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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-04-26, 04:02
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whats the best way..
i dunno what to do, This chick i like has been on my mind for like 2 weeks now and all i have been thinking about is her and its driving me nuts.
Shes my cuzs friend and in about 2-3 weeks ive seen her about a handfull of times and i dunno what to do,Im completly nuts about her and its like i dunno, i cant talk to her just with me and her cause ppl are always around and shes really makes me all insecure and shit cause she seems so much better than me, apperently she does this to alot of ppl. She doesnt have a phone # cause shes moving to a new house, I need something to happen cause i cant live like this anymore. I called my friend today and she picked up the phone and i almost froze i dont know exactly what i was talking about, but all i remember was they were tanning outside and have chips. Shes moving on saturday and i offered her my help, but she said she has her dad and some ppl helping her. But she said she was gunna call me if she needs more help so i hope she does, i think its gunna be my only way in. if not its gunna suck lots. waiting for 6 days for my phone to ring is going to be hell.
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#2
 2004-04-26, 20:16
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Re: whats the best way..
Well here are a couple of questions:
1. Is she moving out of town/state/country?
2. Are you friends with her?
Okay well I have had a similar problem... At the begining of the school year I was attracted to this guy named Ben. I didn't pursue what I wanted because I thought he was better then me. Even when I had a boyfriend I kind of got jealous when I saw Ben with other girls... I was envious. Then when me and my boyfriend Dustin got together Ben came and talked to me and said that it was too bad that I was with Dustin because he wanted to get to know me. Those words stuck in my head for a long time. Dustin and I broke up because he wanted to be with one of my Best friends. (Yeah that sucked) And then me and Ben hooked up...(after overcoming many obstacles) Ben and I have been together for a month now and we are like best friends. We talk about everything... We feel the same for each other. But if your little friend is going to be moving it could be a hassle. Start out being friends with her. Then if its meant to happen then it will. Props to you for offering to help her move. Just don't be nervous... Relax everything should go smoothly! Best of luck kid!
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#3
 2004-04-26, 20:39
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Re: whats the best way..
don't wait for the phone to ring....if she's moving let her know what you feel. Don't get too in depth, just be like "the past bla bla times we've hung out I've really enjoyed being with you..." and work it from there....don't get all sobby or act like a distressed puppy be confident and maybe she'll give you the new address or keep your number an call you when she's moved....seriously though, I wouldn't worry to much if the girl is moving....that puts things in a whole new category
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#4
 2004-04-27, 01:40
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Re: whats the best way..
Shes only moving about 15 mins aways so its not like shes moving to another country or anything, and shes my cuzs friend so i just kinda know her a bit yeah.
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