i need friggin help. I just broke it off with a guy that i liked because i prefer to be alone. My friends all say i'm abnormal and that you shouldn't want to be alone, but i tend to be distant in relationships anyway. He was a good guy and said that he really wanted to go out with me, and now i don't know what to do. Do i tell him i made a mistake, or just deal with it and seek counselling?........

if you feel that you want to be alone, that's cool and all. don't go out with someone just because your friends feel it is weird for you not to.

do what you feel like doing, and don't worry about what people think

[This message has been edited by SARDONICPILLOW (edited 04-26-2004).]

You sound like my girl that just broke it off after a 9 month relationship because she wanted to be alone...

sublime, your girl broke it off with you cause she doesnt like you anymore. that being alone shit and i need my space shit is just an easy let down.

as for the chick on here, you might be gay, or you might be anti social.

but then again, it almost sounds like your pack wants to have boyfriends all the fucking time. thats really not healthy.

it seems to me by the tone of your post, that your just not intersted in that right now. no need to explain.

really only you know the reason. spill it and well talk more.

I know it's bullshit, and that she really wanted to be with someone else to have something frivolous and stupid. Damn.

quote:Originally posted by nirvanak:

i need friggin help. I just broke it off with a guy that i liked because i prefer to be alone. My friends all say i'm abnormal and that you shouldn't want to be alone, but i tend to be distant in relationships anyway. He was a good guy and said that he really wanted to go out with me, and now i don't know what to do. Do i tell him i made a mistake, or just deal with it and seek counselling?........

Is you're name Teresa? You sound just like my ex-girlfriend.