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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-04-29, 05:11
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Little Pea 
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Blowjobs are BAD!
And not in the good way. To me, receiving oral sex feels kind of wrong. Sort of like guilt. It just seems that going down on a girl is sweet and romantic, but a girl going down on a guy is lewd and wrong. Don't get me wrong, head still rocks, but I still have that little misconception about it. Do any of you have this problem. Gimme some input.
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#2
 2004-04-29, 05:13
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deadlycindy 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:
... girl going down on a guy is lewd and wrong...
This is 99% of the fun of giving blow jobs. 
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#3
 2004-04-29, 05:24
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:
And not in the good way. To me, receiving oral sex feels kind of wrong. Sort of like guilt. It just seems that going down on a girl is sweet and romantic, but a girl going down on a guy is lewd and wrong. Don't get me wrong, head still rocks, but I still have that little misconception about it. Do any of you have this problem. Gimme some input.
you have female guilt. much like the douche bags who feel guilty for being white, you feel guilty for being male. somehow youve been convinced that women are superior creatures that must be pampered because they have a different organ than yourself.
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#4
 2004-04-29, 05:27
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Little Pea 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
^^perhaps, who do I blame?
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#5
 2004-04-29, 05:28
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:
^^perhaps, who do I blame?
yourself. chivalry. but mostly yourself.
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#6
 2004-04-29, 05:32
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
you have female guilt. much like the douche bags who feel guilty for being white, you feel guilty for being male. somehow youve been convinced that women are superior creatures that must be pampered because they have a different organ than yourself.
I'm sure you get all the ladies with an attitude like that, keep the tips comin!
dick.
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#7
 2004-04-29, 05:38
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
I'm sure you get all the ladies with an attitude like that, keep the tips comin!
dick.
im sure you get all the ladies by kissing ass. isnt it adorable how the same people who cry because a guy talks about women like shes something less than diety are the same people who measure success by how many chicks youve fucked? way to go toolbox.
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#8
 2004-04-29, 05:46
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
im sure you get all the ladies by kissing ass. isnt it adorable how the same people who cry because a guy talks about women like shes something less than diety are the same people who measure success by how many chicks youve fucked? way to go toolbox.
I think if the person can make me smile 24/7, or if the person makes me feel cared for, loved, missed, complete... Then they deserve a great amount of respect. For all you know, this chick could be carrying your child for 9 months, and go through the excruciating pain of child-delivery to pop out the shit you put in her in the first place. Then she'll most likely stay at home and mother this child all day while you go to work. Then she'll probably stay home some more while you go to the bar with your buddies. Face it, women do a lot in this world and are very unnappreciated and used by most men because they're asshats like you who are stuck in the last millenium, with this "machismo" attitude. The point is, whether it's a guy or girl, have a little respect for the god-damned person if they do all this shit for you.
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#9
 2004-04-29, 05:47
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pamplemousse 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
I think if the person can make me smile 24/7, or if the person makes me feel cared for, loved, missed, complete... Then they deserve a great amount of respect. For all you know, this chick could be carrying your child for 9 months, and go through the excruciating pain of child-delivery to pop out the shit you put in her in the first place. Then she'll most likely stay at home and mother this child all day while you go to work. Then she'll probably stay home some more while you go to the bar with your buddies. Face it, women do a lot in this world and are very unnappreciated and used by most men because they're asshats like you who are stuck in the last millenium, with this "machismo" attitude. The point is, whether it's a guy or girl, have a little respect for the god-damned person if they do all this shit for you.
word.
Lovley, you're awesome
[This message has been edited by pamplemousse (edited 04-29-2004).]
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#10
 2004-04-29, 05:51
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
I think if the person can make me smile 24/7, or if the person makes me feel cared for, loved, missed, complete... Then they deserve a great amount of respect. For all you know, this chick could be carrying your child for 9 months, and go through the excruciating pain of child-delivery to pop out the shit you put in her in the first place. Then she'll most likely stay at home and mother this child all day while you go to work. Then she'll probably stay home some more while you go to the bar with your buddies. Face it, women do a lot in this world and are very unnappreciated and used by most men because they're asshats like you who are stuck in the last millenium, with this "machismo" attitude. The point is, whether it's a guy or girl, have a little respect for the god-damned person if they do all this shit for you.
this is entirely based on children. fuck children. these people who think of sex in terms of what oddball shit might happen really make me laugh. thats like thinking of driving in terms of everything that could go wrong. "well, cant drive to work today, i might get into an accident and burn alive. wouldnt want that happening, so i wont drive until i have a car that i love and respect."
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#11
 2004-04-29, 05:57
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
this is entirely based on children. fuck children. these people who think of sex in terms of what oddball shit might happen really make me laugh. thats like thinking of driving in terms of everything that could go wrong. "well, cant drive to work today, i might get into an accident and burn alive. wouldnt want that happening, so i wont drive until i have a car that i love and respect."
It was just another example of why women should be appreciated. Face it, *talks like a sped kid* they smell good, they're purty, they are soft, they're funny, and they make us feel good!
If the girl is a total bitch, then treat her accordingly. However, if the girl gives you the time of day, pay your respect. Christ, it's common sense.
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#12
 2004-04-29, 06:00
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
It was just another example of why women should be appreciated. Face it, *talks like a sped kid* they smell good, they're purty, they are soft, they're funny, and they make us feel good!
If the girl is a total bitch, then treat her accordingly. However, if the girl gives you the time of day, pay your respect. Christ, it's common sense.
they do smell good. some are pretty. most are soft. these are all purely sexual things. way to make those the first things you list. continuing... they are not the least bit funny and they dont make me feel one way or the other. so no, im not going to kiss ass just because she gives me "the time of day". respect is earned, thats common sense.
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#13
 2004-04-29, 06:04
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
they do smell good. some are pretty. most are soft. these are all purely sexual things. way to make those the first things you list. continuing... they are not the least bit funny and they dont make me feel one way or the other. so no, im not going to kiss ass just because she gives me "the time of day". respect is earned, thats common sense.
The 'sexual' things were not the first things I listed. If you read my post a couple back, you'll realize that I said: quote:I think if the person can make me smile 24/7, or if the person makes me feel cared for, loved, missed, complete... Then they deserve a great amount of respect.
To me, that means a lot. Does it to you?
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#14
 2004-04-29, 06:08
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
To me, that means a lot. Does it to you?
the sexual things were the first things you listed.
and what the hell does that have to do with women? you have this retarded assumption that guys go around thinking "gee, this girl is wonderful. shes funny, shes smart and i really enjoy spending time with her. ok well now im going to shit on her because that makes sense." get over the myth. they all have an organ, how many have anything else?
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#15
 2004-04-29, 06:09
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
the sexual things were the first things you listed.
and what the hell does that have to do with women? you have this retarded assumption that guys go around thinking "gee, this girl is wonderful. shes funny, shes smart and i really enjoy spending time with her. ok well now im going to shit on her because that makes sense." get over the myth. they all have an organ, how many have anything else?
Well fuckin' a, you should have mentioned you were gay and this would all have been a lot easier.
In all seriousness, I think it's unfortunate that you never get the 'eebie jeebies' when around that special someone (a girl, I think), because those right there make sense of it all. The feelings you get around this special someone make it all worth it. If I can pamper my girlfriend and make her feel most comfortable when around me, well fucking A I'm going to do it. What do I have to lose? Well look at all that I have to gain.
[This message has been edited by Lovley (edited 04-29-2004).]
[This message has been edited by Lovley (edited 04-29-2004).]
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#16
 2004-04-29, 06:18
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
Originally posted by mrman383:
the sexual things were the first things you listed.
and what the hell does that have to do with women? you have this retarded assumption that guys go around thinking "gee, this girl is wonderful. shes funny, shes smart and i really enjoy spending time with her. ok well now im going to shit on her because that makes sense." get over the myth. they all have an organ, how many have anything else?
Well fuckin' a, you should have mentioned you were gay and this would all have been a lot easier.
In all seriousness, I think it's unfortunate that you never get the 'eebie jeebies' when around that special someone (a girl, I think), because those right there make sense of it all. The feelings you get around this special someone make it all worth it. If I can pamper my girlfriend and make her feel most comfortable when around me, well fucking A I'm going to do it. What do I have to lose? Well look at all that I have to gain.
[This message has been edited by Lovley (edited 04-29-2004).]
[This message has been edited by Lovley (edited 04-29-2004).]
so since i dont fake these 'eebie jeebies' or feel them every time id like to fuck, i should go celebate? nope, sorry, id rather not.
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#17
 2004-04-29, 06:22
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
so since i dont fake these 'eebie jeebies' or feel them every time id like to fuck, i should go celebate? nope, sorry, id rather not.
so I'm faking them now? I feel like I'm listening to a guy who's had his dick sawed off by an ex.
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#18
 2004-04-29, 06:24
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Nihilism 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
I think if the person can make me smile 24/7, or if the person makes me feel cared for, loved, missed, complete... Then they deserve a great amount of respect. For all you know, this chick could be carrying your child for 9 months, and go through the excruciating pain of child-delivery to pop out the shit you put in her in the first place. Then she'll most likely stay at home and mother this child all day while you go to work. Then she'll probably stay home some more while you go to the bar with your buddies. Face it, women do a lot in this world and are very unnappreciated and used by most men because they're asshats like you who are stuck in the last millenium, with this "machismo" attitude. The point is, whether it's a guy or girl, have a little respect for the god-damned person if they do all this shit for you.
oh, i see. its the mans fault you got pregnant. you werent begging for the cock or anything. its all his fault.
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#19
 2004-04-29, 06:28
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mrman383 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
so I'm faking them now? I feel like I'm listening to a guy who's had his dick sawed off by an ex.
no fuckface, i said i do not choose to fake them. i dont give a fuck about what you do. this is going to shock you, you might want to take a seat... im not the same person as you. i dont feel, see or experience everything you do. amazing, i know. so expand your tiny mind a little bit and understand that just because you tie your balls in a knot over a girl, doesnt mean that i do. therefore, your little theory does not apply. im not at all impressed by women. when i meet one that has a sense of humor that does impress me, ill let you know. until then, no forced feelings, no forced respect and no rose colored glasses just because they have an internal organ i like. ill also remind you that simply because their personalities suck, i will not be punishing myself with a lack of sex.
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#20
 2004-04-29, 06:29
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Gustave 
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:
This is 99% of the fun of giving blow jobs.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahahahaha!! 
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#21
 2004-04-29, 06:29
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Nihilism:
oh, i see. its the mans fault you got pregnant. you werent begging for the cock or anything. its all his fault.
I didn't say it doesn't take two to tango. I was merely focusing on the fact that the whole process of child-birth is a lot worse for the guy than it is the girl. And that deserves some damn respect.
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#22
 2004-04-29, 06:36
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by mrman383:
no fuckface, i said i do not choose to fake them. i dont give a fuck about what you do. this is going to shock you, you might want to take a seat... im not the same person as you. i dont feel, see or experience everything you do. amazing, i know. so expand your tiny mind a little bit and understand that just because you tie your balls in a knot over a girl, doesnt mean that i do. therefore, your little theory does not apply. im not at all impressed by women. when i meet one that has a sense of humor that does impress me, ill let you know. until then, no forced feelings, no forced respect and no rose colored glasses just because they have an internal organ i like. ill also remind you that simply because their personalities suck, i will not be punishing myself with a lack of sex.
It appears that you can't even follow your own advice, as this all started by you criticising the poster because he felt a little different when a girl gave him oral sex, and it seemed wrong to him. Sound familiar?
I think part of the problem with you finding women who meet your standards is that you don't even begin to try and get something to work. You basically call them pieces of meat that are no different than guys, minus an orgran or two. There's a lot more to sex and affection than just physical attributes, although they do intertwine with the mental/psychological ones.
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#23
 2004-04-29, 06:40
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
Lovley.......
Get a g/f.....
Make her your wife....
Have sex with her....
Have a child....
Then maybe after some experience....
You can come back....
And tell people something that you might actually know about!!!! A$$hat
[This message has been edited by Almighty_Power (edited 04-29-2004).]
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#24
 2004-04-29, 06:46
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Almighty_Power:
Lovley.......
Get a g/f.....
Make her your wife....
Have sex with her....
Have a child....
Then maybe after some experience....
You can come back....
And tell people something that you might actually know about!!!! A$$hat
[This message has been edited by Almighty_Power (edited 04-29-2004).]
Christ, never did I think I'd be surrounded by pessimistic, naive clowns. Is it really that wrong to respect a woman? Is it really that wrong to believe there's more than just sex in a relationship? It's quite unfortunate that you guys see things this way.
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#25
 2004-04-29, 06:46
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
This thread: Hijacked
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#26
 2004-04-29, 06:55
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
^^^this thread has officially been flown into a building.
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#27
 2004-04-29, 07:04
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:
^^^this thread has officially been flown into a building.
Which one? 
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#28
 2004-04-29, 08:16
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
This is probably one of the few times I'm in agreement with mrman. Women are not special, they are no better nor worse then men. Just because the sight of a woman makes my dick hard does not mean they should be treated better. I can get plenty of emotional and personal pleasure from friends; I can get sex from women. If a woman happens to fuck me, and has a good personality, all the better; but I'd still treat them the same I do anyone else: more respect=better treatment, better personality=more respect.
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#29
 2004-04-29, 09:13
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Re: Blowjobs are BAD!
quote:Originally posted by Lovley:
Christ, never did I think I'd be surrounded by pessimistic, naive clowns. Is it really that wrong to respect a woman? Is it really that wrong to believe there's more than just sex in a relationship? It's quite unfortunate that you guys see things this way.
You're trying to reason with those suffering from arrested development, among other issues. The only recourse is to flame their stupidity when possible, or ignore them.
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