so what about oral sex if you engage in it do you lose your virginity?

Theres this girl i know and she has done all that stuff and still claims to be a virgin.

I would think oral sex would because it is considered sex correct?

quote:Excert From HERE (http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/007671.html):

<QUOTE>As of www.m-w.com's Definition Of Virgin(ity) (http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=virgin) :

a person who has not had sexual intercourse

</QUOTE>

<QUOTE>As of www.dictionary.com's Definition Of Virgin(ity) (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=virgin) :

A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

</QUOTE>

If we were are to assume that those definitions are correct (and thus a fact, in this discussion), then a person is a virgin until they preform sexual intercourse (which is, as of http://www.m-w.com's definitions of coitus (http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=coitus) : "heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis" and "Coitus between humans." as of www.dictionary.com's definition of sexual intercourse (http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=sexual%20intercourse) [Coitus means "physical union of male and female genitalia accompanied by rhythmic movements usually leading to the ejaculation of semen from the penis into the female reproductive tract" as of www.m-w.com's definition of coitus (http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=coitus) .)

That means, simply, that virginity is a binary attribute to a person based upon whether or not they have had sexual intercourse..

If you've had a dick in your vagina = non-Virgin

If you haven't had a dick in your vagina = Virgin

Therefore, you can recieve/perform oral sex and you will still be a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina

That girl = Virgin



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quote:Originally posted by TEsteriZer:

If you've had a dick in your vagina = non-Virgin

If you haven't had a dick in your vagina = Virgin

Therefore, you can recieve/perform oral sex and you will still be a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina

That girl = Virgin



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Well put.

I hate you, Smith, for dredging up horrible memories of last Friday.

As far as I'm concerned, at this point in life, when it comes to virginity: If she don't got it, I don't want it.

And like I said: She may be a technical virgin, but that doesn't mean she isn't a lecherous little whore anyway.

I hate lecherous little whores, unless they're being lecherous little whores with ME!

Double-standard, much?

AW OH...here we go again!! "Virginity" is just a "man-word, and means nothing! With one small exception, a girl never loses her "virginity". That's because what a girl has is a "renewable resource"!! A girl loses nothing when she has sex with a guy.....and -- being exactly the same as before -- she remains a "VIRGIN".

The one exception to this is that if she has sex with the SAME GUY A SECOND TIME, then she is no longer a "virgin" AS TO HIM, and HIM ONLY!!

I hope this helps!

Love, Venus.

No, oral sex is not losing your virginity. Why do you even care anyway though?

Oh, Cindy, please get on AIM.

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

AW OH...here we go again!! "Virginity" is just a "man-word, and means nothing! With one small exception, a girl never loses her "virginity". That's because what a girl has is a "renewable resource"!! A girl loses nothing when she has sex with a guy.....and -- being exactly the same as before -- she remains a "VIRGIN".

The one exception to this is that if she has sex with the SAME GUY A SECOND TIME, then she is no longer a "virgin" AS TO HIM, and HIM ONLY!!

I hope this helps!

Love, Venus.



Venus, i love your responses, always the most sane thing i read around here.

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

AW OH...here we go again!! "Virginity" is just a "man-word, and means nothing! With one small exception, a girl never loses her "virginity". That's because what a girl has is a "renewable resource"!! A girl loses nothing when she has sex with a guy.....and -- being exactly the same as before -- she remains a "VIRGIN".

The one exception to this is that if she has sex with the SAME GUY A SECOND TIME, then she is no longer a "virgin" AS TO HIM, and HIM ONLY!!

I hope this helps!

Love, Venus.

That made no sense. You can't just make up your own definitions for words and expect the rest of the world to magically follow them. If people did that, no two people would ever be talking about the same thing

heres what i think. If you havent had intercourse you are technically alowed to call yourself a virgin, but i would feel guilty if i did.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

That made no sense. You can't just make up your own definitions for words and expect the rest of the world to magically follow them. If people did that, no two people would ever be talking about the same thing

well put...what about the whole breaking of the hymen???

once that is gone then there is no turnin back, except in like 100 years mayb!!!:s