Here's the deal:

My girlfriend loves giving me head, only problem is that I can't seem to cum, or get anywhere close to it. And its not just her, I've received head before going out with her with the same result.

I masturbate, but not very often, and I can get off during sex just fine, help anyone??

I can't help, but I’ve had this problem before. Every time i got a bj from my last gf I couldn’t cum. I'm not sure if it was her or me though.

quote:Originally posted by fieldy920:

Here's the deal:

My girlfriend loves giving me head, only problem is that I can't seem to cum, or get anywhere close to it. And its not just her, I've received head before going out with her with the same result.

I masturbate, but not very often, and I can get off during sex just fine, help anyone??

Have a guy suck you're dick,if that dont work i cant help.

quote:Originally posted by fieldy920:

Here's the deal:

My girlfriend loves giving me head, only problem is that I can't seem to cum, or get anywhere close to it. And its not just her, I've received head before going out with her with the same result.

I masturbate, but not very often, and I can get off during sex just fine, help anyone??

I have exactly the same problem, I could have posted the exact same thing minus the previous gf bit.

Are you circumsized? that could be part of the problem.

Dude I have the same thing.

I have never blown me load after a hummer!

During sex/masturbation, my plumbing works perfectly fine!

But I have never monked-up from recieving a blowjob...An I doubt I ever will!

Deal with it buddy...It's just foreplay!

Really? From a girl's point of view, I thought that head was what guys prefer. I would feel very insecure if a guy didn't cum while I was giving a blowjob.

Could that be what's wrong? Could you be insecure and unable to concentrate? I know a lot of girls have this problem while recieving oral.

quote:Originally posted by dearestnight_falcon:

...Are you circumsized? that could be part of the problem.

Hardly. I am circumsized and I just about always have an orgasm when receiving head. Although it does take a while.

If you're circumsized, thats the reason. Just talk to your g/f and find out what feels best. It's not like the most common method always works. Have her use her hands as well as mouth. Experiment. I know that my g/f can't, and never will get me off that way, just because i'm circumsized. But hey, there are other things in life

try giving your shaft a little beating while she takes the end in her mouth...

Might be enough to get you going.

quote:Originally posted by casperc:

Have a guy suck you're dick,if that dont work i cant help.

I though members got banned for spamming...

The Answer:

Stop jacking off and jacking off to porn. The sensitivity will eventually come back.

If not, then I suggest taking yohimbine or horny goat weed, or just smoke massive amounts of weed before sex.

The end.



-UndefinedMinded

I find the only position head can make me cum

in is with me laying on my back, with her (or

it, if it's an Alien) beside me leaning on my

stomach. Otherwise I'm not relaxed enough, in

the sense that the muscles that hold me sitting or standing upright take brainpower.

In this regard, when I wake up with a huge rock solid *Mornin' Glory*, it stays hard longer the less brain power I use. The brain

uses a lot of calories, if I walk around not

really thinkin' but still in sleep blankness,

I can stay *up*. Let me kick in thinkin' & *BANG* soft.

Walking around a little really doesn't take much energy compared to thinking. The energy

used being upright is energy & attention taken away from *head sensation*.

In conclusion, every drop of energy you can save, is energy that can concentrate in yer li'l head & the pleasure center of yer big head. Try it yerself.

^^^ Weed, do we need to mention weed

... Hemp is for Humpin', when you know that you know sumpin'.

[This message has been edited by moonmeister (edited 05-14-2004).]