Ok I want to give my boyfriend head for the first time and I have never done it before can anyone explain to me what to do? I am very inexperienced!

suck and move your head, its not that hard. GO DEEP

Check this archived thread (http://www.totse.com/bbs/Archives/Archive-000002/HTML/20040217-4-005800.html).

Though this topic has been discussed many times, there aren't any current general threads on the subject. So you guys might as well have your say, and then we can archive this.

EDiT: Ehh, on second thought, that is a bit too long...

Ok, try this:

Ask him first to tell you if you're doing it "well", open your mouth, put his penis in your open mouth, close your lips around his penis, do something until he says "That's it!" or the like, repeat that until he either cums or starts not looking like he likes it.

[This message has been edited by Gustave (edited 04-25-2004).]

So, from readin' all the various things onnet

about goils & head, y'know sex columns & sex

studies. It seems it's new traditon, where girls give it up & guys just sit there with there big ol' guy grins.

Do guys very often return the head? Not too often it seems. It's sometimes a way a girl hopes to keep her boy. Supposedly girls are afraid to say no. No?

Guys therefore, jes' sit back 'n grin.

Are you the lucky gal who gets as good as she gives?

If not...when you've finished up 'n wiped yer

mouth. Get out in the kitchen & make me a sammich & keep yer mouth shut...till it's needed.

remember to cover your teeth with your lips, since you're inexperienced and all, don't want any accidental biting down ness now do we? and also if your jaw starts getting sore, use your hand (lick first so it's nice and moist :P), cuz your jaw ends up tightening and closing down when it get's sore ... also wouldnt' hurt to use both hand and mouth at the same time (so you get full coverage) that takes time to work out the pace tho ... whatever, don't be afraid to just try things out and make sure he tells you what he likes/if you're doing it right/something hurts ...etc. communication is key.

oh yeah, and as for spit/swallow, to each their own ... different people taste different so it really depends ... ask him what he'd like you to do then figure out whether you want to or not i guess. (shrugs)

have fun.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

[B]...Are you the lucky gal who gets as good as she gives?...B]

used to, lol ... but either way, for me, i wouldn't give unless i was also getting, gotta be fair and equal is what i think, but, to each it's own.