The last tie I had sex I only lasted 2 minutes. Ive only had sex say 10 times in my life and This last time I had it I waited 2-3 months...Sooo whats wrong with me? im 15 ne ideas on how to last longer or what

thanks

B-Roy

When her pussy feels good, and you feel like your going to cum, tell her to get off and just stop for a min.Then keep going.And when you feel like cumming tell her to get off your dick and switch passions.

Also, dont think about cumming fast.

Thicker condoms?

~H

lol even if I stop for a minute I still cum pretty quick. I dunno I have improved when I first had sex lol its was like a sad 20 seconds I could last, lol I hope Ill grow out of it..For ex when getting a bj i can last like 30 miutes..I dunno Im off to bed Ill check back tomorrow thanks..B-Roy

It's normal when you're young. In four or five years you'll find that you can last much longer.

just try to think of something really really disgusting say for instance your grandmother bathing in creamed corn. That ought to make ya go soft let alone slow down your cumming.

Vince

You what *they* say: kids come first. You should be able to get up again pretty quick. Second time generally lasts longer.

Have you tried varying your stroke speed? Speed up/slow down/speed up?

Masturbate before you meet with your gf. Put two condoms on if you can't find extra thick ones. When you're screwing don't try to think sexually, just do it.

Learn Tantra. YOu can calm yourself down. If you're too lazy, do what 1337 s3x0rz like me do:

While you're rooting, close your eyes and count up to 100 in your mind. It should take your mind off the sex a bit, and you won't come as quick. Breathe in and out deeply. That also calms you down, them Tantric people do it to calm down and last longer.

Also, if you take 3 deep breaths before you come, it should make the orgasm much better.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Masturbate before you meet with your gf. Put two condoms on if you can't find extra thick ones. When you're screwing don't try to think sexually, just do it.

Never wear TWO CONDOMS at the same time! The friction between them may cause them to break or split.

Try not to think of it so much man just think of something else...Awesome i remember my first root the bitch was awesome she taught me a fair bit. Just remember to control yourself start it off slow and then start to get faster and faster and when you feel like your going to cum (the first feeling) go back to really slow and then gradually build up again. It takes practice but hopefully you will get there. I just gotta learn to keep hard but i gusse i should start fucking hotter bitchs

Thats a sign of good health. Enjoy, fuck what anyone else thinks.

u need to do some pc flexes everyday, it will help wiht ur whole "system". it'll make u be able to control ur ejaculating if u get good enough at it, it will make u have harder orgasms, u may even be able to have multiple orgasms if u can hold urself from ejaculatin. anyways i have been doing them for like a year and i can have an orgasm without losin erection and just keep going, girls love it, and if u are with a new girl u can sneak in a good money shot to the face cuz they will think u have already came and u can give em a lil surprise when they turn around (j/k u may get ur ass kicked for that move)

Lol. I posted this question a while back. First.. you have to ask yourself how much your masturbate. Wait.. no.. not how much.. how quickly do you get yourself off? Because you train your body when you masturbate, and it gets used to finishing quickly if you masturbate and finish quick. SO if you do, then masturbate longer. Secondly, get Trojan extended pleasure condoms. I went from 5 minutes to 40+ minutes with sex. They work unbeleivably well, and now even with the help of the condom, given I don't go at it very fast, I can last 30+ minutes. I HIGHLY recommend it. Good luck



Edit** One more thing. Don't think about coming during sex. It speeds it up.

[This message has been edited by [G-Prime] (edited 04-20-2004).]

So you're saying, that because I've been wanking for longer periods of time than usual, (I'll get to the peak then let back.. rest a minute then go at it again, repeat about 3-4 times), that might be the reason I lasted so much longer when my girlfriend tried to please me last?

might make sense now.

I had the same problem when I was starting out. I would recommend downloading/renting/buying/stealing some really hot porn that suits your fancy. Watch and jack off to them as much as possible. Your basically descensitizing your mind so you won't get too excited when it comes to the real thing.

-UndefinedMinded

quote:Originally posted by Lovley:

So you're saying, that because I've been wanking for longer periods of time than usual, (I'll get to the peak then let back.. rest a minute then go at it again, repeat about 3-4 times), that might be the reason I lasted so much longer when my girlfriend tried to please me last?

might make sense now.

Make sense now? All I see that you've done is repeated me, and broken it down for stupid people. You have to be pretty dense to not get that "masturbating longer" implies you DON'T blow your load, and go as long as possible.

lol soo in perspective...You saying whack off as much as possible but make it so it lasts long?..This really works? Thanks B-Roy

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

Masturbate before you meet with your gf. Put two condoms on if you can't find extra thick ones. When you're screwing don't try to think sexually, just do it.

don't put two condoms on the latex heats up and it can put holes in both condoms getting you a nice unplanned baby, double bagging is for amateurs.

**someone already said don't use two condoms, but i'm going to leave this here as a reiteration

[This message has been edited by The Misfit (edited 04-21-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by [G-Prime]:

Make sense now? All I see that you've done is repeated me, and broken it down for stupid people. You have to be pretty dense to not get that "masturbating longer" implies you DON'T blow your load, and go as long as possible.

Well, I was thinking there were too many other factors that would have an effect on when I blew my load. I figured since there was a girl doing this to me instead of my own hand, I wouldn't last as long.. but apparently I do anyway.

just relax and dont get so tense(sp?) keep your whole body relaxed and breath deeply... try not as much thinking about the sex and how it feels and stuff... but think about something else... but not soemthing to the point your day dreaming and your partner may notice...

when i do that... i can go for along time