I'm new at this forum, so bear with me with my problem. I started to get to know this girl in school and work, and we ended up going to prom together, just as friends. But the problem is that i want to hook up and become more than friends, i guess going out thing. But the dilemma is that i have a friend that im pretty chill with, but i could see in his eyes that he likes her too. I talk to her often, but it seems that she doesn't seem that interested in me and this motherfucker(my fakeass friend) seems that he's pushing our relationship further. So what the hell should i do? Should i just continue talking to her, or just stop and make her come talk to me. I'm hella noob at this relationship game, so i need someone that could help me out. What should i do? Ask her out? im so lost... any help would be greatly appreciated.. thanks..

You sound like a "nice guy" and if that's the case, the battle is already lost my friend...

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Edit: I'm bored...

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Get in before your friend for petes sake. (your name is pete right?) You'll feel like shit if they start going out and your left behind. Ask her to a movie or something just do something!!!

Yeah ask her out, nice guys finish last, unless they finish first.

Don't make her come to you, playing hard to get doesn't work if the girl doesn't know your doing it. Best advice, tell her whats up and ask her out. The best thing you have on your side is confidence.

Just ask her out dude.

If the other guiy isn't even your friend then what does it matter if you get her before he does?

Just see what happens!

If you're both friends, she's fair game.

If the other dude isn't a real friend, then it's unfair game... Eliminate the competition.

I will ask her out, but the thing is that i don't want to make it to obvious that i like her. The problem would be, she would back away from me and be different around me. In the back of my head, rejection is always a fear to me. And the funny thing is that she works with me and the "friend" too, which makes it even harder for both of us. So what do you think, ask her out and risk it? or just play it smooth and let the game play itself?