I've taken an extended break from being actively in "the game", and feel its time to get back in.

Now, I'm sure I'm a little rusty, as I've not done any real "hollering" in quite a while. In fact, I haven't talked to girls with sexual/relationship intention at all in the past 4-5 months.

My question is really just where should I start? Should I just flirt with everyone or should I focus my attention on someone, or perhaps work on a new girl?

You could try talking. Start simple and remember as you go. That's usually the best way to pick up where you left off with anything.

You should start off by asking people on the internet. But seriuosly, get outside. There isn't a good chance any women will just walk into your house for you to hit on. Getting out is the most important step.

How old are you, and where do you expect to meet women? It makes a large difference whether you're in high school, or just clubbing, or at work, or whatever.

Spiffy, Mantrid and jojabr have told you everything you need to know.

All I want to add is that you can't succeed unless you 1) GO to places where the girls are, 2) TALK to the girls you find there, 3) treat them with reasonable respect and class, 4) don't be afraid to let them know what you want...including sex -- but do it with respect, class, and humor (if you have any), and don't do it until you feel she is enjoying some degree of comfort level with you. That may not happen in the first 10 minutes, or even on the first encounter with her.

PATIENCE is the buzz word for guys to remember........and if guys had a little more of it they would be tremendously more successful. Good luck on your "re-entry". Love, Venus.

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

All I want to add is that you can't succeed unless you 1) GO to places where the girls are, 2) TALK to the girls you find there, 3) treat them with reasonable respect and class, 4) don't be afraid to let them know what you want...including sex -- but do it with respect, class, and humor (if you have any), and don't do it until you feel she is enjoying some degree of comfort level with you. That may not happen in the first 10 minutes, or even on the first encounter with her.

PATIENCE is the buzz word for guys to remember........and if guys had a little more of it they would be tremendously more successful. Good luck on your "re-entry". Love, Venus.

Well ain't you just a genius?!

Seriously though...That's some good advice right there.

My advice on the matter is have fun!

There's no use going and trying then getting all disappointed when the shit hits the fan.

As long as you go into it positively and always think "what can this girl teach me?" you'll be okay.