Ok, to start off I'm 16 years old.

One night in November my "best" friend Butch called me asking for a ride. I went and got him. His new girlfriend, Michele, was with him. Everyone got in the car and we went to my house. That's how we met.

Somehow me and Michele started talking on the phone shortly after that night. At first, we would just talk for a little bit every few days. Then we would talk every day. Then it got to the point where we would be on the phone all night, for as long as we both could stay on the phone.

I would occasionaly stop by her house when I knew Butch wouldn't know and we would just sort of hang out. One of the first days in January, I invited her to my house because I play the piano and she sings and I wanted to sort of throw something together. I went and got her, then we ended up on the couch together. She was kissing and biting my neck, so basically she came on to me. We kissed a few times, and both agreed that we wouldn't do it again anymore and we wouldn't tell Butch.

Well, that didn't work. We would get together many times, some of which even when Butch knew that she was with me, though we convinced him many times that we were just friends. She lost her virginity to Butch, but when we would have sex...she said it felt "like it meant something" whereas with Butch she said she never really wanted to, just did to satisfy him.

Anyway, we were together many times. I was always there for her, we would always have a lot of fun when we went somewhere, and it seemed as though when she was with me...there was nothing else in the world that would make her happier.

Lets fast forward to March 2nd. I got tired of being on a string and waiting for her to break up with Butch, because many times we told each other how we felt about each other and it was the same...but she just "didn't know what to do". On march 2nd, I told her that I was finished with her because I was tired of waiting for her to get rid of Butch and be with me. Well, that night she dumped him, and we were finally together. We went to the mall the next day, and the movies. The day after that she came to my house and we watched some TV, just hung out. We ended up having sex that day, "the best ever" we both agreed. Anyway, on Sunday she decided to ignore me and hang out with Butch the WHOLE day. That night we broke up because she said I acted different and she had a lot of fun with Butch that day.

The next day we talked on the phone and chose to remain friends. I couldn't take just being friends and emotionally went through a really hard time. I cried for hours on end, and still sometimes do when I think about it hard enough. A few days later I told her that I didn't want to talk anymore because it hurt me too much to even hear her voice. So we didn't talk for about 2 weeks. She called one time because she had a "bad day" and needed someone to talk to. Well, I talked to her and consoled her, but then I said that the conversation we were having would be our last...and so far it has been.

My problem is, I really don't know what I want to do. Part of me wants to talk to her really bad, and part of me doesn't. I can't really seem to let her go though, and without her knowledge...have been writing her a note everyday about whatever, and putting it in a shoebox...to one day give to her all these notes. Yeah right.

So, what should I do. I can't forget about her, it's too hard. Should I just wait for her and Butch to break up and then be there again for her, or am I a fool? What if they don't break up for months, what would I feel like? I just don't know what to do. One minute I love her and the next I can't decide what is in my head. Please help, and thank you very much if you actually read this whole thing.

you sound like a love sick puppy. and women are not worth drooling over. ive been in situaitions somewhat like that but not really. just buck up and move on dude your 16. if you can get your friends girl to fuck then i think you could prolly get another and about the shoebox, thats kind of creepy man. sound s like a fuckin movie

Your the asshole your friends girlfriend cheated with.

You should be kicking your own ass.

damn, you sound pathetic and you're an ass for fucking with your "best" friend's girl. despite what "feelings" you have for each other, you really don't deserve this at all since you went behind your friend's back. even she doesn't deserve Butch cuz of the whole sneaking around and cheating thing, even still, you sound like a sad lost puppy just clinging to any little attention you can get and that's just sad.

this works for her too, if she doesn't like Butch, she could've easily just broken up with him and gotten with you without cheating, but no, you two decide to be stupid and lie about it. have a great life loser.

quote:Originally posted by devilsAngel:

damn, you sound pathetic and you're an ass for fucking with your "best" friend's girl. despite what "feelings" you have for each other, you really don't deserve this at all since you went behind your friend's back. even she doesn't deserve Butch cuz of the whole sneaking around and cheating thing, even still, you sound like a sad lost puppy just clinging to any little attention you can get and that's just sad.

this works for her too, if she doesn't like Butch, she could've easily just broken up with him and gotten with you without cheating, but no, you two decide to be stupid and lie about it. have a great life loser.

Wow. You're a bitch.

dood, drop her. the best your gonna be is her back up boy. when she went back to butch, she totally punked your ass. forget her. it was a bad idea, move on.

but, good job playa. looks like youve got a long road ahead of sport fucking chicks.

just stay friends with her if you can't let go, but find a new girlfriend and make sure Michele knows that you aren't sitting around waiting for you, because girls are the devil and will use everything they can to their advantage.

*Laughs like a black kid in the back of a car shooting paintballs at innocent bystandards and watching them dive like it was a real drive by* at LP.

Sounds like she used you like a bitch. And now she's casually stringing you along again just in case she needs you? Forget that bitch now and move on.

For those of you that think i'm some really bad guy, i'm not. I didn't TRY to take her away from Butch, that was never my intention. When she came to my house though it was sort of like the kiss of death and I didn't even want to do that.

For the rest of you, I appreciate your advice. I think i'm going to just try to forget about her. It's really hard, but I know i'm young and their are plenty of girls out there, some of which im already talking to. It's just hard to lose someone you cared about a lot. Thanks for your input.

You barely mentioned your friend in the whole post; except how to trick him. Fucking jerk.

You have to look at it this way -- you basically forced her to choose, and she didn't pick you.

Tough luck. Get over it and move on.

Well if she was "faithful" to him she would of never started talking to me.

I did basically force her to choose, and she picked me. She just chose to hang out with him on Sunday so we broke up over it. I don't know. Oh well.