im turning 20 later this month and im still a virgin

i never even had a real girlfriend before, just a couple female friends in the past

sometimes suicide seems like the only option, maybe i'll go to heaven where i could fuck all the time, who knows.

Hey man, don't worry about it so much. If having relationships is something you want so badly, then just start trying for it harder. Even if you're ugly you can still get a chick, I've seen it happen lots.

Just focus on getting a girl, if that's really what you want, and you'll likely succeed. With an attitude like that you sure won't. Nobody likes a whiny and suicidal guy. Not even Buddha.

20 is a great time to get started. Don't be ashamed of not having a girlfriend before twenty (nothing to brag about though) because many of those relationships are pretty lame, take it from me.

Well, now that you have nothing to lose, you can start asking girls out. If you can slit your fucking wrists you can ask a girl for her goddamn number.

^ Pea has a good point.

Don’t worry about it, one of my mates is 20 and still a virgin. Half the people you talk to probably lie about how much they’re getting as well. I have also seen a lot of ugly guys with hot chicks (or at least chicks) who have probably got a lot more than the rest of us.

Stop being nice and start being pushy

Think about all the mormons who wait to have sex after their missions which is roughly around the age of 22.

They are all virgins? They don't press the matter? Does that make them better than you?

HELL NO!

Just wait, it will happen, rather it be with someone you care for rather than someone passed out.

I'm in the same situation as you man, 'cept I'll be 20 in a few months. If being a virgin bothers you that much, get a prostitute or hit on every girl at a party 'till you find one really drunk or on E.

It's not really that big of a deal. Documentary filmmaker Micheal Moore was a virgin till he was like 33.

Based on what the guys mostly post on Totse, I think you're probably LUCKY!! You have managed to avoid all the skinny, stuck-up teeny, drop-you-in-a-minute J.H.S. and H.S. drama-queens So now you are swimming right in the middle of an ocean of mature (at least semi-mature), caring, and "know-what-to-do-for-you" girls, who are more likely to please you. And they're also more devoloped (mentally, emotionally, and physically) too!! So you should like that!! Consider it your reward for waiting!! Love, Venus.

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

Based on what the guys mostly post on Totse, I think you're probably LUCKY!! You have managed to avoid all the skinny, stuck-up teeny, drop-you-in-a-minute J.H.S. and H.S. drama-queens So now you are swimming right in the middle of an ocean of mature (at least semi-mature), caring, and "know-what-to-do-for-you" girls, who are more likely to please you. And they're also more devoloped (mentally, emotionally, and physically) too!! So you should like that!! Consider it your reward for waiting!! Love, Venus.

holy shit, I had never thought of it like that, but you are SOOO right!

quote:Originally posted by southflorida03:

im turning 20 later this month and im still a virgin

i never even had a real girlfriend before, just a couple female friends in the past

sometimes suicide seems like the only option, maybe i'll go to heaven where i could fuck all the time, who knows.

1. lower your standards...

find some chick who is less than attractive or overweight or 'mature' who has lowered her own standards.

2. get a hooker...

they are only interested in your money so they dont care how you look.

why are you a virgin at 20? are you scary looking or too shy? go to the gym or something...work on your self esteem

if you are really that desperate, come up to Melbourne...Ill get you laid.

A few quick tips that helped me, start working out if you don't. Women equate a healthy looking body with a healthy sex life, which will attract them to you. Also, gain confidence if you think you're lacking in it. Women like men who are confident, but not cocky. Basically, you should strive to be the alpha male. Feel free to e-mail snowpusher87@hotmail.com if you have questions about all this.

dude, i'm starting to feel the same way...... i'm only 17 though, about to finish up with high school, and it seems like a lot of the people i know are getting some like most weekends, and then those who aren't at least have gotten with a few girls and had meaningful relationships and shit. I have never really done shit with girls, just cause i have no idea how to get started. I've never really been out on a date with anyone (except last week when the girl called up her boyfriend on the phone half way through it, that was kind of crushing), i'm just feeling down about it lately too....you're not the only one.

~meaty

quote:Originally posted by southflorida03:

im turning 20 later this month and im still a virgin



Man, you can't let sex control you. I envy you. You have the courage to stay pure, maybe that's why you haven't had any intimate relations yet. Just save it for marriage, what is a better gift than giving yourself to your spouse? That is why you get married, right? You're giving yourself to the person you love. Plus, if you haven't honestly fucked up and like killed people you will end up in heaven.

In my eyes, you are a man. Don't worry.



[This message has been edited by thequin88 (edited 05-13-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by TheMeatPirate:

I've never really been out on a date with anyone (except last week when the girl called up her boyfriend on the phone half way through it, that was kind of crushing)

~meaty

Thats harsh dude. Did you know she had a bf before hand?

You'll probably die a virgin. Here's some helpful advice; WalMart-razor blades on sale, Home Depot-rope very cheap, and I think you can score some rat poison at either place dirt cheap.

But seriously, you're stressing over something that seems bigger than what it is. I was a virgin until I was 20 or 21 and I saw Led Zeppelin in concert while still a virgin (for an age check) and believe me, when you get things rolling you'll be okay.

Listen to Ms. Pinay and Little Pea, quit feeling that sense of foreboding and put forth more effort if it's that important to you and don't post suicide threats here, do it in spurious, they give good flame there!

pretty pinay is full of shit. if everyone didnt catch it with the waiting for love comment.... i think i can safely say that love is only a possible by product of what this guy wants.

he wants to get his dick wet, period. he feels inadequate because most guys his age are getting it at least some of the time.

but anyway, good luck bro.

quote:Originally posted by Nihilism:

pretty pinay is full of shit. if everyone didnt catch it with the waiting for love comment.... i think i can safely say that love is only a possible by product of what this guy wants.

he wants to get his dick wet, period. he feels inadequate because most guys his age are getting it at least some of the time.

but anyway, good luck bro.



When you get through bashing pinay and sucking this guy's dick....



Why not hand him some KY and let him get his dick wet.. just bend over. You can deflower him and keep the same self-esteem you possess in one fell swoop.

quote:Originally posted by thequin88:

...You have the courage to stay pure...

No, he just doesn't have any other option. Don't give him any delusions about his lack of a sex life.