Hi,

How do you talk to really fit girls? I no one fancies me like mad but I have to make excuses to get away from her all the time cos I don't no what to say to her and am nervous around her, which I normally not like around other bitches. What can I say to her? How should I act? How can I make her laugh?

Talk to her with your MOUTH, of course!! And -- unless you are truly ABnormal, talk to her as you NORMALLY would to a girl less fit.

You will probably find that the "fit" girl is easier to talk to than the unfit. That's because she is more likely to be comfortable and confident with herself, and less likely to be excessively shy, or easily intimidated.

DON'T BE AFRAID TO TALK TO HER!!! A lot of guys are afraid to talk to the fit or "hot" girl because of the same unfounded fears you have, and so a lot of fit or "hot" girls get less guy approaches and conversation start- ups from guys than the unfit and "unhot" girls get. Love, Venus.

Face it; fit girls are in a completely different race. They'd never talk to unfit people, not even if their life depended on it. You'll just have to stick to regular unfit girls, because there isn't a fat chance that you'd be able to talk to a superior fit girl. They're just soo much better than you that it wouldn't make sense, on her part. Sorry.

wtf, if you mean by fit as a holier then thou better then everyone else stuck up bitch then yes. Jesus just talk to her and be yourself for fucks sake. I guess it doesn't help that i'm in the military and am in good shape..The whole confidence thing really makes an impression.

heres something ive always wondered...

if being yourself got you chicks, wouldnt everyone be crawling with them right now? afterall, everything you do is "yourself". even when you are too afraid to talk to a girl. isnt insecurity, fear, cowardace, etc, part of who you are?

Well, you could say that, i say "be yourself" in that by knowing who what you are your confidence in yourself is real, you know what you can and can't do. Yes it's possible being yourself could put off many girls. If in being yourslef, you or alying backstabbing ass who will say anything to get forward in life, then that is you. If you have to lie to get any girl interested, your not being real. I guess my standards of being a true person belong no where on this thread (shrugs)

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

heres something ive always wondered...

if being yourself got you chicks, wouldnt everyone be crawling with them right now? afterall, everything you do is "yourself". even when you are too afraid to talk to a girl. isnt insecurity, fear, cowardace, etc, part of who you are?

Being yourself doesn't garuntee truckloads of 'chicks'. It pretty much garuntees girls who will like you for who you are, girls who you feel totally comfortable around and those who you feel free around rather than having to hide certain emotions/opinions. It's a hell of a lot easier knowing that your partner knows exactly who you are, and still loves you.

As for insecurity and the like being yourself, well hell yeah, that's being yourself. It's different when a shy person acts as if he/she is a macho flirt all of a sudden. Make sense?

quote:Originally posted by ChaosMachine:

Well, you could say that, i say "be yourself" in that by knowing who what you are your confidence in yourself is real, you know what you can and can't do. Yes it's possible being yourself could put off many girls. If in being yourslef, you or alying backstabbing ass who will say anything to get forward in life, then that is you. If you have to lie to get any girl interested, your not being real. I guess my standards of being a true person belong no where on this thread (shrugs)

your life must look like a black and white tv. ever come to think that even if the person isnt a complete scum bag, a woman (or even several hundred) could meet him and simply not be interested? wouldnt that just blow holes in your silly little theory that all you have to do is sit back and do nothing and pussy will fall from the sky?