A couple of months ago I had fucked a girl. It started off with just kissing and then she started to blow me. After about 20 minutes I was ready to bust but she stopped and I decided to go fuck her on a pool table. The problem was that this was my first time and when I started fucking I came in 5 minutes. Like pre-mature ejaculation. I was wondering if anyone ever experienced something like this before. Now im not sure if I pre-maturely ejaculate or it was because I was ready to come when she blew me and stopped and then we fucked. And also because it was my first time. All of my friends who fucked for their first time tell them they fucked for atleast an hour and did not come. Maybe there's something wrong with me?

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU and your mates are lying!

most men come within 2/3 minutes(as the girls here will confirm!) especially if theres been lots of foreplay.

Man, it's never premature. If anything, she took too long.

What bothers me is that since that happend the next fuck might turn out like this too where I come in 5 minutes. I imagined myself fucking for hours before but when that happend everything was shattered. Maybe it was my first time?

I really need some more opinions.

quote:Originally posted by chocothrax:

I really need some more opinions.

Cut your penis off, and mail it to your doctor. They can run tests that take a few days to see what exactly is wrong with your cock. When the test is over they will reattach it, no problems!

Tried mailing it to the doctors already but they just sent the penis back.

quote:Originally posted by SkiPpYP:

Man, it's never premature. If anything, she took too long.

somehow this just became my favoirte quote

yea um...the average guy lasts like 20 minutes. the average guy on his first time lasts like 20 seconds.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU and your mates are lying!

most men come within 2/3 minutes(as the girls here will confirm!) especially if theres been lots of foreplay.

Yeah seriously dude wtf, if I try I can ejaculate within like 15 seconds, no way I can hold out for 5 minutes.

haha... you're okay, just getting the engines revved up. In her mind's eye, she turned you on so much you blew your load and quick. Maybe a little embarassing for you but get over it. The opposite of what happened to you is the dreaded 'performance anxiety', where you can be so overly turned on and really wanting things to happen that you can't get it up. So much more infinitely worse. AND, to make that scenario even go further into the toilet, most guys' natural reaction to this problem is to say "This has never happened to me before". Think of how that statement boosts the girl's self-esteem.

Again, you're just a horny bastard with a healthy libido. Time and experience will teach you techniques to slow down your premature orgasms and hopefully even get in sync with your partner.

-Extant

i keep hearing about this 2-3 min blowout shit, but the closest i ever came to that was the first time i fucked a chick bareback. and even then, there was alot of teasing.

i dunno, it just seems to be a thing that will ease guys insecurities, it seems to me.

i know this: im uncircumsized, which another thing i heard about that is the dickhead nerves are sheathed in the skin, and very senseitive.

but, i never used lube to jerk off, didnt need to. the skin would come up over the head so i wouldnt get any cherry blisters. and it made the shaft very insensitive. so i can fuck, saying ive not been teased for a fucking half hour, for at least an hour.

even through blowjobs. the only thing that makes me weak is alot of mental shit, otherwise im good to go.

id also be lieing if it isnt also alot to do with mindset. after i get so worked up, i cut it off.

just sharing my expirience, maybe something like that would help you.

Yeah don't worry dude. If anything I would blame the fact that she blew you for 20 minutes before hand. That will do it. The average for a man is not 2/3 minutes for whoever said that. I just had sex yesterday and went for over 2 hours before I came. Best record yet 3 orgasms from her. Anyways this isn't about me. Alls I'm saying is that unless you're like that moron 13 year old in the other thread, you're fine.

One thing that will ruin it though, is to think about coming. Don't think about it, and you'll last longer. I don't know why, but I know it fucks me up.

Good Luck. Remember, everything is a lesson. Just learn from it.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU and your mates are lying!

most men come within 2/3 minutes(as the girls here will confirm!) especially if theres been lots of foreplay.

No kidding. I think the longest a guy has gone with me was about 15 minutes before he came...and he was slightly intoxicated (which makes it harder to come or get it up in the first place). So your friends are blowing smoke up your ass, hun.

quote:Originally posted by [G-Prime]:

Yeah don't worry dude. If anything I would blame the fact that she blew you for 20 minutes before hand. That will do it. The average for a man is not 2/3 minutes for whoever said that. I just had sex yesterday and went for over 2 hours before I came. Best record yet 3 orgasms from her. Anyways this isn't about me. Alls I'm saying is that unless you're like that moron 13 year old in the other thread, you're fine.

One thing that will ruin it though, is to think about coming. Don't think about it, and you'll last longer. I don't know why, but I know it fucks me up.

Good Luck. Remember, everything is a lesson. Just learn from it.



If you are fucking a girl and have a hard erection and are not over 40, you WILL ejaculate quickly. A lot of guys go limp repeatedly, which is what I am assuming happened here.

Thanks for all the replys. It's wierd one of my friend who lost his virginity just 2 days ago is bitching at me because he can't come. He told me he fucked for 2 hours non stop and couldn't come. He thinks that something is wrong with him. Now that's ironic. I also thought that the problem for me coming really fast was because she didn't finish blowing me. Also I was fucking in a public place on a pool table when no one was around. If that's a factor.

You know I actually heard from a lot of chicks (one a super huge slut by the way) that most guys last longer their first time... For me it was about no different between the first and every other...

Two of my best friends couldn't come their first time when they fucked.

This sounds like a case of "Everyone is different". The only treatment availible is experience.

quote:Originally posted by cola:

This sounds like a case of "Everyone is different"