Hey Guys,

I need some advice. Ok theres this girl that I've had my eye on at school. I only go to school 1 day a week for an hour or so, But I usually see her there. When ever I see here we always make eye contact, I've seen her at school for about a month or two, but I haven't said a word to her yet, Im kind of shy :|. Anyways I'd like some advice on going up and talking to her. What should I say? How should I go about it and stuff? Good topics of conversation? I know some people will think this thread is stupid but ok, I just need some advice cuz im a newb ok? I think shes pretty attractive and Hopefully get her Phone #.

So some advice guys(or girls )?

Thanks a ton in advance!

do some detective work- find out who she is and find out when and where you can speak to her on her own (helps with the shy bit).

then just say the truth...that you have noticed her and would like to go out with her/get to know her better.

'chat up' lines and 'scripts' are only useful if you are confident.

Just fucking go for it. Ask her the hell out. What's the worst that can happen? She has a boyfriend? She'll say no? Who gives a fuck. You're only at the school for an hour a week. At least you wont have to live with seeing her all of the time after getting shot down by her.

Just suck it up, walk up to her, introduce yourself, ask her for her name, make a little small talk, ask her if she'd like to out on yada-yada day at yada-yada time and then say that you have get going going because you are one busy mother fucker .

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

Just fucking go for it. Ask her the hell out. What's the worst that can happen? She has a boyfriend? She'll say no? Who gives a fuck. You're only at the school for an hour a week. At least you wont have to live with seeing her all of the time after getting shot down by her.

Just suck it up, walk up to her, introduce yourself, ask her for her name, make a little small talk, ask her if she'd like to out on yada-yada day at yada-yada time and then say that you have get going going because you are one busy mother fucker .

Good thinkin, Thanks budday

Bump

Rape her.

OK. First thigs first. Dont take advice from Tokolosh. Second, chicks are pulled by the confidence factor. I am at least as shy as you are and what you have to do is forget that you are shy and try this. Instead of trying to trick yourself into thinking you are confident... trick her into thinking that.

Topics of conversation... i.e. for a first time talking would probably be upcoming parties... esp good for asking if she will be there and that you "might see her there."

Well thats all the help I can give. Remember, any fool can listen to advice but it takes a wise man to use it properly...

confidence is cool but over confidence is not appealing.....one of the first things u should say is ur name so she see's that ur friendly....eye contact...and dont overtalk or babbleand if u've been seeing her around school, school would probably be a good topic to talk ya kno something in common.....and always smile!