revolves around the universal center. Next stupid question please!

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Other then that you have no life and all you can do is sit on here and try to make yourself feel better.

I really love how you morons think that you know me when, in reality, you have no idea who/what I am. How would you, the simple minded twit that you are, know if I have anything else to do?

Oh, and if I wanted to make myself feel better, what I'd do something productive. Like track you down and send letters filled with white powder to your house.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

You can make all the smart comments that you want, but when your on here 24 hours a day remember there are a lot of people in the world including me that will be out doing something instead of jacking off over a screen name.

If I was on here 24 hours a day, I'd never have any time to sleep, eat, shit, or anything that I need to do to live. Thusly, I'd die in less then a week. Seeing as I've been alive longer then a week, your logic is illogical. You, thusly, are illogical as a direct result of your illogical logic. In simpler words, seeing as you're a moron, I win.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Grats, your the biggest loser I know.

You're really bad at the English (and the flaming on the internet too).

Now shut up, and sit down idiot. I'll give you a shiny disk if you do... *throws penny at CarbonB*.

~~~

Arg, why the hell am I using logic with this cretin? I forgot he isn't capable of logical thought.

All he is going to do is reply with a much longer, more idiotic reply. Gah, he's like the plague. :\

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d-loc if i did that to my b/f i would get beaten. maybe you should put her over your knee?

The thread title is SO american "She blew me off" means "she gave me head". When people say that it cracks me up. You guys have some funny sayings...

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

[B]all of his idiotic postsB]

Carbon your not funny, go away

sheesh there are so many threads that just turn into a gustave carbonb battle

it really disappoints me

quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:

...it really disappoints me

Shut up.

Damnit, I missed another interesting thread. That is it was interesting till carbon and gustave arrived. Anyways, you already have received some good advise.

quote:Originally posted by D-Loc 1605:

How could I start throwing my weight around? And what could I do to make it seem like she isn't all I want? This is my first real relationship in so long and I'm so lost.



I should probably write up something on this eventually, but for now I want to tell you about a similar experience I had a few years back. I was interested in the chick at work, and she flirted with me, but seemed to avoid me closing any deals. She would tell me to call and then not call me back and she even stood me up...twice. I would not put up with that now, but she had me going. Anyway, I had invited her to a fairly large concert that she was excited about. So I was talking to one of her girl friends and she was listening to me complain about how rude this girl was to me (just agreeing with me in person, but obviously going to go straight to her with everything I said) and I implied that I was going to stand her up for the concert. I did not say it directly, but I made sure she got the message. It got back to my date and she started acting weird. She kept trying to talk about the concert and I kept changing the subject. Then all of a sudden she wanted to do other things before the concert, and while I was not rude about it, I was busy. Finally she just asked me what she should wear to the concert. I don't think she really cared what I thought; it was just a way for her to bring it up and get me to talk about going with her. I remembered she spoke of this skimpy outfit she used to wear, but said she would not anymore...and I told her I wanted her to wear it. I said it matter of factly and did not break eye contact. I got a fast okay...but then later she tried to get me change my mind. Instead of talking about the outfit, I asked her directly, "are you going to stand me up again?" It was brilliant...the day before or the day after I would have caved, but that moment I was in the zone. She was surprised and said no, and I just said to wear that outfit. She said she would think about it, but I knew she was beat. We were going to leave from work, (I was there and she was coming back after going home to change) and she wanted me to meet her in the parking lot. I told her no, and to come up. She did not want to be seen in the office in the Swede short shorts and backless top. But she did as she was told, and later told me that she had her ride wait for her because she was scared I would not be there. She was all over me the entire concert. It was great. She was cute enough that with all the skin showing she was drawing the most attention in our section and she could not keep her hands off me. I played it cool for a bit, but then later broke down, grabbed her and had one of my most risqué PDA's (yeah, I am ashamed of it, but it was still cool. )



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