My girlfriend is a virgin but wants to have sex, i've had sex before but i never had sex with a virgin what can i do to make it special for her. What should i do. Anything you tell me will help.

quote:Originally posted by pyropaul:

My girlfriend is a virgin but wants to have sex, i've had sex before but i never had sex with a virgin what can i do to make it special for her. What should i do. Anything you tell me will help.



All I can tell you is that it's not going to be very special for her as far as pleasure is concerned no matter what you do. If you want to make it special for her, focus more on the emotional aspect than the physical. Make sure she's comfortable, and most importantly, GO SLOW. When she loses her virginity, she'll be more likely to remember who it was with, rather than how it felt.

slower the better. gentler the better. the more astroglide, the better

ts

Dont fuck her,make love.

quote:Originally posted by Tru_Souljer:

slower the better. gentler the better. the more astroglide, the better

ts



amen.this is something that needs the whole night and the right surrondings not 2 1/2 minutes up against a wall somewhere.

its your duty as a man to make it ultra special for her cos she's giving you something unique that she can only give the once.

and be a gentleman and buy her a small piece of jewelery the next day.something tastful..silver is good (as you probably can't afford white gold.)

lick her pussy until it become very wet then spread her legs very wide and put your dick in very slow... that will lessen the pain of being fucked for the furst time..

The value of virginity is artificial.

quote:Originally posted by casperc:

Dont fuck her,make love.

whicle slightly crude, this is very true. this isnt going to be about the physical pleasure for her. its all emotional.

also, expect her to bleed. my gf didnt but you should be ready for it. it depends whether or not her hymen has been broken yet, which can happen on its own through various physical (non sexual) activities.

the one other guy was also right about having her legs spread wide. it will just make her a little less tight. she may also be really tight if she is scared (which wouldnt be supprising), so tell her to try to relax.

have you two done other things like fingering? cause that will help to have her be at least a little more loose.

good luck!

How about stop asking for advice on totse that has been posted uummm? I don't know about 1 BILLION TIMES.

We can't tell you how to fuck, a book can't tell you how to fuck the only person that can help you to become better at fucking is the person your fucking.

Now get in there cover her mouth and eyes and cut her clothes off with a knife and then say just kidding and have sex.

If you said you've had sex before then just go have sex. Now if you said you've had 5 minute sex before which really don't count as sex then your in trouble and just need to go in there becuase she doesn't know what the fuck to expect.

Just do whatever and tell her that she needs to have sex once a day for 2 weeks before she will become accustomed to having sex and then you need to have sex twice a day for a couple months.

I hope my advice helped.

Carbon, you're an asshole.

Why don't you build up a sexual relationship before you pop her cherry. Stick with oral for a while until she becomes comfortable with, and possibly crave, the idea of having sex with you. Yeah, take it slow, from the beginning.

^^^now that's good advice

"its your duty as a man to make it ultra special for her cos she's giving you something unique that she can only give the once."

How can i make it special what can i do before hand?

"have you two done other things like fingering? cause that will help to have her be at least a little more loose."

How loose should she be?

"Why don't you build up a sexual relationship before you pop her cherry. Stick with oral for a while until she becomes comfortable with, and possibly crave, the idea of having sex with you. Yeah, take it slow, from the beginning."

We have been going out for a while now, i like to eat pussy so she is comfortable with me and has asked me to have sex with her both i wanted to make it special for her.

quote:how can i make it special what can i do before hand?

the fact that you are asking tells me you'll probably get it right kid.just trust your instincts.and the worse thing you can do is start 'planning'.



ps.having a bath is always a good start!

God I'm tired of hearing this little bitchy kids rambling about how they don't know how to make "love".

It's a natural instinct mother fucker. She's in your bed you go and take a shower she takes a shower then you fuck! Any questions?

Alright now shut the fuck up and get on with your life.

Well, since you sound like you really need some advice, I'll tell you my little secret.

Get her drunk, flip her over, and pound away.

But seriously, enough of the bullshit. Just do what comes naturally.

Special just fucken stick your shit in really quick while shes dry and just start goin hella hard and hella fast. Do this tell shes screamin then fucken bust your load on her brand new shirt.