I really am bicurious but want to have an experience with a friend, not some random "hoe". I don't know how to approach them about it. I don't want them to freak out and not be comfortable around me if they aren't interested. I have brought up being open-minded about things and have mentioned I thought some girls are cute, but it hasn't helped. I am a teacher, so I am around a lot of judgemental people.

Any ideas ?

Flirt with one of your female students.

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GUARDS....seeeiiiiize her

nah all i can say is wat i sed b4!!!

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Flirt with one of your female students.



I teach 4th grade and am not a sick-o. But thanks for trying to help.

Do it anyway.

Seriously, though, try adult friend finder, or something. Google it.

just make a joke about you and her kissing or something and then keep going further and further if she responds well. Than just ask her if she's ever been serious about the jokes.

You seem nice, so I'm going to fight my urge to flame you. I need to understand that not everyone is me and not everyone knows their sexuality without experimentation. So I will give you some advice.

Don't try any random friend. That's a damn good way to kill a friendship. If you know FOR A FACT that she likes girls, you may want to flirt a little. Otherwise, don't even go near it. If you don't have any girl friends that you know like girls, you'll just have to go for some chick you don't know. People do that all the time. That's what dates are all about; getting to know someone you don't know very well. You don't have to be as careful flirting with chicks who you don't know, so it should be pretty easy to find someone

I wonder if that's what my best friend is trying to do. She keeps talking about how she'd do stuff with a girl, and bringing up the subject around me every time we hang out or talk. I guess dropping hints isn't bad...just keep them subtle. Cause if that's what she's trying to do with me, I'm not freaked out to the point where I'm going to feel weird around her or things will be different, even though I'm not interested. So I guess dropping subtle hints is a safe way to try it.

do you teach for HISD, or some other district in the suburbs....nothingham country elementary in Katy by any chance???..thats where i went....then to clear creek high school..

oh and about ur question...i agree with infrared...spice up your life and explore your bisexual desires...i think there's some lesbian night scenes in the houston area, but i'm not too sure...or you can always join adult friend finder

do what makes you happy in life and don't listen to what anyone else says

quote:Originally posted by miranda sex garden:

do you teach for HISD, or some other district in the suburbs....nothingham country elementary in Katy by any chance???..thats where i went....then to clear creek high school..

oh and about ur question...i agree with infrared...spice up your life and explore your bisexual desires...i think there's some lesbian night scenes in the houston area, but i'm not too sure...or you can always join adult friend finder

do what makes you happy in life and don't listen to what anyone else says

my niece and nephews went to Nottingham Ele! Weird coincidence. I teach in north houston (don't want to say which one). thanks for the thoughts.

easist way is to

1. Get drunk and accidently on purpose bring it up with and quallt as drunk female friend resulting in mad intimate licking sessions.

2. Join one of those internet sex friend finder things.

3. Go to a lesbian bar. We got a few here so there must be one near u.

GOOD LUCK.

Get one drunk. That's what happened to me...meh wasn't that great of an experience, just like normal kissing, but we are still friends. You can't plan these things though... they just kind of happen.

Ask your friend while you guys are drinking that way if she says something about it just be like "Oh ya sorry about that I was drunk" so if she trys to get all weird on you she will know you were just drunk.