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 #1 
Old 2004-05-03, 07:32
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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Default Sometimes I don't want to hear it

You know what's annoying? When you kind of flirt with some guy because he seems kind of cool, but then he gets all dumb and is like "oooh, I'm a little bitch and I really like you." So you have to be like "Oh, well I like you to, but not like that," and then the whole friendship is ruined. That blows. What doesn't blow is getting high. Which is what I just did. And now that's what I am. High. Also, I used to make new topics when high all the time. That was fun. I also used to be here more. The I left because of that mrman asshole. And now I'm back~ish and he's still here. The point of this is that when you're not totally sure I'm into you, don't tell me about it
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Old 2004-05-03, 07:42
Infrared Infrared is offline
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I see quite a lot of myself in you, sometimes. That's pretty interesting.

We should hook up someday, say "fuck the world" and go get high somewhere.
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Old 2004-05-03, 08:01
Sarcophagus Sarcophagus is offline
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Yeah, sometimes guys just don't know how to have fun and keep it simple... guess it's just too easy to get their little heads all confused with signals.
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Old 2004-05-03, 19:01
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Okay then...Another moany thread from GlitterPunk!

Seriously love...Do you ever stop whining?!
 #5 
Old 2004-05-03, 20:07
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Default Re: Sometimes I don't want to hear it

Ok reading mixed signals from girls is not guys faults.

If a girl is sitting there and having a good conversation and laughing at my jokes I would ask her if she was interested.

I want to know is she just becuase a tease? Or is she interested in me?

Girls can't have guy friends unless the guys know their boyfriends becuase someone always wants to get involved with the other when the other person's agenda is on friends.
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Old 2004-05-03, 20:42
Armed&Angry Armed&Angry is offline
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Default Re: Sometimes I don't want to hear it

Girls, seriously, if we're hanging out with you, we're at least a little bit interested.
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Old 2004-05-03, 20:56
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quote:Originally posted by Armed&Angry:

Girls, seriously, if we're hanging out with you, we're at least a little bit interested.

Or we're gay.
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Old 2004-05-04, 00:12
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quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

I see quite a lot of myself in you, sometimes. That's pretty interesting.

We should hook up someday, say "fuck the world" and go get high somewhere.

You're damned if you do

Damned if you don't

yelling, Fuck the world

with a chestfull of smoke

I'm not sure why, but your post reminded me of that particular quote.
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Old 2004-05-04, 00:16
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Default Re: Sometimes I don't want to hear it

flirting isnt fun. flirting is what you do to test the waters/pull down a girls silly walls and get some.
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Old 2004-05-04, 01:27
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Agree with you on both subjects.

Hate little bitch boys who think flirting means, lets be boyfriend girlfriend. And being high is good stuff.
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Old 2004-05-04, 01:35
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totally agreeing with sarc and bella on this
 #12 
Old 2004-05-04, 01:52
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Ok, it's not our guys fault that we can't understand your signals.

Personally, I think girls should try and quit that, just causes confusion and hurt.

And also, if you're hanging out with a guy, he is most likely somewhat interested, you should know that. Then you should'nt flirt if you don't want him getting confused.

Your fault, stop complaining.



P.S whats the point of flirting anyways?

Especially if you don't want anything to come from it.

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Old 2004-05-04, 01:54
devil's haircut devil's haircut is offline
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Default Re: Sometimes I don't want to hear it

i equally dislike girls who flirt "because they can"

you flirt with people you're interested in, you joke and talk to people you want to be friends with.

true, some guys are too dumb to notice the difference between the two, but so are some girls.

don't intentionally flirt with someone you aren't interested in, because if you do then you're just being an ass.
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Old 2004-05-04, 02:04
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quote:Originally posted by devil's haircut:

i equally dislike girls who flirt "because they can"

you flirt with people you're interested in, you joke and talk to people you want to be friends with.

true, some guys are too dumb to notice the difference between the two, but so are some girls.

don't intentionally flirt with someone you aren't interested in, because if you do then you're just being an ass.

that's true too... hmm ...
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Old 2004-05-04, 02:56
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quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

I also used to be here more. The I left because of that mrman asshole. And now I'm back~ish and he's still here. The point of this is that when you're not totally sure I'm into you, don't tell me about it

well thats just so grown up.... if you are so insecure that one poster disturbs you so much that you want to leave, then i think you should stay gone.
 #16 
Old 2004-05-04, 06:31
Sarcophagus Sarcophagus is offline
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Goofing around doesn't always = flirting, not intentional flirting anyway.

I didn't have any chick friends growing up, all of my pals were boys until I was about 14-15 years old. I wore boys hand-me-downs, I even had a shortish haircut and looked like a boy until I grew boobies. I never learned how to flirt, to this day I don't have a bloody clue, but (without being a dyke) I still know how to have fun with guys. I'm very femenine except for the fact that I still play like a boy and get along better with males.

I don't think it is the guy's fault for misreading signals. It isn't every day that a chick is happy to carry on a conversation with a guy without having more amorous intentions...

But guys, keep in mind, some girls are just friendly and that's all there is. We're not toying with you or leading you on. Being involved with you is the last thing on our minds and it just comes down to us enjoying your company, no strings attached.
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Old 2004-05-04, 07:00
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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Guys: quit being so needy and eager.

Girls: Quit being so manipulative and egotistical.
 #18 
Old 2004-05-04, 08:37
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Do it not be partly, that we live in such a big, fast impersonal world? People are here, then there, then off somewhere else. It just seems that instead of building up a vibe over

time that; *we want the world & we want it now*.

*Hello, I love you. Won't you tell me your name? Hello, I love you. Won't you let me jump in your game?*

No? It be sad but it be true. Yes?

*Of course...who *whispers* can forget the rumored steel breeze & the like? Time waits for no man (or girl).

We all want something to believe in. To hold on to; & we want it noowwwwwwwww!
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Old 2004-05-04, 09:32
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quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:



*Hello, I love you. Won't you tell me your name? Hello, I love you. Won't you let me jump in your game?*



She's walking down the street

Blind to every eye she meets

Do you think you'll be the guy

To make the queen of the angels sigh?
 #20 
Old 2004-05-04, 10:11
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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^^^ Only in my head. Instead I'm like the sidewalk that crouches at her feet, like a dog that begs for something sweet.

Girl brains & hormones, "When? when? when?"

Boys brains & hormones, "Now. Now. Now. Now."
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Old 2004-05-04, 13:22
Sarcophagus Sarcophagus is offline
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quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

^^^ Only in my head. Instead I'm like the sidewalk that crouches at her feet, like a dog that begs for something sweet.

Girl brains & hormones, "When? when? when?"

Boys brains & hormones, "Now. Now. Now. Now."

I love the things you say and the ways you say 'em *swoons*





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Old 2004-05-05, 02:43
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It is my honest belief that moonmeister has an IQ of 300 or so, but has taken so many drugs that his deep and wise thoughts can only be expressed in a jargon few can understand without spending a few minutes to decode them. I congratulate you on your riddling tongue and the wisdom it speaks.
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Old 2004-05-05, 03:38
Infrared Infrared is offline
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Yeah man, Moony's like one big, walking LSD trip. He kicks ass.
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Old 2004-05-05, 04:47
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Yeah, definitely. He reminds me of some Pink Floyd stuff.

...I want weed...
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Old 2004-05-05, 06:56
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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To whoever asked: I never stop bitching. Not online, not ever

To whoever said I'm immature for leaving because one person pissed me off: fuck you. He was fucking annoying. But aside from that, all the cool people were leaving and there were getting to be more and more "fuck niggers; fuck fags" threads in spurious

To whoever said we shouldn't flirt if we're not interested: you're too simple minded. Guys are so fucking eager to get into relationships. Where the hell did the fear of commitment stereotype come from? Every guy I know is always trying to be my boyfriend. Sometimes a person's intentions are just to be friends + a little whatever. Then guys have to go fuck it up by discussing feelings and shit. Too many people are too into feelings and discussing them. Keep your feelings to yourself. Why is no one afraid of rejection anymore? They should be. People are always trying to say that you should just be yourself and tell her how you really feel. That's horse shit. Don't tell her that. You'll probably fuck up a really good situation
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Old 2004-05-05, 07:41
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quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

...Where the hell did the fear of commitment stereotype come from? Every guy I know is always trying to be my boyfriend. Sometimes a person's intentions are just to be friends + a little whatever. Then guys have to go fuck it up by discussing feelings and shit. Too many people are too into feelings and discussing them. Keep your feelings to yourself...

You may think that they are looking for a relationship, and they may think that they are looking for a relationship, but what they really may be looking for is some poon. Hormones do crazy shit to people.

And as for the guys always talking about feeling and whatnot...what the fuck are you talking about? Guys are the ones that try to supress and deal with their feeling but girls have the horrible need to drag every little bit of information out of us. "What's wrong?"x5 "Is there something that you're not telling me?"x5 "It would help if you talked to me about it...Yes it would."x5. Why don't girls just cut the shit and say "I'm fucking insecure. Now tell me everything that I want to know or else I'll break up with you and come out looking like the victem."...wow, that was a rant.

I guess that the point that I'm trying to make is that maybe the guys that you are talking to have already been broken in by other girls. Their masculinity has been torn away from them and all that is left is a needy little baby that no woman really wants, or respects.
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Old 2004-05-05, 08:50
Sarcophagus Sarcophagus is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

And as for the guys always talking about feeling and whatnot...what the fuck are you talking about? Guys are the ones that try to supress and deal with their feeling but girls have the horrible need to drag every little bit of information out of us. "What's wrong?"x5 "Is there something that you're not telling me?"x5 "It would help if you talked to me about it...Yes it would."x5. Why don't girls just cut the shit and say "I'm fucking insecure. Now tell me everything that I want to know or else I'll break up with you and come out looking like the victem."...wow, that was a rant.



To get along with me a guy has three simple options:

1. Briefly tell me what is making you act like a moody bitch (So I can fix it, or at least don't hold it against you).

2. Don't tell me, but stop acting like a moody bitch.

or:

3. Don't tell me, keep acting like a moody bitch, but be prepared to get what you give.



Alot of what you said is true though, men are pussified these days. It's hard as to find one with a backbone unless he's a complete chauvanist pig.



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Old 2004-05-05, 11:15
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quote:Originally posted by Sarcophagus:

I love the things you say and the ways you say 'em *swoons*



[This message has been edited by Sarcophagus (edited 05-04-2004).]

Ahhh, you do be too kind girl. I be just a simple zombie. You & LC do seem soft & gentle

but hard bitten girls.

Hard bitten?! That is just wrong you both should be softly bitten & gently,

very gently nibbled.

Let's you & I meet half way...Christmas Island?
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Old 2004-05-06, 00:34
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quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

To whoever asked: I never stop bitching. Not online, not ever

To whoever said I'm immature for leaving because one person pissed me off: fuck you. He was fucking annoying. But aside from that, all the cool people were leaving and there were getting to be more and more "fuck niggers; fuck fags" threads in spurious

To whoever said we shouldn't flirt if we're not interested: you're too simple minded. Guys are so fucking eager to get into relationships. Where the hell did the fear of commitment stereotype come from? Every guy I know is always trying to be my boyfriend. Sometimes a person's intentions are just to be friends + a little whatever. Then guys have to go fuck it up by discussing feelings and shit. Too many people are too into feelings and discussing them. Keep your feelings to yourself. Why is no one afraid of rejection anymore? They should be. People are always trying to say that you should just be yourself and tell her how you really feel. That's horse shit. Don't tell her that. You'll probably fuck up a really good situation



Wow...what everyone says about you IS tru. hm.
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Old 2004-05-06, 00:46
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quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:



To whoever said we shouldn't flirt if we're not interested: you're too simple minded. Guys are so fucking eager to get into relationships. Where the hell did the fear of commitment stereotype come from?

wow......that's fucked up.

first of all, i don't see how i was being simple minded. if you don't want to be in a relationship with someone, don't flirt with them. i've had the same thing happen to me with girls, and i learned that it's not wise to flirt with girls you want to be friends with. true, some people can't tell the difference between someone befriending them and someone flirting with them, and that's why you make it obvious which of the two you are doing. instead of skipping off on some rant you could've explained WHY you thought i was being simple minded.

or maybe you just don't know the difference between flirting and conversing, hmm?

and that's really cold to just say that you want to be friends with someone, but fuck their feelings. i'm sure you have a good many close friends (insert sarcasm), but that's beside the point....

Don't flirt with someone you aren't interested in, because regardless of their gender, as long as they're interested in you flirting with them will only make them MORE interested...it's a pretty fucking simple concept, i'm not sure how you confused it.

And don't be a bitchy sexist. not all guys are eager to be in relationships, and i'm not talking about the guys who just want sex.
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Old 2004-05-06, 05:38
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quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

I see quite a lot of myself in you, sometimes. That's pretty interesting.

We should hook up someday, say "fuck the world" and go get high somewhere.

Can I come too? I'll bring weed and Vodka!
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Old 2004-05-06, 06:06
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Heheheheheheh... it's all fucked up.

Kids are being taught by the example of parents who were probably growing up just as the specter of girl power began to loom over the horizon, but before the ball got rolling. So the parents began to think, you know, guys should respect the girls a little more, and girls should think more freely. Commendable goals.

Unfortunately, America has put its greatest skill to work- blowing everything out of proportion to the greatest possible extent. Now everything is in total fucking reverse and all the boys who aren't either thick-headed assholes or lucky enough to have learned relative balance at an early age are stuck being like, what do I do now, George? And the girls have every last ounce of power until those guys catch up- if they do.

It'll get better, but damned if it isn't sad (and occasionally entertaining) while it lasts.
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Old 2004-05-06, 07:02
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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I guess my point here is that it's nice to be able to talk to a guy without him thinking I want to be in a relationship.
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Old 2004-05-07, 14:43
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/\ that wasnt so hard now was it, to simply eloquently and consisly put your point across without being a total harpie bitch?

congratulations.
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Old 2004-05-07, 23:54
GlitterPunk112358 GlitterPunk112358 is offline
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quote:Originally posted by ATypiCalStuDenT:

/\ that wasnt so hard now was it, to simply eloquently and consisly put your point across without being a total harpie bitch?

congratulations.

Yeah, I'm the bitch
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Old 2004-05-08, 01:40
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thats right
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Old 2004-05-08, 04:36
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quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:



Girl brains & hormones, "When? when? when?"

Boys brains & hormones, "Now. Now. Now. Now."

Very true.
 
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