How do you let a guy know you're interested or like him? Theres lots of girls who are flirty and some mean it and some don't. The problem is I dont know the difference because some of them are nice people and generally are pleasant. So how do you sort of hint to a guy that you're interested?

From a guy's point of view:

For me, it's alot more fun when a girl comes up to me and tells me. I completely ignore the friends of the girl coming up and giggling to me that their friend likes me deal.

quote:Originally posted by HeeT:

From a guy's point of view:

For me, it's alot more fun when a girl comes up to me and tells me. I completely ignore the friends of the girl coming up and giggling to me that their friend likes me deal.

Yeah thats bullshit. Sometimes though, you have to go straight to the whore's mouth, and get the facts, of her STD's.

But yeah, if a girl lets me know its more fun. Like this one bitch she asked me if I had a gf, couldnt' have come at a better time because I was going to break up with my girlfriend of the time that same day. I asked her if she liked me and she said I won't tell you its more fun that way if you find out. Well it was really fun that next night.

I like when a girl i like straight comes on to me, but if its some ugly girl i hate its horrible...

~H

lol Halifax, that happened to me afterschool. She walked up to me with her hands crossed.

Me - "What are you doing?"

Her - "Lets spin"

Me - "Lets not"



UGLY!

If I'm into him in an "i need a fuck" sorta way, I'll have my hands in his pants.

If I'm just into him and not looking for a fuck, then I'll be touchy feely with him. But, all girls are different. I have a friend who is totally un touchy feely if she digs a guy, but I'll be touching them all over if I'm into it.

The way I look at him. If i look at him giggly/cute/sneakily, it typically means i dig the guy.

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

If I'm into him in an "i need a fuck" sorta way, I'll have my hands in his pants.

... The way I look at him. If i look at him giggly/cute/sneakily, it typically means i dig the guy.

same here, mostly.

My friends are a lil lost. I mean they w8 at parties for sum girl to come up 2 them and say "FUCK ME U ASSHOLE". They're stil virgins. But i must say that would be a turn on if a girl tapped me on the shoulder and said "I WANNA GIVE U HEAD U FUCKASS"

I love all these "What do girls ____" topics. Like all girls can be lumped into one single topic. Your a guy, can you honestly say that your style of expression is the same as all other guys? Didnt think so, logically, women will be the same way.

There are no concrete stereotypes, and when it comes down to it, your just going to have to take a chance.

quote:Originally posted by Sharule:

I love all these "What do girls ____" topics. Like all girls can be lumped into one single topic. Your a guy, can you honestly say that your style of expression is the same as all other guys? Didnt think so, logically, women will be the same way.

There are no concrete stereotypes, and when it comes down to it, your just going to have to take a chance.

I dont think he was trying to lump them all together, and youd be suprised how similar most girls are.

Dont know about the rest of them, but a simple smile or a bump or rub if at chance is all I need to know if your interested. If I dont signal back Im not interested.

I start talking to them about physics, chaos theory and/or occult studies.

If he can carry on a good conversation, I'll interject with, "Why haven't we had sex yet?"

To answer Sharule's comment, i asked the ladies of totse how THEY let a guy know, not how all women let a guy know. It is quite well known that both men and women vary a lot, so i just wanted to see if I can identify some of the ways they do it.

Normally I grab them, push them into the bathroom, and say

"Strip."

I judge and then say

"Okay, you'll do."

Then proceed to give him my number and tell him to call me in three days, otherwise don't bother calling at all.

It hasn't failed me yet.

Cheers,

Lost

quote:Originally posted by Halifax:

I like when a girl i like straight comes on to me, but if its some ugly girl i hate its horrible...

~H

shallow prick

If it's just some guy I want to fuck I have this whole, eye contact, look twords the other room, eye contact sly smile, start going into the other room, and what do you know, they always follow.

If it's a guy I actually like then I'll be more thouchy and nice and have conversations with them. Make a point to do things with them if we're in a group. Or I'll do things like one time I had enough mushrooms for 2 people. I could have given the extras to my best friend to fry with but I gave them to this guy I was into and it turned out wonderfully.

Wondering if a girl likes you will make you seem insecure. Just assume they like you and act confident till you have a good reason to think otherwise.

quote: shallow prick

Um, do u like doing ugly people or something?

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Wondering if a girl likes you will make you seem insecure. Just assume they like you and act confident till you have a good reason to think otherwise.

EasyGoing, that is soo true, right now im in that situation and its like, i feel soo werid and stuff if i see her and like im acting to cool or something i dunno, i want it to end.