Everyone I know seems to get an instant boner when they just think about anything to do with sex or porn or anything. I can stare at the most sexy picture in the world for 10 hours and not get the slightest boner (and no I'm not gay, I have looked at gay porn to make sure and I find it sick). The thing is though, I'm mentally aroused, but just no physical result. Is there ANYTHING I can do about this without getting viagra from a doctor or whatever? I don't want to talk to my parents either.

Thanks.

Age may be a factor.

Excluding that either pyschologically, physically, or whatever I don't think anybody here's gonna be able to help you. You'll probably need a doctor, head or well.....head. Either you're not developed or something, or you're broke.

Maybe you could become a monk or something, makes some of them vows pretty damn easy.

Age >> 16.

I know I can physically get erections cause often I have the morning wood, and sometimes get them while just playing around while watching TV or whatever, and I can jack off like that fine, but there is nothing that physically arouses me.

NOTE: I didn't jack off to orgasm/cum until I just hit 16 if that makes any difference (I just thought I couldn't do it and stopped after like 10 minutes so never got there).

You're fucked.

Actually I doubt you will.

this 'errection' you speak of. how can i aquire one??

Kidnap a nine year old girl,take her down a dark alley,and feel her up,if you dont get hard,then you're gay.

Your either gay or not a sick fucked up piece of shit like casperc. If you don't get erections from porn, don't worry. I think the only major problem would come about if you didn't get an erection when your girlfriends about.

Nothing that physically arouses you? No, that would be visual arousal. I'm the same way. Ooh wow! A naked woman! No big deal. Unless it's some actual video porn, or I'm with my g/f, or of course morning wood, I'm the same way. As to jacking off.. if you haven't cummed yet after masturbating.. I suggest experiencing it at least once, so you don't be like "OMG I CAME! CHECK IT OUT! I CAN COME!" infront of your g/f. I don't think she'd be to keen with that.

Anyways if it's just a simple matter of failing to get a boner from a nude pic, then there is nothing wrong with that. You just don't get aroused as easily as some others.

If you failed to leave out another point, or it's worse for whatever reason.. go see a doctor. That or talk to your dad. It will sure as hell feel weird, but afterwards, you and your dad will be closer for sharing such personal info, and you may even be preventing something actually harmful to yourself.

Good Luck

-[G-Prime]

maybe you just are developing slowly. And if not, its nothing to worry about. Unless of course, you cant get wood while your with a girl and she's touching you or something. Then it could be a problem to see a doctor about.

Might want to check for prostate cancer...very rare among younger guys, but it can happen and make arousal a difficult thing to come by.

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

this 'errection' you speak of. how can i aquire one??

u must buy!!!

not cheap!!

I don't think it's a big deal. I remember when I was younger and I used to see swimsuit models and get a boner....then after awhile it took nudie pics with just the tits showing to get me hard...then I actually had to see the lady fully naked, then it took porno movies and clips to get me hard.....its nothing unusual at all....after you see something so many times it gets "old" and you try to find that next thing to get you off.....kinda why a lot of people like kinky sex and so forth....

Thanks for the replies. I guess I could probably get a boner from physical stimulation, just more of a bother though.

Are there any tricks to keep a boner after getting it? Flexing helps a lot but often it just dies down :/

Thanks.

Endurance comes with age for most people. I've had the same since I was 8 though; I've had sexually aroused boners since a very young age, and can go through multiple orgasms, dry or wet, without losing the erection. Some of the girls I've fucked suggested I try porn, but my dick's just a good performer, I don't have the length necessary (just the average six incher).

Don't worry about not being able to hold an erection afterwards though...just make sure it's either simultaneous orgasm, or she finishes a few before you get yours. Work with what you have rather than being jealeous of what you don't, eh?

I think you misunderstood my question; I meant keeping a boner after getting it (because sometimes mine just goes away), not after ejaculating.

Any suggestions?

Thanks.

Sounds like impotence of sorts...serious, talk to your dad about seeing a doctor, that's not healthy to be unable to maintain an erection.

Try reading adult romance novels

With all the sex scenes

Maybe you're one of those rare guys who aren't aroused visually but instead with erotic text

Girls are more aroused with erotic text then with visual stuff

Hey! I just thought of something...maybe you're a girl lol (just playing with ya)

HA! HA!

I just thought of something...maybe your a complete IDIOT!

Yeah, you read it right. Is this text turning you on?

Lol...anyways little girls computers should be taken away.

quote:Originally posted by greemah:

I have looked at gay porn to make sure and I find it sick).

Hahahahahaha sadly ive done the same thing.

Calm Down.Are you exercising.Just get your blood flowing at normal level again and that might solve it.

OR

These days there is alot of public exposure.You can see nearly naked anywhere lately.So some people just aren't aroused by that.Sort of an enviroment adaption.

Maybe you should stop trying to get hard after you just ejaculated you coon