How do you start a dominant submissize realtionship? Do you just say "hey, if you're into that kinda thing, can i be your master?"

I know some people who are into this kinda thing and i think it's cool. How does the whole thing work?

You can't ask.

You just do it.

If it molds and works, you'll know.

If it doesn't, you probably get slapped...

..which would give you the wrong impression.

After spending some time with somebody, you should begin to pick up on enough of their dominant/submissive traits to make an educated guess whether they'd be cool with it.

I take it you are not really into D/s but you want to tell a hot girl what to do?

There are all kinds of ways this can start, but here is a tip you can try:

When she starts to act like a brat, and she will, scold her. Mix firm with funny, but make it two parts firm to one part funny, and see how she reacts.

/\ agreed.

you could also find the scene in your community and become friends. Go to some kink events and discover what lies within yourself. You may also meet subs there wanting to service you (probably not)

If you wanna be the masta just slap a random girl in the face,pull her in the car and tie her to the bed,then you will definitely be the master,no doubt.

As does everything involved in sex, this requires some communication. Talk to her about it, dur.

I don't know why people don't just come straight out with it! I mean i'm a sub and if anyone asks i tell them! Problem solved.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

As does everything involved in sex, this requires some communication. Talk to her about it, dur.

yeah, I think a lot of people cause SO much grief for themselves by not just flat-out asking. if you just say "hey, want me to control you?" or "would you hold my wrists down?" or whatever, then you'll either get what you want, or you'll find out right away if this person isnt going to give you what you want. either way, you get to the point without tip-toeing around the subject.

I've heard about clubs you can go to for d/s stuff......I would love to go to one, it sounds fucking hot, but unfortunately I think you probably need to be 18 :'(

/\ yep there are clubs and yep they are fucking awesome and yep you have to be 18.

sorry....