My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 4 months now and it seems the pain of sex has faded away. However these past few days when we attempt to have sex she says that it hurts as its going in, as well as when we begin intercourse. I of course stopped and decided to wait till the next day or so. It happened again and this time when I asked her how it hurt, she said it feels like its dry. However fingers don't hurt the least bit...as I have been using only them the past few days. What the hell is going on?

buy better lubed condoms, buy lube itself, make sure she's wet first, etc. etc.

She is wet, even feels wet to my finger. As for the condoms, I have been using the same ones I've been using since 4 months ago. Never had this problem.

Are you and your girlfriend dense or something? If she's dry, get her wet.

She felt wet....least to me. She said that it felt dry only when we had sex as I was going in. Then once the pain seemed to have gone away however after a bit, it seemed to come back and we had to stop.

a womens privarts are always kind of wet, but she needs to be really wet for sex to work rite. eat her out and use lots of spit or go out and buy a bottle of KY or if your old enough go to a sex store and get the heated lube. my ex had that problem once and it turned out to be some kind of infection to, nothing serious, not an std but it was something i really cant remeber what it was though.

quote:Originally posted by A-F Army:

She felt wet....least to me. She said that it felt dry only when we had sex as I was going in. Then once the pain seemed to have gone away however after a bit, it seemed to come back and we had to stop.

Well she is obviously not staying wet. Get a clue dumbass.

quote:Originally posted by MonoxIde:

a womens privarts are always kind of wet, but she needs to be really wet for sex to work rite.

dripping. :P

seriously tho, if she's not staying wet, try something different, duh. lotsa foreplay, lube, whatever, just saying that you've never had this problem before doesn't mean anything because you have this problem NOW. so either figure something out, continue to have half dry sex and give her cock burn (SUPER painful btw) or not have sex at all! take your pick.

quote:Originally posted by A-F Army:

As for the condoms, I have been using the same ones I've been using since 4 months ago. Never had this problem.

Condoms are meant to be disposable, may I suggest you get some new ones?

quote:Originally posted by jca-:

Condoms are meant to be disposable, may I suggest you get some new ones?

he means the same type shit head.

Sounds like an STD and she is probably cheating on you and contracted it from another man who happens to be gay.

So yes she cheated on you with a gay man who had an STD and now she has it and has given it to you.

If she checks out medically OK, then it's just a nervous response I think. If so, just stick to oral for now. She should like that, and it won't be painful. When she gets more comfortable and relaxed with you, things will get better. Love, Venus.

^^^truely. People underestimate the power of good oral.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

he means the same type shit head.

It's called sarcasm, no need for tears.

The answer to your problem is Astroglide.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Sounds like an STD and she is probably cheating on you and contracted it from another man who happens to be gay.

So yes she cheated on you with a gay man who had an STD and now she has it and has given it to you.



Really Carbon, theres no need for that.

carbon has a point i was thinking though, she might be cheating on you and no longer has a thrill from your penis, ie her new lover has a larger cock than yours

c'mon there.... shes probably not cheeting..

but think about it, the hole your cock is going in to is not the same size as your cock. It is smaller. It needs to stretch to accomodate your manlyness...

if she is not properly aroused/lubricated, this stretching as you enter her can be painful. So use lube and go slow. Once she is stretched and warmed up, thats when you fuck her like no tomorrow

mkay!

Also there is no need for your lame name or your lame posts.

Go cry me a river and then drown yourself in it you over sensitive pussy.

quote:Originally posted by DOCTORGONZO409:

The answer to your problem is Astroglide.

But...isn't that just for use by astronauts?

Please, never forget. Natural lubrication does vary with the Cycle. Irritation gained while in a less lubricated state may need a few days of rest.

If'n a few days of rest (have you had a good look-see at the seat of the problem?: use a bright light) doesn't do the trick, there's always a trip to my hou... sorry the Doc.

Could always try anal...

Go to an electrical wholesale store and get some conduit slippery. It's basically a water based lube you can buy in litre bottles thats a hell of a lot cheaper than regular lube. It's also in a sauce-like bottle so you can just squeeze it onto her. And it's pink so she'll like it.

If she feels that she is wet, yet feels "dry" during sex, there is a possibility of an STD or bacterial/yeast infection. Dryness is a symptom of both, and the fact that it has just recently started with this dry problem adds to the probability that it is some form of infection. She should go to the doctor and get it checked out. It wont be a big deal.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Also there is no need for your lame name or your lame posts.

Go cry me a river and then drown yourself in it you over sensitive pussy.

Why do you call everybody a pussy? Haven't you thought of a better word yet?

If it doesn't get better in a few days, maybe she should go see a doctor. Doctors usually have the ability to fix things normal people can't.

You could just be fucking too much. When i first got with my girl, we fucked 3 times a day, everyday. After a really rough session, she would say it hurt, then it would go away, but the next time, it hurt when we started. She said it felt like she was cut down there, but it looked fine. It stayed like that for 3 days, but eventually cleared up.

Just wait a few days, and if it still hurts, go to a doctor.

Ah. Yes I had this problem a few times myself. What happens sometimes is all the.. lets call it "moisture." The moisture gets caught in between the lips. Simple as that. Just feel around with your fingers a little, and stick a finger in a little, if you feel it really wet, then kind of slide your fingers through it a bit, or whatever you think might open it up a bit. If she isn't really wet, then go back to making out and such.

If you can't seem to fix this problem, try google, and type your question, or get some lube. But you'll find a way. Best of Luck

-[G-Prime]

I just hope, I just really, really hope, that

you haven't busted her ass.