Ok, I went out with this girl for like 5 months and it diddn't work out. This was the first girl I ever really loved, and she knows this. She wants to still hang out and be friends, which I'm trying to do. But she called me up tonight from my apartment "(while hanging out with one of my freinds) and starts this cute talk about how shes in my bed and shes got my blanket and how much she loves it. I cut hre off as soon as she started talking about this stuff. I was like IS THERE ANY MORE BEER? becuase, I'm not trying to cute talk with her, I want to forget the relationship. I'm not going to get over this girl if she comes at me with this nonsense. I honestly don't know what she wants from me. But, we cant be together, were not right for eachother. If this keeps up I'm going to have to tell her not to be in my life, becuase I can't handle it. I'm sittin here at work like... "damn, did I do the right thing by changing the subject? Should I have gone along with it?" I mean I want her back, but if that happened, I know it wouldnt work. We broke up a bunch of times before it was final. I don't know I gotta stand my ground. But, she expects me to act the same as I always did around her. I don't think thats fair. I'm not going to be 100% open to "a freind". Friends don't get that benefit. This is kind of a rant, I don't know. Comments/feedback welcome.

this is why you never be friends with girls after your through. you will never get over them.

her little stunt with the blanket: shes playong with you. she wants to get you wound up because it does things for her self esteem.

next time, if there is one, go over there and fuck her. if she wont fuck, leave ASAP. then totally cut her out of your life. dont talk to her, dont return phone calls, dont hang out with her. nothing. when she sees you around, by all means say hi. otherwise cut it short and get out of there.

its through. put it in the past. dont be nice. shes a predator posing as a housecat.

Samething here. Shit, I know what it's like. It's confusing and mind-fucking. What you should do, is just try not to pay attention to it. Maybe try to be mutual "lovers" to put it.

If she was reall your firs love then she always will be. You'll always love her. There is no changing it, keep her in your life.

You need to get away from that girl. Forget the whole "friends" thing. That just a bullshit scam that she's using in order to feel more secure. As long as she knows that she can just fall back on you her ego will not be too seriously damaged.

I think that chicks do that kinda stuff a lot. They have a guy that they don't really respect or care about around so that when no one else will date them because they are such a pain in the ass they have their little backup bozo.

Just tell her off. If you try to be nice about it she will just keep on bugging you, trying to get her backup back. Really insult her if you have to, just get her the hell out of your life. Her thinking that you are an asshole is worth her not causing you any more emotional pain.

dude i want you to do is try to fuck her again but this time fuck her like an animal, bondage her, put a bottle in her pussy while fucking her ass.. after you did that kick her out of your aprtment and unleash your dogs... that wull teach her not to mess your life again..

5 months is too long to go with any one girl, or for her to go with you. That was the big mistake. Try not to let it happen again. Love, Venus.

Well i dont care whjat all theses people say...cause i love you and you are my best firnd...i dont want sex ans i dont need affeftion...even though yuio do,,,it wa not my intention to be in your bed and make you crazy i just felt like i needed a feind to talk to and someon to lean on there soulder...but htta whatever...I just thin we are better as fiends and i love you and we can be opne and talk no matter what....but you should quit listenening top poelp that dont know yuo...... I really just wanted someone to be there for me and you were tooo ocused on vince being here to care about yourself and i love you and not vince and not any other guys....we can't be tohter but we can be friends and we canbe happy and be truthful and know eah other and love one another...i love you and want to bet each other best friends forever as long as i live.y to better yourself and think abiout other in the future and what you want will come to you in time....time is patience and all will come but you need to think in the future and no0t about getting drunjk right now......Love PEACHES

quote:Originally posted by pretty pinay:

5 months is too long to go with any one girl, or for her to go with you. That was the big mistake. Try not to let it happen again. Love, Venus.

that was funny.

not always true, but true far too often

quote:Originally posted by Alwaysconfused:

Well i dont care whjat all theses people say...cause i love you and you are my best firnd...i dont want sex ans i dont need affeftion...even though yuio do,,,it wa not my intention to be in your bed and make you crazy i just felt like i needed a feind to talk to and someon to lean on there soulder...but htta whatever...I just thin we are better as fiends and i love you and we can be opne and talk no matter what....but you should quit listenening top poelp that dont know yuo...... I really just wanted someone to be there for me and you were tooo ocused on vince being here to care about yourself and i love you and not vince and not any other guys....we can't be tohter but we can be friends and we canbe happy and be truthful and know eah other and love one another...i love you and want to bet each other best friends forever as long as i live.y to better yourself and think abiout other in the future and what you want will come to you in time....time is patience and all will come but you need to think in the future and no0t about getting drunjk right now......Love PEACHES

Are you drunk?

she´s playing with you... if u want it to hurt U play with her..

and if U dont want it to hurt.. just cut her of...totally

quote:Originally posted by Alwaysconfused:

Well i dont care whjat all theses people say...cause i love you and you are my best firnd...i dont want sex ans i dont need affeftion...even though yuio do,,,it wa not my intention to be in your bed and make you crazy i just felt like i needed a feind to talk to and someon to lean on there soulder...but htta whatever...I just thin we are better as fiends and i love you and we can be opne and talk no matter what....but you should quit listenening top poelp that dont know yuo...... I really just wanted someone to be there for me and you were tooo ocused on vince being here to care about yourself and i love you and not vince and not any other guys....we can't be tohter but we can be friends and we canbe happy and be truthful and know eah other and love one another...i love you and want to bet each other best friends forever as long as i live.y to better yourself and think abiout other in the future and what you want will come to you in time....time is patience and all will come but you need to think in the future and no0t about getting drunjk right now......Love PEACHES



Well, so far so good, I can handle this, just not you being drunk as hell tonight just to spite me. And ok, ill stop drinking. If my first love ever could stay in my life forever, ill do whatever. But I don't understand a lot of what you said so I'll stop now.

mate honestly.. to get over her you will have to cut all contact to start with. once you heal then you can start with the contact and maybe work back to friends but she cant expect you to just switch off your emotions and go back to the way it was....

my ex did that to me and severly fucked me up until i told him to get lost...yeah it hurts like hell but if its what you need to do then do it.

you need to start thinking about you now not her, just concentrate on getting better and healing THEN worry about being 'friends'.

and the ringing you from your bed and being cute??? that is just fucked up, its called messing with your head and friends dont do that....

Dude shes one of those girls. Sure she'll seem nice and i bet the reason ur reluctant to cut contact is she gives good head. So the solution is simple, i did this with my fucky ducky ex before. Cut off all contact with her, tell her exactly why and what shes doing wrong. She'll either come back begging and you'll have a good chance of a good relationship.

Or she'll leave you and you can get on with your life. That way find a new gal and dont be weak. Man she's got you properly round her little finger. I agree, shove a bottle up her ass.

quote:Originally posted by broken_strings:

I agree, shove a bottle up her ass.

Actually i believe the bottle was in her snatch and the dick in the ass. Or you could just give her the old 1 in the pink 2 in the stink or just a good dirty sanchez.