I met this girl last Saturday night. We were at the same 21st party which was at a bar. So we get introduced and by this time I was loosened up enough to start a conversation. We start dancing for a while and everything’s going sweet. By the end of the night I get her number.

Now for me that was the easy part. The hard part is firstly the first phone call, and second is the First Date.

On the phone call I know im going to get lost for words and make her feel awkward, see im not very talkative unless ive had some booze, but the problem with that is I don’t want to rely on alcohol all the time.

The worst part is going to be the date.

My question is what type of venue is good for a first date. I don’t want to go to some movie or anything.

Next what the hell can I make myself do to relax and not be such a nervous bastard all the time.

Please help, ladies I need your advice, what should I talk about, what are some nice things to do on the first date etc.

A little bit about her, she is 19, Italian and very hot. She also looks after kids at a day care so she has a kind personality.

Thanks.

Italian?

You

Lucky

Fucker.

Well first off on the phone don't beat around the bush.

Get right to the point, it's the phone so it should be a lot easier then asking in person.

Ask her if she wants to come hang out with you, now it's important that you stated that she is Italian. Maybe take her out to an Italian restaraunt.

As far as what to say it's a first date and you should just be concerned with getting to know her, asking her questions and seeing how the conversations click and if you two click.

If you don't and there are a lot of quiet moments and ackwards pauses. Then I think it is best to assume that she isn't right for you.

There is nothing wrong with being nervous everyone is nervous on dates. Including the girl, depending on her attraction to you.

Infrared

get

over

it.

If you want a low-pressure venue, meet at the bar again and get a table.

Take her out for dinner & invite her back to your place to watch a (pre-hired/ripped) DVD. Have pop-corn and shit ready for when you get there.

NB: Try putting a bottle of lube and a bowl of condoms on top of the TV

Hey mate

Try doing something a bit different. Maybe take her 2 the nearest amusement park, putt putt golf place or ten pin bowling. Lots of fun bonding experiances had. Let her do most of the talking, ask her heaps of q's. Dont boast heaps about your self and wear something that u feel really comfortable.

Also make sure u offer her that youll pay for things, manners is a big thing, trust me they notice. Just be yourself, have fun and remember to make sure she wants to do it again!

good luck

peace out

Best first date: find a jazz or blues bar with live music

What to do to get her to relax? RELAX YOURSELF!! Also, SLOW DOWN!! And don't take her to a movie. If she likes jazz, the jazz bar thingy sounds good. The main thing is to make HER the TOTAL center of your attention, and make her feel comfortable with you. Love, Venus.

Thanks everyone,

the phone call was ok, we talked for about an hour and were going out next weekend to a jazz bar in Sydney. I think it will go well.