At my church, thers this girl that likes me. She hasn't said it, but i know cause she's always looking at me, she always acts shy around me but not around anyone else, and she alwys tells only me bye when she leaves. I like her too. she's pretty, nice, and fun to be around, and she's 14. Anyways im kinda shy too, should i just go up to her and ask her out or just act casual and flirt with her for awhile until she makes a move.

If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.

~ Buddha

don't just ask her out right away.

you should work torwards it. so just start talking to her and see where it goes from there

edit: (off topic) have you read any books by carlos castaneda yet? you need to!

[This message has been edited by SARDONICPILLOW (edited 05-13-2004).]

He rocks. he the one that talks about reality, and how to escape it and shit?

yeah. try talking to her and get to know her. For all you know she's an arrogant bitch in disguise. So yes, get to know her, then go from there.

Just go up and talk to her.

Then when you feel it is the right time just ask her if she wants to go out with you sometime.

Hope it goes well.

just keep it casual until she opens up. then carpe diem and rag the living shit out of her

You say you see her at church? Try hanging with her outside of church, she may behave very differently.

Wip out your big fat juicy dick and say suck it bitch

just ask her if she'd like to come with you to some church christian youth gig. you know the sort of thing.somewhere she'll feel safe going and her parents won't be worried.

unless you KNOW she's looking for a 'bad boy' keep it cool and treat her like a princess

well mr samurai...chicks generally dont tend to make the first move...so waiting for her to do it wont really happen till..never...anyway..that being said, dont just ask her out, get to know her, hang out with her outside of church, and from personnal experience(not saying this is the case or nothing), but chicks that go to church, if their well off in society, tend to hate grubs such as i...but they take pity on me..atleast this one did...we were just friends...but now she looks down upon me...church is evil man...atleast church and overly religious snobs is evil...

I imagine it'd be hard to talk to her at church. What with the parents around at all. So go ask her to do something else with her, and really get to know her. If you like her once you know what she's like outside of Church then go nuts and ask her out for real.