Attitude: She would be very shy and quiet around people who she's not very close to. She would be rather depressed and sad and I would be there to cheer her up. The one thing that I cant stand in girls is giggly girls that are like "Oh My God! You'll never believe what totally happened to me today. lol! I was like in math class, and the the teachers like so totally stupid! lol." I despise people when they act like that so she would never ever ever be like that. Probably the most important thing about her attitude would be that she is not afraid to be different and doesnt have to conform to a label to try and be someone she's not.

looks: She would never dress in slutty clothes like those 4 inch shorts or leave a bunch of cleavage for everyone to see. She would have dark hair, maybe died a dark red, down to where her neck meets her shoulders. Glasses are ok. Height doesnt matter. Her skin would be kinda pale. She would look sad most of the time, and walk sorta slow to.

morals: no drugs, alcohol's ok though, but not like an alcoholic. Most importantly is she should not be a whore at all. Very honest and loyal to me. She wouldnt have a problem sneaking out a night, or sneaking into places, shoplifting, things like that.

interests: She would love watching movies but not the kinda movies like Eurotrip or American Pie but movies that are deeper like American Beauty, Pulp Fiction, Adaptation, and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. She would also like video games and we would play them all the time. She would also like rock concerts, especially punk rock concerts cause their the most fun. As for music, she would have to like Nirvana. Its a must. Also, she would also like other kinds of music like Pete Yorn, REM, Tori Amos, like the kinda music thats not exactly real popular with most teenagers. And she would know the difference between art and entertainment in the music industry.

opinions: She would think that abortion is bad, homosexuality is ok, and MTV sucks.

More important than everything else here is that she would think I'm kind, funny, and a good person.

To be honest I don't actually think that their is anyone out there that even comes close to this description. Even if they do exist, I'll probably never even meet them.

They probably exist, you just have to brainwash and manipulate them into thinking like you. Minds that are alike in relationships tend to get bored with it all.

quote:Originally posted by chainy:

Attitude: She would be very shy and quiet around people who she's not very close to. She would be rather depressed and sad and I would be there to cheer her up. The one thing that I cant stand in girls is giggly girls that are like "Oh My God! You'll never believe what totally happened to me today. lol! I was like in math class, and the the teachers like so totally stupid! lol." I despise people when they act like that so she would never ever ever be like that. Probably the most important thing about her attitude would be that she is not afraid to be different and doesnt have to conform to a label to try and be someone she's not.

looks: She would never dress in slutty clothes like those 4 inch shorts or leave a bunch of cleavage for everyone to see. She would have dark hair, maybe died a dark red, down to where her neck meets her shoulders. Glasses are ok. Height doesnt matter. Her skin would be kinda pale. She would look sad most of the time, and walk sorta slow to.

morals: no drugs, alcohol's ok though, but not like an alcoholic. Most importantly is she should not be a whore at all. Very honest and loyal to me. She wouldnt have a problem sneaking out a night, or sneaking into places, shoplifting, things like that.

interests: She would love watching movies but not the kinda movies like Eurotrip or American Pie but movies that are deeper like American Beauty, Pulp Fiction, Adaptation, and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. She would also like video games and we would play them all the time. She would also like rock concerts, especially punk rock concerts cause their the most fun. As for music, she would have to like Nirvana. Its a must. Also, she would also like other kinds of music like Pete Yorn, REM, Tori Amos, like the kinda music thats not exactly real popular with most teenagers. And she would know the difference between art and entertainment in the music industry.

opinions: She would think that abortion is bad, homosexuality is ok, and MTV sucks.

More important than everything else here is that she would think I'm kind, funny, and a good person.

To be honest I don't actually think that their is anyone out there that even comes close to this description. Even if they do exist, I'll probably never even meet them.



You're a dipshit.

You stupid cunt you basically described like almost all gothic style chicks. Whats with the girl having to be sad? My dream girl would be like a girl that I dreamt of :P lol Fuck I don't think about that kinda shit since why give yourself something to wish you had but never will?

thats not right...

apprentice is right

you want a goth...

you want her to be sad!? wtf. wouldnt you want a happy chick.

anyway..........

i would want a girl who is just....chill.....and wouldnt require much matinence. not much drugs. like to just hang out, ya know?

My dream girl is a charming Indian girl, a bit shorter than me, beautiful smile, black hair (often worn in pig-tails) an amazingly sweet voice and bright eyes.

She is always friendly and happy. Her dress sense is great (casual feminine clothing (pink + pretty etc)) , her body is perfect (she has quite large breasts for such a small frame ) She moves with grace. She is smart and funny and is really into computers. Every time I’m near her my heart beats faster, I can’t speak properly, I can’t walk properly and I never say what I really want to say. After we part I’m left with a warm felling in my stomach.

I never knew this was my “dream girl” I let go of the whole dream girl thing along time ago anyway. IMHO what you think you want will probably turn out to be wrong anyway.



decomfuk

Sounds like you're describing yourself. Not that that's bad, but everyone's unique so it's unlikely anyone like that would exist.

It's unhealthy to even contemplate a "dream girl/guy". Once you think it through so thoroughly, you then have it ingrained in your head. You'll then take a pass on perfectly acceptable people because they fall short of the ideal.

btw, alcohol is a drug, whores do it for money, and shoplifting is a lame thing to do.

Hahahahaaa... You think Pulp Fiction is deep. What're you, 12?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:



It's unhealthy to even contemplate a "dream girl/guy". Once you think it through so thoroughly, you then have it ingrained in your head. You'll then take a pass on perfectly acceptable people because they fall short of the ideal.



Good point cindy, but here's mine anyway...

Preferably dark hair, smart/intelligent; but dosen't mind getting dirty/muddy/wet.

Knows what my feelings are, and dosen't try to get me to do things I don't want.

When she talks, it should actually mean something, instead of that usual useless babbling shit most teenage girls go on about.

Average height, atheleticly fit (they don't have to be a marathon runner, but as long as she isn't fat or anorexic).

This may sound a little cliche, but it would also be good for them to have a deep personality.

Uhmm, yeah, that pretty much sums mine up.

quote:Originally posted by ftwchriso:

thats not right...

apprentice is right

you want a goth...

you want her to be sad!? wtf. wouldnt you want a happy chick.

anyway..........

I think having a continually depressed gothic chick for a girlfriend would be just as bad, but my last girlfriend was happy ALL the time.. even when she wasn't, she would skip around with a smile and a giggle plastered to her face.. gets quite annoying, I can tell you that.

I like playful, happy girls, but some seriousness would have been nice once in a while.

let me clarify, i want her to be sad when she's not with me, but never giggly or always happy.

I guess I never realized how gothic that all sounded. But I go to a small catholic high school so i dont really know any gothic chicks.

quote:Originally posted by chainy:

let me clarify, i want her to be sad when she's not with me, but never giggly or always happy.



What you want is someone who doesn't truly exist without you, a pathetic shell of a person, so you can both be codependant with each other. A healthy relationship isn't about only being happy when you're with the person, its about being HappiEST with that person. Get some self esteem and stop longing for a girl that feels so crappy about herself that You are the only good thing in her life. I don't mean to bag on you but please, you don't seem like a ray of sunshine. Being happy is not so bad, you should try it sometime....

I've already met her.

Not ugly,

smart,

kind,

not a drug addict,

and preferrably not strongly religious (It would complicate things a little, but it's not an absolute must).

That's all I hope for.

Chainy, you are an embarassment to my name.

As long as she likes pyro and the occasional drug... Height dont matter, long hair, red head, a lookable face. Also not religous, im not ... And relitivly smart, i dont want a box of hair.

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Well, mine would be a girl with fairly long hair, mexican or any of that region (Dominican, Purto Rican etc)...Funny, Smart (because i'm hella dumb) and kinda shy, and jus fun to be with...

quote:Originally posted by Chainhit:

Chainy, you are an embarassment to my name.



I was here before you asshole. And I dont like it when people capitalize chainy, its just weird for me.

Keep in mind that this is a dream girl and im not saying I wouldnt settle for someone who doesnt perfectly match this description, I was just sorta fantasizing when i wrote this.

quote:Originally posted by Zcon10:

I've already met her.

I envy you.

I was with my dream girl. She really did have it all..God damn does it suck to be still in love with a relic.

And it's funny how I still love her, but how other women in my life who I might be developing feelings for can still cause me pain when things don't work out with them.

It's like I said: I'm too passionate, and it kills me.

Chainy, you hit the nail on the head...mine is pretty much the same as yours...I might add that i know a shitload of girls that match that description...i just havent dated any yet.

My dream girl would be different from normal girls. Not necessarily like a counterculture type but just better than the typical unthinking teenager. She'd be smart, brilliant even. Beautiful. Enjoyable to talk with and capable of talking about a variety of intelligent things, being humorous, and appreciating my humor. Also someone that I could gain something out of the relationship(gain something as in I am improved as an individual). Annoyingly I've only met one such girl in the past three years(and yes I have dreamt about her) however she turned me down. Thanks you totse bastards, now you've gotten me all sad with your damn topics and what not.

Also, Cindy, could you please get on AIM more often?

evil genius. aryan. but that wont happen (at least for the next 300 years)

I've actually met someone that would fit into my perfect girl category, but she was twice my age and married, so not a chance in a million there, but at least I know they exist...

quote:Originally posted by Shadow88:



Preferably dark hair, smart/intelligent; but dosen't mind getting dirty/muddy/wet.

Knows what my feelings are, and dosen't try to get me to do things I don't want.

When she talks, it should actually mean something, instead of that usual useless babbling shit most teenage girls go on about.

Average height, atheleticly fit (they don't have to be a marathon runner, but as long as she isn't fat or anorexic).

This may sound a little cliche, but it would also be good for them to have a deep personality.

Sounds like me

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she has to love me.

quote:Originally posted by decomfuk:

My dream girl is a charming Indian girl, a bit shorter than me, beautiful smile, black hair (often worn in pig-tails) an amazingly sweet voice and bright eyes.

She is always friendly and happy. Her dress sense is great (casual feminine clothing (pink + pretty etc)) , her body is perfect (she has quite large breasts for such a small frame ) She moves with grace. She is smart and funny and is really into computers. Every time I’m near her my heart beats faster, I can’t speak properly, I can’t walk properly and I never say what I really want to say. After we part I’m left with a warm felling in my stomach.

I never knew this was my “dream girl” I let go of the whole dream girl thing along time ago anyway. IMHO what you think you want will probably turn out to be wrong anyway.



decomfuk

you know, its kinda funny because that sounds exactly like me, except for the fact that i HATE pink, i look pretty good in pigtails but hate them, and that im no computer genius (i know quite a bit, but im no programmer...i have my ex for that). and scarily enough, chainy's description sounds quite a bit like me, though i am no goth. and, by the way, chainy, if you like eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, YOU HAVE GREAT TASTE!!!!!!! nirvana is also some of the best stuff ever! pulp fiction isnt that deep though... and you need to broaden youre views! abortion is an essential right for a woman. but i agree w. you about homosexuals! thats so sweet!

also i probably laugh too much for you... i laugh easily and smile alot when im around my friends

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I would have to say for mine would be first Asian. I would not have said that a few years ago, but now, I love them, they do all sorts of work for you, and never get mad for doing it.

But mostly I look for intelligence (sense of humor) and the ability to have some common ground. But most importantly she listens politely if not sightly bemusedly when I rant over the FAA or TSA or Bush orConservative CHristans or lack of money (a poor flight instructor).

I mean my SO right now has a lot in common with me, and even if she wasn't hot, I would still think she was my dream girl.

my dream girl would be someone that gave me head whenever i wanted no matter what we are doing.

preferably with a pierced tongue