Well, I've been lied to a lot during pratically every relationship I've ever had. I've gained sort of a sixth sense for when someone is lying, and anyways I had a feeling my girlfriend lied to me today. She called me and told me she was sick and told me she'd call me when she woke up later. Well she never called me and I called her about 7 hours after that, cuz she had just slept all night and there's only so much a person can sleep.

Well I became suspicious when she didn't answer and I drove by her house(around midnight) and her car was gone. Then I drove by again around 2 and it was still gone so I take it she was gone. Well she told me we were going to hang out today but then she told me she was sick and wasn't going anywhere. Now do I have the right to be mad or am I crazy for driving by? And should I bring this up to her?

Well, she could have gone in Hospital for some embarrasing elective surgery? Maybe she is one of those cosmetically challenged girls

Y'know the ones who have their external genitalia surgically shaped.

Yes, it's true, I don't know if it applies. It could be something benign but 'barrasing.

Instead of *bare-assing*.

It is a natural reaction to do what you have done. Do not mention anything though when you talk to her next time, just ask her if she feels better or some shit. If she does not mention leaving, let her have it!!! And do not ever talk to the SLUT again!!!

She’s obviously up to no good, else why would she lie. If she was just going out with her friends she would have just said right?

[This message has been edited by decomfuk (edited 05-09-2004).]

You're no stalker,you drove by her house a couple times,i've walked past my girlfriends everyday since we broke up,over a month ago.

although it sorta sounds like she's lying to you, dont rule out the possibility that she was being honest. Maybe she just felt sick but felt better later in the day, forgot to call you, and decided to go out with some friends. maybe she was needed at work? Dont make it look like you dont trust her because that can only end badly.