Alright, I might as well as start out from the very beginning: There's this chick that I've liked since the beginning of the year, and me and her are really good friends. One of our friends told me that she talks about me all the time. Well, I've asked her out 3 times, and all three times she said that she thinks of me more as a brother than anything else. Her and I can talk about anything and everything, and we have. Hell, we both tried weed together for the first time. What's ya'll advice, what should I do? If ya'll need more info, just lemme know.

man hate seein people gettin all hung up on the oppisite sex its not worth beleive me. if she says brother your fucked, plain and simple. go out and move on, if she does like you and shes just puttin up a front shell just get jealous and thats when you make your move. and just a lil advice for the future dont ever ask girl out more than once, its not worth paradeing yourself around like( for lack of better wording) a puppy in love, a girl says no, just like aight thats cool. acty like it dont matter, even when it really hurts. and never let your guard down women are tricky people.

tell her hwo you feel. if she's a real friend and she doesn't feel the same thing towards you, she won't put you down for it...

DOH!! She feels like your her brother hate to say it man, kiss it goodbye, theres a classic example of what happens when guys are to nice to chicks, you need to be a bit assertive and tell her no every once in awhile, I know it can be hard if you really like the girl but if you want a relashionship, you first of all have to know what shes looking for in a guy. And obviously the nice caring guy you were bein to her was not the kind of personality she was lookin for.

That's just the kind of person I am. I like to help people, anyone. Maybe I'm in for a personallity make-over. She's been causing me tons of emotional problems. I've tried weed before, and I told myself I'd never smoke it again unless I was really really down, or just wanted to have a good time w/ some of my friends, and well, I'm gettin' some this weekend so you can guess what the reason behind it is! Anyway, what should I do? Did I mention she still has feelings for her ex with whom she's gone out w/ 3 times. First time I know lil' about, 2nd time I know a bit about and she broke up with him cuz he shoved her hand down his pants. 3rd time she thought she had some feelin's for him, but decided that she didn't. Now she's sayin' she DOES have feelings for her, but I doubt that she actually does. It could just be me. Any advice?

Three previous dating attempts...Three shootings down!

I'd say your answer is right there mate!

Move on!

quote:Originally posted by Discipulus:

That's just the kind of person I am. I like to help people, anyone. Maybe I'm in for a personallity make-over. She's been causing me tons of emotional problems. I've tried weed before, and I told myself I'd never smoke it again unless I was really really down, or just wanted to have a good time w/ some of my friends, and well, I'm gettin' some this weekend so you can guess what the reason behind it is! Anyway, what should I do? Did I mention she still has feelings for her ex with whom she's gone out w/ 3 times. First time I know lil' about, 2nd time I know a bit about and she broke up with him cuz he shoved her hand down his pants. 3rd time she thought she had some feelin's for him, but decided that she didn't. Now she's sayin' she DOES have feelings for her, but I doubt that she actually does. It could just be me. Any advice?

I have jsut the same problem as you have.. damn its hard...