Through lots of meditation, my perception has changed a great deal and I'm able to look at the world with clearer eyes. I now realize it wasn't the girls that disliked me before, it was just me stopping myself from communicating with the world, they were always trying to get my attention.

I think it's like this: Girls seek comfort in guys but they don't realize that pure happiness can't be given to them by any certain guy, no matter how cute, or rich, until the girl gets in touch with herself. The man can work his bones to death for her but that still will not bring them happiness. I've noticed the majority of conversations they start with me lately end up in them complaining about their job, or life, or any problem they can find. Of course, suggesting meditation never seems to work, people always seem to just want and want more, but not actually do. We sit here all day thinking of what could have been, when we saw that girl, or that guy, then we talk to our friends about it for support because we somehow feel we're not strong enough to handle communication alone?

It's not about dissecting the psychology of man and woman really, it's about just letting it be. I find a lot of pretty girls come up to me more often now, to their disappointment I'm very quiet, not because I have no interest in them, but just because I wish they could see how this moment, right NOW is when to live. Not to complain and think of how bad their day was, but to talk, to run, fuck, paint, do something creative or fun. Words can't really describe real emotion. We can live complaining and whining, or we can play. I'd rather play, and the more I learn, the less I play with myself .

So the next time you wonder if someone likes you, if that guy wants just sex or a relationship, stop expecting something. Just breathe, have fun, and remember to keep breathing and NOT to wonder if they want more, but to do what you feel is right for you and him, at that MOMENT, right NOW. The next time you feel like complaining about how your life is so bad, have a little compassion (yes that's right) and realize you're not the only one suffering. Shutup and play, the universe is our playground.

please see my thread Fuck. nice name BTW.

quote:Originally posted by Fuck:

... Girls seek comfort in guys but they don't realize that pure happiness can't be given to them by any certain guy, no matter how cute, or rich, until the girl gets in touch with herself...

Good point, and it applies to both males and females, and to life in general.

if a girlwants to touch herself, thats FINE with me.

Wow, I am like, sooo inlightened. You should like, write a book on all of that stuff cuz like, I would sooo buy it.

Smartass.

It makes a lot of sense.

Smartass.

Little pea, that's like, two "likes" in one sentance. You sound stoked.

Smartass.

[This message has been edited by Syko (edited 04-28-2004).]

"inlightend" evidentally not